Chris

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INTP
Aquarius

6w7

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Question for the ladies

Hypothetical question ladies. Would you rather: be with a man who is average looking, makes $40k a year for the rest of his life, is average/ok in the bedroom and would never cheat? be with a man who is makes $100k a year, is a 9/10, can rock your world in the bedroom but occasionally hooks up with a side girl?

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Shirin

1mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

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If only these two people are left in the world😒, the first option.

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Chris

1mo

INTP
Aquarius

6w7

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Why does the first one seem so unappealing to women? Why are women drawn to the second guy, knowing that it'll go down like the Hindenburg?

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Shirin

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Scorpio

4w5

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@Chris The problem is that you did not give any interesting information in both cases. It seems more like an administrative recruitment and we have to choose between bad and worse.🙄

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Chris

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Aquarius

6w7

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@Shirin it's because I was focusing on a few specific details. I posed a similar question for the lads out there

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IVY ROSE

1mo

ENFJ
Libra

6w5

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@Shirin exactly my point which is why I didn't chose either. They both sound like which is sh*ttier and which is what you will settle for.

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Shirin

1mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

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@Chris please in next question, use dream more

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KassieLea

1mo

INFJ
Aquarius

8w7

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If I had to choose out of those 2 .... Option 1, but life isn't that straight forwards unfortunately.

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Chris

1mo

INTP
Aquarius

6w7

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I know. It's just a hypothetical. It seems that a number of ladies would pick guy #1, but most seem reluctant or unsatisfied with that. Trying to figure out why ladies say they want good guys, yet they toss them out to the curb, get damaged and hurt by a bunch of losers, then come back around in their 40's seeking the guy she threw to the curb in hopes that he's got enough super glue to put her back together. Seems to be some messed up thinking going on in some women's brains

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Christy

1mo

INTJ
Leo

9w1

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First one because I value people who are loyal.

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Evaana

1mo

ENFP
Sagittarius

7w8

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First one, no contest

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Renae

1mo

INFJ
Aries

4w3

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If those are the only two options, definitely the first one

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Yo

1mo

INTP
Cancer

I'd be single lol

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Eli

1mo

INFP
Virgo

First option. There are things we can sort out together, but cheating..definitely not :)

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Nah

1mo

INTP
Aquarius

2w1

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I'll take A, if he has patience, tolerance and support me as a human.. A all the way.ot i just stay by myself as i do now

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Ci A

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Virgo

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Which one will spend his money on only me? 🤣 at this point it's picking someone you're unattracted to vs someone you are physically attracted to for a dating period.

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Chris

1mo

INTP
Aquarius

6w7

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How do you know your man (or the one you'll end up with) isn't settling for you? Settling wasn't really the topic of discussion either. It's about choice. What values do women really want vs the values they actually chase. Your personal life wasnt brought into the question.

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This is actually a very perplexing topic when coupled with your post for the lads. I try to be a neutral observer on stuff like this. I see comparing genders like comparing apples and oranges. They are fruit but have no other place to compare on the same level because they are different. Not that an apple is superior to an orange, just different. People are dynamic where if one gender has a weakness, the other can merge and provide the support the other gender lacked. We are equal in the way that both genders do not have it all in one. However, your posts seem to lead with your conclusions of the scenarios before even getting any raw data to support that. The way you worded the lad's question suggests you see women as having the specific ideal role of being as virginal as possible while serving hand and foot for you in the kitchen and bedroom. The post for ladies suggests you think women only care about money and have no self respect. Both of these scenarios seem like toxic examples to me. Women are not baby factories or maids and men are not just pocket books or joysticks to ride. I think these examples show how traumatized people have become where both of the sexes embrace toxic ideals of each other and it just further drives a wedge between men and women as a whole.

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