Uluntu lwe-Certainty
Uluntu lwe-certainty, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
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certainty
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Uluntu lwe-certainty, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
6 IISOULS
KONKE
certainty
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Iiposti Ezinxulumeneyo
Xa umntu endiwathemba engandilimaza, ingqondo yam ayisiyithathi nje le moment. Iqala ukujolisa kwiimemori zonke ezinxulumene nabo, ibuza ukuba yintoni eyinyani kunye nento engayi. Kwaye leyo yinxalenye edala ubuhlungu obukhulu. Hayi umphumo, kodwa ukulahleka okungazelelwe kokhuseleko. Kuba akukho…funda okungakumbi
Omunye undibuza ukuba ndingama-37 eminyaka, kwaye ubuso bam bokwenene bume njani. Ndiphendule ngokwenene: Ndingu-37 eminyaka. Le mifanekiso yam yokwenene. Kule ndawo ye-intanethi, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abantu bafune uqinisekiso kunye neqiniso. Ndiyabahlonela kakhulu ubulungisa — ukuba…funda okungakumbi


Umphakathi opholile malunga nomama osemntwaneni ozama ukwakha ubomi obukhuselekileyo kuye nakumntwana wakhe. Uhluphekiwe kwezinye iindawo, kodwa ugcwele ngemizuzu emincinci yethemba. Le ndaba yeziqendu eziyi-10 yeNetflix iphuhliswe nguStephanie Land. Abalinganiswa Abaphambili • Margaret Qualley…funda okungakumbi

Umntwana wam uyakhala ngaphezulu Ikhanda lam lithi, hayi Ngubani endiya kumamela kuye? Ikhanda lihlakaniphile Umntwana wam ngoku shaant Ulindele ukuba ndithathe isigqibo sokuphila Uyayazi kakuhle, andiya kumamela Kwaye ndiza kuyishiya Njengoko ingumgibeli nje Oh mntwana wam, Ndixolele…funda okungakumbi

Ukuba ndiyincwadi, andicingi ukuba ndingumlando wothando, okanye incwadi yokuzinceda. 🖊️Ndiyindida malunga nomfazi ojolise kumgangatho ophakathi, ongakhe waba nolonwabo olugqibeleleyo, kodwa uqhubeka ekhetha ubuqotho, ububele, kunye nesibindi sokuba yena. Umfazi onokubukeka eqinile ngaphandle,…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Ubomi yindawo apho izinto ezingalindelekanga zenzeka, ngaphakathi! Ukwenza yonke into ngokuqinisekileyo kudinga courage kunye nokholo. Abantu abanjalo bandinika umdlandla, kodwa ungayiqhubeka njani na?

"Ingqayi yam entle, Bathi umgama yivavanyo lokugqibela lothando, kodwa baphosa ukuba akukho nto ingakwazi ukumisa uthando lwethu. Nokuba ukwi mngcipheko wale planethi, umphefumlo wakho uphupha ngqo edlalweni lam. Yonke i-hb yami ikho kuwe. Ndikuxelele phambi kokuba ndilungele ukwenza nantoni na…funda okungakumbi
Andifuni uthando olugqibeleleyo.. Andifuni ubudlelwane obugqibeleleyo, ndifuna umntu osaba ukundilahla, umntu obalulekisa imizamo yam kwaye uzive enomdla ukuba ndikhona ecaleni kwakhe. Andifuni ukucela iintshukumo ezinkulu nokuphila ngaphandle kokungaphumeleli. Ndicela izinto…funda okungakumbi
Uthanda ukujolisa kwiinto Ukuze uqinisekise ukuba ukhona? Mhlawumbi iimpahla zokuhlobisa ezingezizo zakho. Iikristale, uphondo, i-violin yakho? Mhlawumbi iibhola okanye mhlawumbi iidrugs, Mhlawumbi isikhumba somnye umntu. Yintoni ekubuyisela emuva? Yintoni ekunceda uhlale? Yintoni uhlobo…funda okungakumbi
Ingqondo yomntu inobudlelwane obungakhululekanga nokungaqiniseki. Singakhetha ukwamkela ubuxoki esibaziyo kunokuhlala nenyaniso esingayaziyo. Ukuqiniseka kusinika ikhusi ngokwasengqondweni, nokuba iziseko zako ziyilwe nje. Oku kuchaza isizathu sokuba abantu bakhusele izimvo abangazange…funda okungakumbi
Mhlawumbi kubonakala kancinci njengokudala, kodwa ndiyathanda uhlobo lothando lwe-90's. Ukujolisa emehlweni, iincwadi zothando kunye nezipho ezincinci ezimfihlo ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba omnye umntu uya kuhlala okanye hayi.( ilungisiwe)
Kukho ixesha lokuba sifunde ukunceda omnye umntu, hayi ngoba sithathe umoya wokuthanda, kodwa ngoba ekugqibeleni siqonda ukuba uthando akufuneki lwenze sibe neentsuku zokucela ukuba sikhethwe. Ukuba omnye umntu akasafuni thina ebomini bakhe, masibavumele baphume ngokukhetha kwabo. Ungalandeleli…funda okungakumbi

