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Marie
Marie

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Watch anime and go to sleep

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sabi
sabi

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INTJ

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Pack it, store it in the fridge, give him space and sleep in the sofa. (edited)

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Ted
Ted

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ESTP

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Can I please say something as a man.. Not everything is a manipulation we are not really that complex. The difference in thinking between men and women leading to problems is common. Effort and openness is needed on both sides to understand eachother. At no point in this post does it say he came home hit his wife,had a tantrum or yelled. The fact that most people responding to this post will imply that or that they man should be seen as manipulative or be punished tells more about those people then the healthy way to resolve the situation. If he went to bed he did not want to take out his bad day on his wife. Nore blame her. He might have thought the meal at home with his love would be the only part of his day that would go right and when it didn't the only left to do was to go to bed and hope tomorrow is better.

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Ted
Ted

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ESTP

Pisces

Resolve the issue with patients and understanding. Seems like there is something more going on then the food. It may be he doesn't feel you hear him or listen when he talks. ( we all know how hurtful that can feel.) Also maybe something else not to do with her. Just the last bad thing he could handle for the day. Not all men respond to kindness... hony sorry I got that wrong how can we fix this. Might get a better resolution. Some men just need to be left alone to Resolve it them self. They will let you know through there actions. Men or women we often have to be the bigger person to reolve these issues even when might be the one that takes negativity. Patients and kindness communication. Sometimes its an unseen issue

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Max_๐Ÿ‡ญ๐Ÿ‡ฒ
Max_๐Ÿ‡ญ๐Ÿ‡ฒ

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INFP

Sagittarius

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I'm speaking on behalf of my wife ๐Ÿ™„ [still hungry btw] (edited)

I'm speaking on behalf of my wife ๐Ÿ™„
[still hungry btw]

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Shu-shu
Shu-shu

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INFJ

Pisces

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If it was just a small misunderstanding, that's a bit harsh I feel like I guess I'd try to convince him to eat and try to make up with him. But if that behavior repeats ( over small things) it can be a sign of emotional abuse and guilt tripping If it's a big misunderstanding however and caused some uproar that would be more understandable if he rejects it. In that case I would try to offer something or just leave him be if he still refuses, depending on the severity, and depending on his motives I would just be very upset N try to fix things the next day if things are too heated in the moment

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Elle ๐ŸŒธ
Elle ๐ŸŒธ

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ISTJ

Tell him to have a good night and sleep well!

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Al
Al

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INFJ

Leo

I dislike the term "good wife". We are all inherently good. While you may had asked the fenalw populace I also feel as a male other input is needed. I'll let you in on a little secret. Most males are just as sensitive as females we just don't show it openly. If there's a fight, miscommunication, a "misunderstanding", etc resolving it should be a priority. Me personally, as a male, I wouldn't be able to sleep well in the first place allowing a disagreement to effect our relationship. I also find it difficult to reject food. Rejection of the food is rejection of you. While I fully believe cookong is a shared responsibility (unless she can't cook in all honesty theb I guess I'll be doing it all ๐Ÿ˜‚) rejecting your food is just as good as a slap in the face. You worked hard on that meal. If I wasn't going to eat for whatever crazy reason communication still needs to happen. "I appreciate you cooking this,but I'm just going to go to bed" or whatever.

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Josh
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INTP

Virgo

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I'm not a lady, so my opinion might not be appreciated. And if it isn't I'm sorry. But to reject food is a pretty major rejection of you. It's a sign that he doesn't see it as a "little misunderstanding." Unless he doesn't feel well. Being hungry one day isn't going to hurt him. But you should try to resolve the misunderstanding as soon as possible. If it is possible to speak with your parents, his parents or one of his siblings about it. Then that might be a good option, if you can't resolve it tomorrow.

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Kika
Kika

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ENTP

Sagittarius

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Jonah
Jonah

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INFJ

Capricorn

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Depends on the discussion. effort, might of had a hard day.she might have brought up the one thing he did wrong, when needed consolement. Or said what he was inadequate and tasted his food.after tasting defeat trying to eat to give energy to his heart.struck unlucky healing his wound on the couch.

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