Posted Friday, February 18, 2022
3y
INFJ
Virgo
Could height make or break a connection?
Women and men come in many beautiful and unique shapes and sizes 💗. I'm only 5'10'' and without fail, many men have been discouraged from meeting me in person due to my height. It seems as though a man dating a tall/taller woman takes away from their sense of masculinity. What are your thoughts on dating and height difference? Ladies do you prefer dating women/men shorter or taller than you? Guys do you have a preference when looking for a woman/man? Could height make or break a connection?
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3y
INTJ
Virgo
I'm 5'3 so I've always been the short one. Which I'm fine with. I would totally date someone considerablely taller than myself. I just have to find them attractive and like their personality. (edited)
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3y
INTP
Taurus
Yeah, I am only 5' 6" but I can't date anyone shorter than me. It's just too awkward. I was taking ballroom dance lessons once and the only dude in the class was a super shorty. Trying to dance with him was awful, we couldn't even do many moves that required things like me twirling under his arm or him putting his arm around me because his arms were so short. I was really sorry for the guy because it was not his fault but I just don't want a partner that can't even get their arms around me.
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3y
ISFJ
Libra
I personally have a preference that if am dating a woman then i prefer her being smaller and if am dating a man then i want him to be taller. Tho if i had a girlfriend and she was taller than me i would still love that because i know that being cuddled would be amazing XD. i do have the height preference but it doesnt really make or break it for me
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3y
INTP
Cancer
I personally have a thing for shorter women but being slightly above average height isn't a deal breaker. I think those guys are being a little ridiculous if it is.
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3y
ESFJ
Gemini
My ex kept joking about my height while we were still dating. Eventually ends up cheating on me with a much taller guy. 😅 I'm 170 cm, by the way. That has been my experience with this height thing, but it's only 1 data point of course. It's not representative of the whole picture, I get that. Personally, I don't mind dating someone taller than me. I think it's cool to be honest. I don't get the (fragile?) masculinity mindset of dating only someone smaller. If you want to be scientific about it, I mean, why on earth would I say no to good genes? But I'm fine with dating someone smaller too. Height isn't a make or break for me. At the end of the day, the personality matters the most. (edited)
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3y
ISTJ
Leo
Height doesn't matter but if the guy is taller than me much better
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3y
ISTJ
Scorpio
It varies from person to person, I've dated a girl who's 5'11" while I'm only 5'6". (edited)
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3y
ENFJ
Virgo
I'm sorry to hear that. I don't understand the constant ego issue behind height and I'm 5'11" myself. I'd date a woman that was 7' tall in a heartbeat if she treated me well. Lol
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3y
INTJ
Capricorn
size should not be a problem
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1
3y
ENFP
Cancer
I'm 5'8 and I don't care if my woman is shorter or taller. I'm confident enough in my masculinity. If a man will think "I must protect my woman", what being 6 ft gonna do for you when are facing a gun? 😂 Hell, I know some women can fight and be stronger than lots of men. We are not living in the 18th century. 🤣
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3y
ENFJ
Pisces
You're 5'10", and you still have dating problem? How?🤔
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3y
INFP
Scorpio
<6' Is a shortie, doesn't matter if you're a man or woman.
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