Kukho into emnandi yokuphakanyiswa ngokuqinisekileyo. Ayikhawuleziswa. Ayiphoqwa. Ijolise nje.

Ukulinda ngaphandle ngelixa bejolise, uhleka nangona kuthatha ixesha elide. Ukulinda umyalezo ococekileyo ococekisa ingqondo yakho. Ukulinda ukubabona kwakhona emva kweveki okanye iinyanga. Ukulinda ukuba baphole kwiimeko zabo zangaphambili kwaye babe kulungile ngokomoya. Ukulinda ixesha,…funda okungakumbi
Emva kweMete Uzalwe kusasa, iimpumlo zifunda umhlaba phambi kokuba umhlaba uvumelane. Umzimba omncinci uthelekisa i-oxygen njengenkontileka engasusa. Uphilo lwaqala njengobuchule. Ukwazi njengomsebenzi. Uhlelo lweemvakalelo lwafunda ukufunda amagumbi njengoko izilwanyana zifunda…funda okungakumbi
Abanye abantu balinda amathuba. Abanye balinda umzuzu ofanelekileyo. Ndandilinde wena. Hayi kuba ndandingumntu ofuna ukugqiba ibali lam, kodwa kuba ezinye iintsebenziswano zifanele ukulinda. Uhlobo oluziva lufana ukusuka kwintlanganiso yokuqala, uhlobo oluletha uxolo endaweni yokudideka,…funda okungakumbi

NdinguYair... futhi ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba kutheni ndisebenzisa le app. Ndilahlekelwe ngumfazi endandimthanda. Hayi kuba saphosa ukuthandana. Hayi kuba omnye wethu uhambe. Hayi kuba sathanda ubomi obahlukeneyo. Ufile. Kwaye kukho into enobuqhophololo kakhulu malunga nokulahleka komntu…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Uzi njani ukuba kuthando? ❤️ A. Benza ukuba intliziyo yakho igijime. 🤍 B. Benza ukuba intliziyo yakho izive ikhululekile. Ngamanye amaxesha uthando alufunyanwa kwiibhakabhaka. Ngamanye amaxesha lufunyanwa kumphakathi, kumphakathi, nakwiqinisekiso elithuleyo lokuba ufumene omnye umntu oziva efana…funda okungakumbi
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Ndiyabheda, kuyahlanya. BOREDUMB. Hey, babe-- hru??? Indoda endingafanele ukuba ndiyicinga ngoku. Le ndoda endikhe ndangayazi. Okanye mhlawumbi le ndoda endiyazi kakuhle. Andiqondi. Ucinga?. Into endiyaziyo kukuba: Ukuba ndiyakuthanda, ndiza kukuthanda kakhulu. Le yimpawu yokuxwayisa. Le yiphepha…funda okungakumbi
Ndiyabona ukwanda okudabukisayo kwemigca ye "red pill" apha. Indlela engcono yokujongana nabo abantu ngokubanzi kukungabathathela ingqalelo, okanye ungabavula umphandle olula wokungahambelani kwiingxoxo zabo - ndiphuma kwiincwadi zam, ndicaphula: "Ngokunciphisa ubunzima obungenamkhawulo bokudibana…funda okungakumbi

