Softness Community

Scorpio Coded

I am not calm. I am contained. A glass ocean with a locked jaw, moon-pulled and tidal underneath. You see the still water; polite, observant, unshaken. What you don’t see... is the undertow sharpening its teeth. There is a black hole in my ribcage, but it does not destroy. It devours light; only... read more

Dissociation

Addiction. It's unbelievably difficult for me to stop dissociating. From reading, movies, to stress, and worry, daydreaming, shopping, there's always things to detach from the real world. It's become my normal, that i never feel at home in my body. It's frustrating, but i know i can start to... read more

Always be 💚

I carry softness, but I am not fragile. I know when to open my heart and when to protect it.

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Lesson learned: not everyone deserves your softness. Less innocence, more awareness.

If I were to describe myself

I’d describe myself as a cactus. I thrive in tough environments the kind that drain people, the kind that make others give up. While some need perfect conditions to grow, I learned how to survive in heat, pressure, and drought. Hard times didn’t break me; they shaped me. Just like a cactus stores... (edited) read more

I pray we end up in the hands of those who know how to hold us

Not tightly out of fear. Not loosely out of carelessness. But gently. With the kind of love that understands our history, our softness, our limits. I pray we are held by people who don’t drop us when things get heavy, who see the weight we carry and choose to stay anyway. (edited)