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YOU GET TO DECIDE.

You are not your pain. You are not your mistakes. You are not your childhood. Your heartbreaks, or the people who couldn't love you right. You are what you chose to do with all of it. Every habit you've picked up, every fear you carry, every wall you've built, it all came from somewhere. And... read more

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Learning to unlearn my souls conditioning 🎀🌹

The world is vast and it should be

Immigrants have made me who I am. Growing up in foster care my foster mom was Portuguese and because of her efforts we were pulled away from another jehovahs witness family that wanted us. All of my friends in BC were Mexican orchard workers and I was too young to understand that none of the white... read more

Is labeling a sign of collective fatigue in understanding humanity?

Most people think labeling creates safety In reality, it often just creates distance without understanding Boundaries don't need character assassination to be valid If we want healthier relationships and a less brittle culture, we may need to unlearn the impulse to name before we know What would... read more

We’re All Just Trying to Come Home to Ourselves

Men taught to be strong. Women taught to be small. Both of us aching for connection but terrified to be seen. We’ve all inherited stories about what it means to be worthy, desirable, or “enough.” This is me peeling those layers back to look at how toxic masculinity, purity culture, and performance... read more