Namhlanje ndavuka Ngehope ekhanyayo Njengemithi efikelela phezulu emzimbeni wam Ndiyavula amehlo am Emanzini Ndiphuma umoya, Iibhubesi ezingapheliyo Zinyuka Iintsimbi zokholo lokuba ukhona kwakho Zishushu, zithambile Zis spread phantsi kwam Ndiyaphumla kakhulu Kwi-ukholo lwakho…funda okungakumbi
Ngoku, masihlolisise ibali kwaye sikhuphe into efihliweyo ngasemva komfanekiso kaAslan. Kukho inkqubo eyakhiwe ngamagenerations abantu. Abantu abaphumelele kuthi bayakhe, kwaye iyaqhubeka nokubumba ubukho bethu. Ngaphakathi kwelizwe elithile, umoya ohlukile uyavela. Abantu bamkela iinkolo,…funda okungakumbi

Ah. Le mibuzo. Ayiyimibuzo kumqondo wezokuxhumana — ziyizivivinyo zokucindezela. Nganye ibuza ngokuthula: “Le mbono iyasebenza, okanye iyisikhumbuzo?” “Uziqonda njani le nto?” Ivavanya umthombo wombono. “Ungaqiniseki njani ngaphandle kokuyijonga?” Ivavanya inkqubo. “Ungathanda ukuba abantu…funda okungakumbi
Iqiniso lincinci, abantu abaphelele, kwaye uqinisekiso aluvamile. Cinga ngengqondo, ubuze imibandela, kwaye ungaphosisi ukuzithemba neqiniso. Nika abantu inkululeko yokuba bona kwaye ufune le nkululeko kwakhona. Gada abantu kancinci ngempazamo ezahlukeneyo kunokuba ngoko bakhetha ukwenza emva koko.…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Ubengekho mfuneko yokuphakamisa ilizwi lakhe ukuze abonwe. Ukuphuma kwakhe, ukuthula kwakhe, ubuhle bakhe yiyo le nto yayiyigunya lakhe. Uthule yinxalenye yokwenene yamadoda. Ubuhle phezu komsindo. Uthule phezu kobunzima. Ukuthula phezu kokufakazela. Le yindawo apho igunya lokwenene lihlala khona,…funda okungakumbi

