Upkeep Community

You also build and upkeep it this way 💕

More fun, being in sync, looking into each other's eyes when talking and staying close ❤️

LET’S BE HONEST

&& Physically, what would be your biggest turn off. Just one. Keep it clean. We are all adults. Don’t b/s me about appearances don’t matter. I will start… not proper grooming standards. I cannot do body odor or someone who’s to lazy to do upkeep.

Shared Spaces, Parenting & Boundaries

When does being flexible stop being kindness and start wearing things down, and how can you tell before frustration quietly replaces care? My answer: Living in shared spaces with someone else’s children, who are either already legal adults or about to start their first year of high school, has... read more

Living In Squalor

About 2 years ago, I had to move back in with my mother. She is by no means impoverished, but she neglects and hoards and refuses to pay for proper home repairs or upkeep. I had to grow up in this disgusting house. Moving back in was so degrading. But today was a breaking point. The electric stove... (edited) read more

Finding a pet

How do people normally go about finding an animal? I looked up a variety of different things the general consensus is go to a shelter as all the money you pay is for treatment and upkeep. But my main concern is then getting attached to more then one and feeling guilty as to leaving the other... read more

Gotta stay healthy

I've been feeling pretty icky lately not like I've gained weight but definitely sluggish and less nimble. I started up my stretching routine I did before so my body could do the splits. And it's a relief to know I can still do it I was having a sore off day but I've also definitely been lacking. I... read more