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widowed

It's really different when you are a mother because your body will change 😔

Quality time for a while...

Miss my long hair...Fierce woman

Hellooooo

As usual...

Good morning everyone and happy Sunday...GBU

💜

Went to visit my LW yesterday and told her I’m on a Dating app now.. 

Just after she passed I had three times within a month where a deer 🦌 crossed the road while I was driving.. never before and never after that month, but yesterday a deer crossed my path again…
I saw it as a sign from her ..

Visit

The school opening is just around the corner, so it's time to start preparing.
Big thanks to those helping hands 💕

Teacher's life 💪

Widowed at a young age, with no children to hold my hand through the journey, I learned to become my own strength. I choose self-love, healing, and the courage to embrace whatever future awaits me.🍀💪

Warrior 🤎

Happy Sabbath

No soy opción, soy el problema😏😘

I'm not an option, I'm the problem😏😘

Its probably been months since Ive used the pool. Dont worry; its still clean. Our pool man still takes cares of it.

Using the pool again

🤍🤍🤍

Se me fue con el sol, sin hablar, sin un adiós. No recuerdo ni su cara ni su voz. Se me fue con timidez, con la luz de anochecer. Ahora sé que no le supe comprender. Se me fue sin avisar. No le pude acompañar a su cita con la oscuridad. Yo no sé si me extrañó, si al final me perdonó. Solo sé que ya no está. Se me fue tan normal, una tarde, un día más. Tan fugaz que no le pude perdonar. Me miró, sonrió. ¿Cómo iba yo a saber que tal vez su sonrisa era un adiós? Se me fue sin avisar. No le pude acompañar a su cita con la oscuridad. Yo no sé si me extrañó, si al final me perdonó. Solo sé que ya no está. Se me fue tan natural, como el río al mar se va. Se me fue de aquí a la eternidad. Yo no sé si me extrañó, si al final me perdonó. Sólo sé que ya no está. Lo que es peor: no volverá.

Today, I also wanted to tell you something, but you were no longer here...

" You'll never know how strong you are until being strong is your only choice... " ❤️‍🩹

No choice...

so now im trying to date again. this is so odd for so many reasons. for one i thought i wouldn’t have to return to online dating. then i grew used to how my relationship with her was so i need to remind myself that its going to be different with the next girl. 
i guess i gotta navigate a bunch of these totally not macho feelings as i try to date again. 
i’ve never had much luck with dating to begin with but now it feels even more challenging after finding that special someone that i really thought i’d be with. we were stuck together like glue from the moment she asked me to come over. 
i want someone that makes me as happy as she did but ya know…  hopefully don’t f***ing die this time. i don’t think i could deal with that a second time. 💀

my ex ****ing died

How long has everyone been widowed for? It's been 14 years for me.

Widowhood

TGIF!
Waiting 🥰

Seeking 65+ Handsome Charmer

Sky is so pretty like the mommy who's standing 😉😜

Biarkan ku sembuh sendiri

Six months ago you breathed your last breath.  Six months ago I touched your face and told you goodbye.  Six months ago we went separate ways for the last time, never to meet again.  Six months ago, you finally stopped fighting.  Six months ago, my world changed forever.  Six months ago, you were finally at peace.  And six months later, I still think about you every single day.  I love you, sweetheart, and I hope you’re doing alright, wherever you are.  I will love again one day, but a piece of you will always be in my heart.

6 Months

Most days are okay, and I don’t miss her like I used to.  What I miss these days is having a person that loves me and is there to hold me at the end of a hard day.  Hopefully one day soon.

One of those lonely days

Black is gorgeous 😍

Rise and Shine!
It's Choose-Day... Choose to be happy!😀

My wife passed away almost six months ago after her second battle with cancer.  It's been hard since, but I've adjusted and I've gotten used to seeing her name on the countless medical bills that flood the mailbox.  But when I saw a package on the porch this afternoon addressed to her, I had no idea what to think.

Inside the box was an object that I had wanted badly that was on Kickstarter a few years ago.  At the time, she had said we didn't have the money to back the item, and I let it slide and simply forgot about it.  In truth, it seems, she wanted to surprise me with it at a later date and ordered it anyway.  Little did either of us know that she wouldn't be here to see my reaction.

She always knew how to surprise me, and it seems she succeeded one more time.  Clever girl.

A Gift From Beyond the Grave

I lost my daughter and fiance of 3 years(knew her for 10) 
In march.
I found it increasingly difficult to mourn as so many people flooded out of the woodworks to comfort me?
I remember about 2 months after it hit like a tidal wave.
And lit a fire under me. All the emotion had motivated me. I lost 43 kg, learnt part of her native language(japanese) conpleted various different certificates(like diplomas but in aus) in hospitality, food processing and business. And im now in the best physical shape of my life. I even started reading again.
Its as if everything became clear. Before all i wanted was her. And now i know who i am and what i want clear as day.

I'd like to know how your experiences differ from mine.
Most of the time its just people who take the loss really hard. But i believe taking in somebody elses unique lens on the matter might provide me some informational comfort.

Mainly just how you felt when it happened thanks.
Not how it happened. I dont believe you should relive that anyway.

Does anyone here that has lost loved ones care to share their experiences?

I feel this is going to stop me from meeting new freinds and making new relationships cuz some people can't get past the I'm so sorry bit I still were the rings

Widdowed at almost 40

Smile 😀 it's a free therapy ❤️

Behind every strong women, is a story that gave her no choice..
Goodnight every one

TGIF!🥰

I am alone

A Boo community for meeting other Widowed enthusiasts.

Widowed Community

It's really different when you are a mother because your body will change 😔

Quality time for a while...

Miss my long hair...Fierce woman

Hellooooo

As usual...

Good morning everyone and happy Sunday...GBU

Hey!

I admire...🤝✨🙏🌻

Single mothers and fathers should be treated completely differently IF

A Fortress of Walls

Making music is sexy! Why do you think they call it "mooo-sick"... ok, I'll work on that...

Sunset prayer