Ndifuna uxhulumaniso olomeleleyo kangangokuba nakwiintsuku ezimbi sithumele kumntu omnye kuqala. Ndifuna ukuzibophezela okuqinisekileyo kangangokuba sikhuluma omnye komnye ngentlonipho nokuba sikhathazekile. Ndifuna ukuba ubcharacter bethu bomele kakhulu kunechemistry yethu kuba i-chemistry…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
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(Izikhumbuzo zokwenza izigqibo ezingafuni ukuba ulawulwe) Imodeli ye-CALM C — Buya Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo, jonga kwixesha langoku. Umoya omncinci omncinci ukuba lokho kukhululekile. Ziva iinyawo zakho okanye isitulo. Jonga ujolise kwinto enye onokuyibona. Injongo ayisiyonto yokuthi…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Ndicinga kakhulu ngale mihla malunga nokuba yintoni ukulawula imvakalelo kum kwaye ndafumanisa umphakathi ophakanyiswe ngumntu endandihlangana naye kwi sithuba. Kwixesha elide, ndicinga ukuba ndandithanda ukungazi ukuba ukuphila kakuhle kuya kuthetha ukuba andizukuziva izinto ngale ndlela…funda okungakumbi
Iipholi zihlala zikhupha iingcinga ezingalunganga— iifrog ezine-spines ezikhanyayo, iifrog ezibunjwe njengoko ukuphuculwa kwavuma ukuba kumangalise kwaye kwathiwa kulungile. Zihamba njengemibango emanzi, iindawo ezincinci zelungelo kwimisebenzi yeform. Abanye baphakamisa iimpumlo…funda okungakumbi
Abanye abantu banabangane abaninzi, kodwa abaninzi - ukuba bukhali - bangababona ngempela. Bafuna umntu oqaphela hhayi kuphela imisebenzi yabo, amagama, okanye impumelelo, kodwa nezingxenye ezifihliweyo: ukungabaza, ukoyika, ukungqubana, kunye neempawu ezixakileyo ezihlala zingabonakali. Ubomi…funda okungakumbi
Umjikelo omnye kwaye ndingakwazi ukubala. Ukungaphikiswa kwesiphelo. Ngokuzithandela ndathatha umgibeli. Ngaba yayikukhetha? (Ngaba yayikukhetha?) Iimathiyeli zazicacile ukusukela ngosuku lokuqala Kwaye ukuwa kuseqalile Kodwa ndicinga ukuba ndiphumelele? (Ngaba ndiphumelele?) Akukho mfuneko…funda okungakumbi
Le ngxoxo ibaluleke kakhulu malunga nokuba abantu bakhetha njani abalingani abanokubakho ngexesha lokuthandana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abaninzi baphikisa ukuba "uvavanyo" luyafuneka, kuquka ukuya kwiimeko ezinzima ezifana nokuhlala kunye okanye ukulala kunye phambi kokuzibophezela, ukuze kugwenywe…funda okungakumbi
Yisis Veilborne: Xa iZulu Liphuka Ipoem yeDark Fantasy yeNtlawulo yeThixo kunye neMikhwa engathembekiyo Iimpawu zaphuka zaba mnyama. Hayi mnyama njengemibala yeerhasi ezivuthayo phantsi kwelanga lasehlobo, Kodwa mnyama njengemilomo yeZulu, Njengemihla engamawaka yeenkwenkwezi ezifa zikhupha…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Ukwakha ukuzithemba kwakho njengo mfo kuvame ukudideka nokuzithwala ngenxa yokuba abantu abazi ngokuqinisekileyo umahluko phakathi kokuzazisa nokuphakamisela. Ukwazisa kukwazi ukuba nenani lakho ngaphandle kokufuna ukufakazela ukuba ungcono kunabanye bonke. Kukho ukwazi ukumisa kwizimvo zakho,…funda okungakumbi
"Akukho nto ibuhlungu njengokutshintsha okukhulu nokukhawulezayo emqondweni yomntu." "Ingwevu ehlakazekileyo iba yidemon enobungozi. Nokho, le mpungushe yeThixo nomntu yayineentombi kunye nabahlobo kwiimeko zayo; ndiyedwa." "Ndiyedwa kwaye ndiyaphoxa. Umntu ophukileyo njengam kuphela…funda okungakumbi
Misa ukujolisa kumsebenzi kwiingxaki zabanye. Ukulandela "iUnicorns" (amadoda anokukhuluma ngempela) akufanele kube njengomsebenzi ongenakufezeka. Ukuba uthathe umthwalo wezemotion zabantu abaninzi, awukho kubudlelwane; uphakathi kweprojekthi yokuphucula. Sifundiswe ukuba ukuba yiMamkeli…funda okungakumbi

Ngoba iqiniso ukuthi, angikaze ngihambe empilweni ngokuqiniseka okuthule ukuthi ngiy umuntu abantu abakhetha. Ngivame ukuzizwa ngikhona nje ngaphandle komfanekiso walokho okukhona eduze ukuze ngikubone, kodwa ngingakaze ngibe yingxenye yalo. Akukabi yinto eyingqayizivele ukuze ngivele, akukabi lula…funda okungakumbi