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Marcia
Marcia

2mo

ENFP

Cancer

Question to Men- Why do you hate loving girls?

Why is it that men push away all of the nice women and women who are eager for commitment and instead opt for the women who are b*tchy and emotionally unavailable? And how come these SAME men, years down the line, will be old and decrepit worn out sacks of flesh begging to hit on the same eager and young adult women who they declined years ago because NOW they realize their mistake of pushing all of the nice women away? πŸ€” what makes Men think they're entitled to the same girls they were willing to reject years ago?

Question to Men- Why do you hate loving girls?

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droolstain
droolstain

2mo

INTP

Virgo

6
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Women and men on dating apps be like:

Women and men on dating apps be like:

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Marcia
Marcia

2mo

ENFP

Cancer

All the men in this comments section are the exact type of men this post is about. Way to prove a girl's point LOL

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Johnny M
Johnny M

2mo

ENTJ

Cancer

8
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Seems like you’ve made up your mind about this issue.

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Gari πŸ΄β€β˜ οΈ
Gari πŸ΄β€β˜ οΈ

2mo

ISTJ

Pisces

8
7

If I had to guess to why they push them away prolly comes down to preference. Chances are those loving women dont align with the preferences they have. And later down the line they regret not giving the loving woman the chance. Answering this question is hard since each case can, and most times, is different. But hey, I'm just shooting from the hip here and hope I helped.

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Claire
Claire

2mo

INFP

Pisces

9
1

This is really quite the generalization :l

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Baruj
Baruj

2mo

INTJ

Aquarius

Honey it’s you that choosing the wrong man to love you , when you find the one you will know

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Stephen
Stephen

2mo

ESTJ

Pisces

8
7

Oh, this is gonna be a *great* thread.

Oh, this is gonna be a *great* thread.

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Cody
Cody

2mo

INFJ

Libra

6
7

Personally, I have seen people in my social circle do the same thing and it bugs me to the point I have warned them but wind up as the bad guy. I think there has just been this misguided idea that those are the type of people to go for, maybe as a consquence of the way media has portayed certaim groups and utilising alot of stero types. The best approach really is to look for someone who is physically appealing to you the individual but prioritize other factors such as how much they care and emotional availability. Sorry for the long read πŸ˜… (edited)

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Lodin
Lodin

2mo

INTJ

Scorpio

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βš”οΈŽπ•­π–Šπ–—π–™βš”οΈŽ

2mo

ESTP

Virgo

4
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Exact same can be said of women, don't generalize to just one group when both are doing the same stuff.

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Ash
Ash

2mo

ISTJ

Capricorn

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It's more of a human thing than a gender thing imo and I think the comments are probably going to reflect that, the same issue seems to occur on both sides of the fence. If we are talking about 'normal' people, the great majority even if they choose us will likely just waste our time, there is something very odd about normal people, they just don't seem to get empathy and care in a sincerest way, rather it seems to me to be that they like someone for selfish, superficial reasons or because they're useful to some goal theyre aspire to but it's often a one way street as they give themselves exception to a lot of the rules they expect from the partner. Some people are just different in my opinion, those are the ones who should be together because they aren't together just to scratch some itch, it's genuinely about a loving close relationship that's mutually beneficial and built over time through self management and thoughtful generousity, however I think culturally we are inclined to pick those who are considered 'normal' and consequently empathetic people waste their time with the people who don't share their values. That is just my opinion as that is about all I can speak on (edited)

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John
John

2mo

INTJ

Pisces

6
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It's a natural growth arc as people solidify in what they need rather then what they think they want. That knife cuts both ways gender/sex wise.

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SURYODAY
SURYODAY

2mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

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M

2mo

INFP

6
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I guess attachment theory explains this. Anxious attachment style men go behind avoidant attachment style women. When they get old, they probably have had enough time and experience to understand this dynamic and realize that they should have chosen someone who would have actually loved them back as they really needed to be, instead of choosing those whom they thought they wanted. Maybe they go back to that very person they rejected years ago hoping that they would accept them now.

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