Sometimes it feels like men aren’t really liked for who they are—only for what they bring. Dating often comes with a checklist: height, money, body, stability, confidence, performance. Miss one box and you’re out. But when I look at women dating women, the bar often isn’t a checklist—it’s simply... read more

14h

INFP

We don't know 😎

INFP

Taurus

Providing and taking care of dead weight is different

Dating’s been on my mind lately. I see a lot of men dating women who don’t really pour back into them—just take. Time, energy, money, emotional labor. I think part of the problem is men are wired to provide. It feels good to feel needed, so we don’t always realize when we’re not building... read more

INFP

Taurus

How you know you’re being used

There’s a clear difference between providing and being used. Providing feels like: – Effort with direction – Temporary stress but long-term progress – Mutual investment – Growth, even if it’s slow Being used feels like: – Constant exhaustion – Irritation over small things – No progress, just... read more

INTP

Capricorn

You don't have to forgive to move on, but don't let those unwanted feelings and emotions consume you and get in the way of you moving on There are things in life that are unforgivable, and if you can't forgive–you either move on or find reasons to forgive (edited)

INFP

Taurus

When did dating become a checklist?

I’ve been thinking about modern dating, and something feels off. A lot of men are evaluated through checklists—height, money, status, even body traits—before genuine interest is allowed to exist. It sometimes feels like attraction isn’t enough anymore; you have to qualify. What’s interesting is... read more

ESFJ

Capricorn

@36: A message to self

At 36, I hope you are proud of how far you’ve come. Life may not have turned out exactly as you planned, but you stayed strong, learned from your struggles, and kept going even on days you felt tired and unsure. Remember how many times you doubted yourself yet here you are. You chose growth over... read more

ENFJ

Capricorn

🐾

I got so much love I got so much patience I've learned from the pain How to handles pain Feel so amazing Ain't no need for searching, and for that I'll say Thank you for myself

INFJ

Sagittarius

Does everyone else feel at peace at a library?

ENTP

Virgo

royal WHAT?

how do i get THAT job?! 😂

20h

INFP

Taurus

I don’t like don’t like talking to person who don’t know how to listen to understand only know how to listen to give an answer

21d

INTP

Virgo

Thought of the day 😏 – What’s more fun in life: the journey or the destination? I’m curious… let me know your take 😎

I travel without moving, I grow without changing, and everyone has to choose me… but some enjoy the ride more than the end. What am I? 😏

24d

INTJ

Virgo

As a female..👀

Ive actually come to realize how hard it can be for men to approach a woman. Especially when he has good intentions. Like for me, sometimes I want to compliment a woman..but she just looks so angry and unapproachable. I mean I understand the "street face" thing but when I finally do approach and... read more

INTJ

Virgo

Ew..everyone's so boring today...😣

I need new people to talk to. 😬

36m

INTP

Capricorn

State of consciousness ✨

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INTJ

Virgo

Self reflection is needed for some.

Just because you think someone is pretty or better than you doesn't mean that you should attack their character due to your own insecurities. ☺️ It won't help you Anthony, Norman or Kevin.

24d

INTJ

Virgo

I just thought you all should know that I'm getting married next year. ✨️☺️

INTJ

Virgo

The truth is..

I don't align myself with negative people. People who are always complaining about something in their life...or someone. People who enjoy talking and lamenting about a problem despite being offered a clear solution. No. I dodge that. I avoid people like that because its exhausting for me and... read more

INTJ

Virgo

Let me just get this off my chest here a minute. 🪄

Some of the men ive met in my life seem to be of the opinion that I am simply waiting around for them to respond to me. 😐 Dude....i'm a BUSY gorl okay? Just like how you're a busy guy~ A multitasking whirlwind of existential chaos.. I am not waiting around to talk to youuuu~when you feel like... read more

INTP

Casual trolling ✨

Receiving random blast messages, including weird slang like “huzz,” is my playground. I’ll literally reply with something you won’t understand, because barely anyone replies anyway 😂😂 Returning the chaos and leaving you speechless 🙌🏻 (edited)

17d

ISTJ

Leo

😂

My Brother tried to blame me for his electricity bill 😂😂😂😂, but we don't live together 😂😂😂🤣But also we live at the same address 🤣🤣🤣. I live with our parents,he lives in a granny flat on the same property 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I just said Bro you talk Sh@t and told him to stop playing games at all... read more

INTP

Facts

19d

INFJ

Aquarius

👀AWAReNess Who else senses when people say they care but would rather not spend time with you? When they say thank you but want more? When you do something kind for someone but they have ill will towards you for your giving from your heart?? When good things happen to you but they secretly despise?

Sometimes this crushes my Soul when I sit and ponder. Reliving moments only for the truest and rawest version to be uncovered that I have veiled with empathy. UFFFFFFF😥

11d

INFJ

Aquarius

Have a 🤪Great Monday

4mo

ISFP

Virgo

🌱

It's better to get a bigger brain than a bigger house.

20d

INFJ

Libra

¿Why is earth full of fouls?

ISFJ

Even the strongest among us have their breaking points, even if they're not visible to the naked eye 💌

28d

INFJ

I hope next year I will have the courage to talk to someone again.🙂

10d

INTJ

Virgo

Where is the love? 🫠

27d

INFJ

Aries

🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

Some foreigners move to Thailand because it’s affordable, safe, and comfortable then somehow discover a deep disappointment with the people who make it that way. They save money here, buy houses here, raise their children here, and enjoy a level of stability they couldn’t manage back home, yet... read more

20d

INFP

Taurus

If a grown man say the youngest he would date is 18 cause that’s the legal limit he’s the reason the law was created

ISTJ

Leo

😑

INFJ

Pisces

Ah

Honestly I feel very lonely and sad. I never tell anyone about my real feelings cuz it makes no sense. But I just idk

INTJ

Virgo

Im so happy right now...🥹

I woke up thinking today was Monday. But its Sunday..and I feel SO relieved like....it really is the little things that can make your day. ☺️love these fake Mondays.

19d

ISTJ

Leo

☹️

Doesn't anyone feel like their literal soul is in pain ,not a nice feeling 😔.

ISFP

Cancer

Quietly. Unfortunately 🤫

I slowly lose interest when I start feeling ignored. When replies take a little too long, when the effort feels uneven, when it seems like I’m the only one trying to keep the connection going. I lose interest when kind words aren’t followed by the same care in actions, when I begin to wonder if I... read more

24d

INTJ

Virgo

Stop glorifying "cut off" culture. 🫠

You can miss out on something beautiful. Stop rushing things, and stop throwing your expectations on someone. Their reality isn't yours. We are all living our own lives, doing our own things. Just visitors or supporting characters for each other. Not everyone is meant to stay forever, but... read more

❤️

Thoughts Community

So positive 👌

Don't worry, I haven't forgot. But I have tweaked a plan or two. Lol

A nice sentiment.

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royal WHAT?

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Thought of the day 😏 – What’s more fun in life: the journey or the destination? I’m curious… let me know your take 😎

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The truth is..

Let me just get this off my chest here a minute. 🪄

Casual trolling ✨

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Facts

Have a 🤪Great Monday

🌱

¿Why is earth full of fouls?

Even the strongest among us have their breaking points, even if they're not visible to the naked eye 💌

I hope next year I will have the courage to talk to someone again.🙂

Where is the love? 🫠

🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

If a grown man say the youngest he would date is 18 cause that’s the legal limit he’s the reason the law was created

😑

Ah

Im so happy right now...🥹

☹️

Quietly. Unfortunately 🤫

Stop glorifying "cut off" culture. 🫠