Vanshika Garg

Posted Tuesday, October 10, 2023

7mo

ISTJ

Cancer

✊The Necessary & A Worthy Choice

✊ I understand that the weight can be overwhelming when you realize that you're the main one who is actively taking the steps to address and break long-standing patterns of damaging behavior and trauma of being in a toxic relationship. 😊 It's a huge responsibility to deliberately choose to dismantle the layers of dysfunction and actively embark on a healing journey with genuine intention. 👉 It's crucial to always remind yourself of this work's importance and purpose. 🧘 Know that achieving inner peace begins the moment you release the need to alter the behaviors and perspectives of your partner who isnt willing to initiate change for themselves. 🤗 Understand that the journey of your healing and their healing are distinct paths. 🤷 They might intersect eventually, but they are not one and the same. 🙅 You do not have to stop paving the way just because your partner is not ready to put their best foot forward. 🤷 Reconciling with ourselves and the experiences of our pasts isn't just about reflection. 💁 It also involves actively confronting and overcoming the cycles of dysfunction, past traumas, and deeply ingrained self-loathing. 🫴 Someone has to do the work. 🙇 I know this is not an easy task, but it's a necessary and worthy choice to make. 🧠 When you mindfully decide to embark on your healing journey, you're not only doing it for yourself. 🤷 In that decision lies the promise of a better, healthier future for the generations that follow you. ❤️‍🩹 Keep healing by example. 🙏 Find gratitude in the grit, even when it's hard being the guiding light. 🪷 Let the depth of this work serve as a compass, revealing the magnificence and stability that come from embracing the hard things that healing brings and leaning in fully. #anamify #ConsciousRelationships #toxicrelationships #healingjourney #takingaccountability #singleparentcoach