Just because a woman had a bad experience with men who aren't good doesn't mean she "entertained" a low value man. Some men are master manipulators who can put on a mask before revealing their true self after confrontation or a challenge. Don't just assume that she didn't "vet" him or what not, half the time there is more to the story but because you assumed instead of ask, you have labeled her as stupid or naive. Judgement doesn't help anyone learn or grow.

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Aquarius

We can never really know anybody, especially from a distance or in online dating. All we can do is come up with a best guess of what that person is really like from our encounters with them and the info they convey to us. People can fake impressions and often paint themselves in a more positive light. Bad experiences are likely to come out of it but it's the risk we take for an overall positive experience.

S the Nosy Aunt 🦝✨️

ISFP

Deceitful men, are playing the long term game. I've been fooled few times by such men. Their impact was tremendous! They've eroded my self esteem so bad to the point of me finally emulating misandrist mindset to protect myself. (edited)

Arda

ENTJ

Gemini

What is the funny thing in this post, everyone putting mask, honest persons wearing mask, bad persons wearing mask, no need to gender for wearing mask we are human and we don't trust anyone and we living social. If manipulator doing to manipulate a victim, thats victim problem because he/she already to manipulation.

Christy

Author

ISFJ

Leo

@JB You said that I assumed that you are a good man ? It seemed to be what you were saying previously 😂. You said that you are confident and have nothing to be ashamed of, then saying that women are used to being lied to so they don't believe you. With that statement it seemed to imply that you are "the good man". Then when I said that you are the "bad man" you disagreed 😂. Your statements seem contradictory.

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Max

18h

ESFJ

Sagittarius

Wasting time

Why are there so many people wasting mine and other people's time and effort to look for a partner. For example some women will talk to a man for a few minutes and already know it's not gonna work Just because he doesn't text or talk like you shouldn't mean to waste his time and effort in trying... read more

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Kayla

INFJ

Sagittarius

We need better dating apps

Yes, Boo, this includes you. I wish there were an app exclusively for monogamous and serious daters. No more profiles with dating goals like “undecided” “short term” and “long term but open to short”. I’m not saying I’m going to marry the next guy I go on a date with, but I want to meet people that... read more

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Emma

ISTP

Capricorn

1 Award

Love this top ☺️

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Mel

13h

ENFJ

HNY🥂🌸

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Samay

ISFP

Capricorn

ladies, do you prefer a man who has a stable job & no car or is a trust fund kid but drives a bugatti

#memes

AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

10h

ENFP

Cancer

👌💯😄

#meme #funny #truth #dating #relationship #friends #friendship #psychology #philosophy #people

#dating

Shal

18h

ISFJ

Leo

Love

Are you here for fun or you are seeking for a long time relationship and how has it been so far

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Eva

INFJ

Gemini

1 Award

Why?

Why is it that people on these sites are so quick to do intimate things with people that they don't know? Like no... Just because I tell you that I'm a horrible sleeper does not mean I want you in my bed or that I want to be in your bed. I don't like people,🤢🤢🤢🤢

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Nataly

ISFJ

Aries

Men:

Why do you post a profile photo with another man/men if you're looking for dates? 🤔 Women: Have you ever liked one man and when you scroll down it turns out to be the other man? 😅🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

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Sha

INFJ

Cancer

Complete this sentence: "I wish I had someone with whom I could share ..."

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Maranda

18h

INFJ

Leo

Welp...

And people wonder why trust issues exist. It also only gets worse as you get older :(

#comedy

Bonnie

14h

INTP

Taurus

When your crush doesn't trust you.

#dating #funny #romance

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mikah

ISTJ

Leo

Coffee date with my friends

Just taking a selfie while waiting to my friend

#aquarius

Thea

14h

INFP

Aquarius

Okay

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Oxadeno1

23h

ISFP

Scorpio

💔👎🏽

When lots of love is given but not recieved so going to hold back on giving love out. Tips on how to change the ratio? #Boo #OnlineDating #AllLove #NoneRecieved #HopelessRomantic (edited)

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Marife

11h

INTJ

Pisces

They didn’t ghost you because you weren’t enough, they left because they weren’t ready to face themselves.

#question01

S the Nosy Aunt 🦝✨️

13h

ISFP

What would be your pettiest reason to date someone?👀

Mine is in the comments 🤭 #dating #romance #boo

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Cameron

17h

ENFJ

Aquarius

Well, it's the beginning of 2025. Hopefully my chances of finding someone special is better this year.

