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Posted Sunday, January 8, 2023

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Men...question....

Is it weird, uncomfortable, or intimidating if the lady brings in more money than you?

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Aniket

INTJ

Capricorn

As long as it isn't used as a point in arguments , or use tht to insult...

Alexandr 🐺

INTJ

Scorpio

I am ok with it. But one part of me would want to work harder and earn more.

Taylor

INTP

Aquarius

As long as they don't use it to belittle me or think less of me, I'm good 😊

Brian

ISTP

Eh, not really. Might be weird if the money shows up in black duffel bags though.

Deangelo

ENFP

Sagittarius

Hell no, the house be spotless and the kids be in bed before 8:00 everyday if you're making more bread than me 😂

Valensco

INTJ

Scorpio

I'd like to be on equal terms, so that I wouldn't feel a burden. Money os hard to earn. I would celebrate her sucess, but prefer equality. Not intimidating at all

Dhana

ENTJ

Capricorn

Fun fact : I don't think so becoz if that's how they feel then there is no "dowry" exits . Real fact : no one can say no to money if you are in real need .

Derek

ENTP

Pisces

Hell no! Lol make your money girl! If you have earned it and deserve that money I'm all for people making money no matter race,sex or beliefs

Vellowilson

ISTJ

Capricorn

Man don’t care about that only if you loyal and are you his peace!!!!

The loser

INFP

Taurus

I got a coworker who's wife makes more than double his pay, and they are happy. Also, as some guys have vividly pointed out. It really depends on the guy, but it also depends on if the attitude of the woman changes for the worse or not. When my ex told me she makes more than me. I congratulated her, and told her I was happy for her success, and to work on paying everyone back including me.

Aryan Gupta

INTJ

Scorpio

Well you are a team right, aren't we both winning then?

Tyler the gemini

INFJ

Gemini

It would be very uncomfortable for me. I am very adaptable so I'd adapt to it in time but I definitely wanna be able to take care of my woman not the other way around any man who isn't at least uncomfortable by the thought of they're woman providing more than you is a sad excuse of a man. Imo

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ISTP

Aquarius

It's okay for me if a lady is being capable and earn more it's being proud while some girls and ladies just spend a mature women earn a good amount of money.

Chris

INFJ

Libra

Not at all. There have been times where I made more money and times when they have. Its the life we make together that is important, not the value of our paycheck.

Jakub

ISTP

Gemini

Nah, relationships are a team effort. I'd love to be a stay at home boyfriend and take care of the house instead of working 😂

Mylo

INTJ

Scorpio

Not at all..I would be happy 😌

Randy

ESTJ

Pisces

Yeah literally was told I wasn't good enough because she made more money than me and she left me 3 days before Christmas....I have a good paying full time job...she was a 23 yo bartender 😒 like of course yur gonna make more money it's not rocket science and a year of my life was wasted on false love

Ben

ESTJ

Cancer

I'm fine with it as long as it's not held over me.

John

INFP

Cancer

I feel I would appreciate and respect that she was bringing in more money, at the same time I may feel insecure.

Ryan

INFJ

Libra

Well, I'm in a gay marriage. So, I really can't say the "lady" in this situation. However, the point is you shouldn't feel that way. It's just a sign of fragile masculinity which is a Red Flag! I'm very proud that my husband makes more than me! He's amazing at what he does and I brag about him all the time! If your partner gets upset or jealous every time you better yourself or achieves something, then that's a toxic environment and you need to leave.

Matt

INTJ

Sagittarius

No absolutely not I like a powerful woman, she can do whatever she wants, I'm happy as long as we're not fighting. Life's too short for that. Rather be planning what we could be doing together or learning together or just doing nothing together. My worry would be, when this has happened to me in the past, my ex and I had to switch roles because I hurt my spine at work and after a while I felt her anger with that and yeah, long story short we're not together. This wasn't by far the only thing that broke us up, but, I think real question is, Ladies, is it ok is your man makes less than you? What is the worth of a man these days? Is it as a protector or more so a provider? Will you stay with him if he makes nothing for a while? It's definitely a divided subject

Stan chase

ISFP

Taurus

It shouldn't be matter of fact it would motivate me to do more it's no competition nor reason to feel less here its a benefit to us all as long we both do our best

Yashveen Sangwan

INTJ

Capricorn

Intimidating

Conor

INFP

Taurus

This doesn't bother me at all. My wife makes more than me but we don't look at it as a competition. It's our money

Irene

INFP

Taurus

Sure loyalty very important

Harshit Jain

ISTP

Capricorn

This is 2023, If 2 people together can make 800~900K $ a year then that's the lifestyle everyone should look forward and follow regardless of looking who makes more.

Eric

ESFJ

Cancer

If she's making the money through working so hard that doesn't allow much family or date time, or causes stress and constantly puts her on edge, that's somewhat of an issue. If she's happy doing it, has time to enjoy us, and it doesn't change her personality. I'm all for it. Everybody has different opportunities given to them in life, she was given one and went for it. If it interferes with the relationship, then it just wasn't meant to be.

Matty

INTJ

Pisces

I would be extremely happy if the lady has success.. it's totally fine and I wouldn't feel uncomfortable if she can earn more than me, actually sometimes it's really tough to be the provider.

Karl

ENFP

Cancer

Of course not, in my view this is normal, and proves that the relationship has a healthy bias!

Daniel

INTJ

Sagittarius

Damn, I hope my future bb brings in more money than me. That'd be the bees knees. Good for her for having aspirations like that

iuri

INFJ

Taurus

Doesn't matter to me

Joshua Dunald

ESFJ

Capricorn

It's a bonus. Why should you feel insecure when it's helping both of you. Don't mind what people would say. You can't satisfy anyone. As long as you and your partner happy, that's important. It doesn't always have to be man should earn more than women.

Michael

INTP

Taurus

Not if she's willing to share 🤷🏻‍♂️

Sidharth

INFP

Leo

It is if the lady is my partner if she's a sister or mother then no prob at all

Max

INFP

Scorpio

No.

Eddie

INFP

Cancer

For the longest time my wife made more than I did, and I was thrilled about it. She was kicking the systems butt. Now we make about the same but she still kicks all the butt!

Simon

ENFJ

Aries

Hell no, it's your success and you own it!

Taylor

INFJ

Taurus

Not really. For me, I don't care how much money they bring in. I'm content to live in a shack as long as we're together. Thats what matters.

Patrick

ESFJ

Taurus

No. I would find it great. Both people in the relationship working hard to make a good living heck ya.

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