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Posted Thursday, September 8, 2022
2y
INFP
Scorpio
What makes you think you're hard to love?
I have a lot of insecurities and I think it makes me unlovable?? Have you ever experienced things like this??
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Samuel
2y
INFJ
Aquarius
It might not make you unlovable as such. However, it may mean you lack (sufficient) self-love. Cease high expectations. Realise you're only human. Don't give in to cricism. They're mere opinions, not facts. Remember to be your own best friend and develop self-love. This means that you accept, respect and support. Having self-love increases the quality of your life. You feel better about yourself, you feel more worthy of 8ther people and in general, and you'll feel more content and safe!
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Leah
2y
INFP
Gemini
I'm pretty distant. I think it's hard to get close to me and spend time with me since I'm so used to being alone.
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Jansen
2y
ENTJ
Scorpio
I feel like I present both my true self and an inauthentic, masked version of myself when I meet someone. I struggle with my identity sometimes and have never understood how to present my most "presentable" self. There's always two parts fighting for dominance and I think that might confuse most people. It confuses me sometimes. I am still looking for someone to see *me*.
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Pablo
2y
INTP
The society of my country is garbage and most girls are looking for a MDLR/trap appearance or an exaggerated and forced e-boy/skater. If you are not like that, you do not contribute anything to today's society.
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