#single #universe #general #romance #dating #phoenix #arizona

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Louise

20h

ENFP

Sagittarius

Legit 🤣

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Danielle

INFP

Scorpio

All the gross men who try to match with me are just a waste of time, I've given plenty of them chances and it's the same patterns and behavior. My studies on this app are plateau-ing

I said what I said

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𝙰.𝚓.

INFP

What is one thing you look for in a dating profile picture?

I know it might sound a bit cliché, but I really look for a genuine smile. It’s hard to put into words, but it’s one of those things you just *know* when you see it. There’s an energy in it...something that feels so real, it makes you smile back, even if it’s just from a photo. Does that make... read more

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Dani

INTP

Libra

message me

hiii

1/2

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Jin

INTJ

Gemini

Do men or women have it worse on dating apps?

Men must navigate thousands of profiles and think of something unique to say in the message. Women get bombarded with too many likes but don't have to search for profiles. I also feel that apathy has set in, and neither side really cares enough to establish a good rapport and then go on a date.

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Connor

15h

INFP

Scorpio

It's 4am and I'm still doom scrolling.

Anyone else in the same boat, I should really sleep. Here's a picture of a cat that has my facial expression right now. 😅

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Levan

23h

ESTJ

Virgo

Charm or misery

Whats the best pickup lines you've been told? And the worst?

#memes

Jorge

20h

ISFJ

Gemini

Cheeky bugger.😂

#dating #romance #funny

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Rafael

13h

INTP

Virgo

What class do I seem to teach🤔???

#dating

Michael

23h

INTP

Scorpio

No games

"I'm not into games and want what's real" proceeds to use heavy filters on every pic they post..

#jokes

Ash

13h

INFP

🙈🙉🙊

#memes #jokes #funny #comedy #romance #dating #relationship #longtermrelationship #cats #animals #horror

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Jussy107

INFP

Cancer

Question

Would you date a guy who has a female housemate? (edited)

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Markeith

15h

INFJ

Capricorn

Dating apps cost money now?

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Olivia

ISFJ

Sagittarius

Twelve grapes at NYE

Lol I did it and manifest some wishes. Let's see how it works on dating terms 😉😆

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Sarah

INFP

Capricorn

To text or not to text?

When someone says they want to know you more and you start texting but then they totally stop responding... I would love to know why people think it's cool to just ghost someone. Why bother asking to text with a person if you're not actually going to answer? EDIT: I'm talking about when you've... (edited) read more

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Patricia

INTP

Aries

I just ate 12 grapes at midnight during new year’s eve in order to bring love into my life. I knocked my head on the table during the process.. Jason Momoa better show up to my door asap🙄😤🥴

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Jeremiah

ISTP

Taurus

Feels like it's really come to that point in my life

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Erick

12h

ENFP

Gemini

Seven years ago

Would you date yourself seven years ago?

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Prateek

ESFJ

Sagittarius

Starting 2025 on a Sweet Note

A new year begins with a scoop of happiness in hand. 🍦 What better way to start than with the sweetest thing you love most, bringing smiles and endless joy? Life’s little moments are meant to be cherished, making every day as delightful as your favourite ice cream. 💖 - What’s the sweetest thing... read more

My Favourite Dessert 🍰

Quality Time with Loved Ones ❤️

Exciting New Adventures 🌍

Self-Care and Growth 🌟

Dreams and Goals to Chase 💭

A Fresh Start and Positivity 🌈

A readiness to find ‘the one’ 💍

My Beloved Pet 🐾

A heart full of hope ❤️

Romantic surprises waiting to happen 🎁

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Sam

11h

ESFJ

Capricorn

2025

Germany has been treating me really nicely so far 🤍😁 (edited)

1/3

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Erika

ESTP

Leo

New Chapters

Starting over has been a journey. #love #life #dating #widowed #leo #newstart

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Michael

ESFJ

Capricorn

Being a single goth male means

I can be who I want to be and not what someone sees me as being 🥰🥰🥰 #single #dating #goth

1/2

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Evelyn

INTP

Scorpio

So sad that I did not find true love in 2024 but I keep pushing in this new year 2025, can I find matches.

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Riri

13h

ESFP

Scorpio

Hi

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dasfiregod

22h

ENTP

Capricorn

I'd wager

there's some sort of direct correlation to be found between the number of men I see on here bemoaning their inability to find a romantic partner and the number of men I see that find it acceptable to walk around in public wearing pajama pants. FFS - make some sort of effort ya slobs!

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Deceitful men, are playing the long term game. I've been fooled few times by such men. Their impact was tremendous! They've eroded my self esteem so bad to the point of me finally emulating misandrist mindset to protect myself. (edited)

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