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Posted Tuesday, March 26, 2024
1mo
INTP
Gemini
Social interaction
It has always been hard for me to fit in anywhere, in any group. In the beginning I thought maybe it's just all me, but then over time I've realized it's more complex than that. It's bigger than me or even one person. I don't know what all the factors are, but I've always struggled with finding people I relate to or that even want to spend time with me. A lot of the time the people I end up being friends with are also different. I don't always mind being alone, I prefer it and even need it a lot of the time due to my sensitivities. But I guess I just wish that I could hang with someone occasionally. Most of my really good friends are online. I love and adore them, but sometimes they feel so far away, and it's because in reality they are. But going out there and partying and just talking to random people to get friends just isn't me. In fact it stresses me out. I'd rather I bond with someone over similar interests rather than random strangers. I guess that's why I'm here now, because I'm seeking something meaningful in my life. I try not to let it bother me, but it just does sometimes. Even the people I do meet, it's like my quirkiness can put someone off, and I never really know for sure what I did or what happened because those people usually end up being terrible communicators. So I guess..I'm just looking for a cool nice person to hang around. Cuddle, play games with, and talk to. It just always feels like that is so far way. Guess the only thing I can do is just keep challenging myself and putting myself out there. It's the only way to have new experiences.
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