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What are we thinking?

If we look at the "Looking for..." options, the full term is "Short-term Fun" and not "Short-term Relationship". Sometimes I wonder if people are defining and interpreting these terms differently because of the missing keyword. Anyway, here are my interpretations: "Long term partner" sounds like they're only looking for someone special to bond with and ready to share their future, hoping for something that'll last at least a few years to a lifetime. "Short term fun" sounds like they're only looking for temporary connections and pleasures, something that'll last a few hours to a few months max. Fast-food Love. "Long term, open to short" sounds like they want a serious partner with commitments but also like to have casual flings with no ties at all. "Short term, open to long" sounds like they prefer casual flings but will consider if they meet someone special. "Friends" sounds like they want something without romance or attraction involved, strictly friends with zero benefits other than emotional support. "Friends and Dating" sounds like they're looking for romance but prefer to start as friends and okay with things like platonic relationships and slow burn romance. What are you looking for? Do you think this changes how you and others think about your profile?

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1y

Lol "fast food love" Thank you for the term im stealing it.

1y

I am a mostly slow burn kind of person yet I can match energy sometimes. Friendship is the most important base first. It's about building trust.

1y

I answered short term, open to long just to be honest. I truly feel like no one would really want me at all. I don't even have enough money for my own mom to like me. Best case scenario is being used until they find the next best thing. I've only had 2 relationships that ended this way. Frankly, that combined with the verbal abuse and casual disposal of people through online dating has really screwed me up. I get that there are always better options. I understand that I'm the problem and wouldn't want to force my existence onto people any more than absolutely necessary. For this reason, I don't expect anyone to come around, and they definitely won't stay. I'll take what I can get. I know it isn't much since I deserve nothing

1y

Friends are always welcome, the more the merrier. If I happen to find a guy who isn't into sex 24/7 and we click, I'll consider dating, but until I find that guy, friends are all I focus on.

1y

Well, get cheated on few times, gives you a golden ticket for "fast food love" 😅🤌

1y

My +1 to the zombie apocalypse. Or a wife if things stay normal.

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