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Posted Sunday, March 10, 2024
8mo
ISFP
Aries
I don't even.
I don't even know what I'm feeling at the moment, he'll I don't even know if being on here is right at the moment. I haven't talked or processed it much but hopefully writing this out here might help with that. Over the last two weeks my relationship of three years has died a sudden sickening death. My girlfriend out of the blue telling me she hasn't had any feelings for me for at least 6 months and instead has been "talking" to two other guys behind my back. Neither of us can afford to move out on our own so I am trapped living here with her and hearing her talk to these two daily, seeing her happy with them and telling me about them nearly every day, my mental health is in the gutter and yet I keep being Mr nice guy and supporting her and caring for her when I feel at times like I have every right to be exploding right now. Anyone have any advice from dealing with similar situations?
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Jared
8mo
INTP
Aries
She doesn't care about your wellbeing and she doesn't care for your three year history. She sounds like a petulant child. I'm sorry for your situation, but lots of men (and women) go through it. One of you has to leave. The situation you've described is beyond toxic and for whatever reason she is being spiteful, hateful, rude and inconsiderate to rub it all in your face like that. Find a roommate to replace her or find a roommate to move in with. The only way this situation will be resolved is by separating the two of you from physical proximity.
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Jacqs
8mo
INFP
Scorpio
Sorry you are going through this. I truly know how hard it is. However, for fir mental sake ask her to keep it to herself. Alliw her the ability to process it on her own. This time is for you and not her ok. You need to process everything happening and then make future plans without the baggage. You sound like a nice guy so don't let her do this ok. Just respectfully decline to listen to her stuff from here on out. Set up ground rules like roommates from here on out and process the breakup before it hurts you further. Good luck. I can listen if you need to talk ok.
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Peace ☮️
8mo
INTJ
Libra
A roommate might be a better situation.
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