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Borderline Personality Disorder Vs. Compulsory Heterosexuality

I wrote a paper over the summer when I was in undergrad about women/people who identify as lesbian with BPD who suffer with identity disturbance are more likely to fall into comphet and be someone they’re not due to a lack knowledge and confidence in oneself and their identity. It shows how... read more

What do men actually want in a woman these days?

I’m 22, emotionally intelligent, ambitious, grounded in my values, I want kids, and I believe in god. I come from a good family, I’m in grad school, and ive done a lot of inner work, I dont run from discomfort or growth. Im curious, what actually draws you in when dating? Not surface level... read more

Non existent work life balance

It's funny how life works. 3 years ago I was a new grad with basically no direction nor goals. I didn't know what I wanted to do. In 2024 I found what I wanted to do with my life and I basically made it my life.problem came that i placed my friends and personal life in the backseat to focus on... read more

Going towards Cleveland TN who wants to grad dinner Feb 17

graduATE✨️

wore balinese kebaya for my grad day!! kinda obsessed😜

Feeling "bothersome" to friends

I have a small handful of friends from work, but I always feel like a bother whenever I text them or ask to hang out. Most of them are grad students or employees just starting new jobs, so I expect that they sometimes will have a tight schedule. However, I often get ghosted and they always... read more