Arianna

Posted Friday, November 3, 2023

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I'm so freaking tired of date apps

Every time I try to jump into them again, after a few seconds I feel exhausted because it's so hard to maintain a conversation with someone so then I lose my hopes and I give up... Does it happen to you too?

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Kristen

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Let me imitate 90% of guys over 35: Him: hello beautiful! 😍 Me: (hating the beautiful part cuz he doesn't know me) hi, how are you? Anything cool happening this weekend in your life? Him: (24 hours later) hi, beautiful 😍 nothing much Me: aw, nothing big? What do you usually do weekends? Him: (24 hours later) hi beautiful 😍

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Seeta/Sita/Cyta✨️

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*pulling hairs out of frustration* I detests small talk🥴🥴🥴

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AlingGemini

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Haha I feel you👋

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Arianna

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OH MY GOD SAME! I hate when they call me beautiful/cutie and whatever... because I think "damn you don't even know me!!" But I try my best to stay calm and try to keep the conversation but then they disappear LOL so what's the point?

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Kristen

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@Seeta/Sita/Cyta✨️ riiiiiggghtttt? Give me something I can dig into, comment on, something. And be QUICK, I need a brain that will keep UP

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Nate Scott

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People are like that now?! lol I was born in the generation that likes a good conversation!

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Kristen

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@Nate Scott omg it's terrible.

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Si

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Bro I got you. Me: What’s your trauma and how are you working to overcome it? (1 hour later) Have you confronted your inner child?

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Riva

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@Kristen so ahh can you explain the logic about getting to know you = justifying calling you beautiful. I didn't knew as a word beautiful had these rules. I find allot of art beautiful. Never really took the art out to dinner to get to know it better. I always thought beauty was in the eye of the beholder. Not in the judgement of women 😂

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Ben

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Hey... That seems fairly similar to my experience. I sometimes forget to talk to someone for a while, yes, but no one seems to want to continue a conversation almost 80-90% of the time.

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Kristen

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@Ben I feel like a lot of people think that just asking how someone's day was every day is conversation. They don't try to follow up on the answer and they don't offer anything of themselves to help build on. I'll offer some information about my day or thoughts and they can't reciprocate or at least build on it.

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Ben

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@Kristen yeah, and asking the people about their day is also not the easiest. In my language is a saying that says something like: having to pull it out (whatever answer/any interaction) of a furry blanket. I think in English it's something along the lines of pulling teeth. Meaning it's tedious and time consuming. Ending up with a conversation that gets maximum of a single or two word responses from them. :/

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Gabriel

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Lol, I mean.... Like.... You're not wrong... 🤦‍♂️ But what if you are pretty!?!?!!??

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Kristen

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@Gabriel then wait a few comments to say so, or say, that one picture of you is so lovely, it really caught my eye. A lot of women are just weary of that being all a guy wants us for.

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Kristen

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@Ben I've met a couple guys on here who could teach lessons in conversation. They "read the room", ask questions about things I've said or tagged in my profile, they speak openly about their day and aren't afraid to answer questions I ask. And now we aren't talking here because they aren't just a profile to me, they exist in my world, real and fascinating humans that I can dig into a topic with or joke around with. It's possible to make meaningful connections here but it takes two, and some effort.

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Ben

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@Kristen yeah, but how do you try to continue a conversation with someone who's giving it the bare minimum? I know the classic of let them go... But I'd have to let go of a ton of my friends. :/

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Gabriel

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@Kristen you know, that's fair. I was joking more previously, but I would never lead with something as saying you are beautiful immediately, but as a libran, I would absolutely note a lovely outfit or like great nails on a lady are always nice, same with hair. Those compliments must be made however, in a context that is platonic and not necessarily meant for anything else with immediacy. Now, I would parlay that it does take some emotional maturity to realize that not all compliments have a sexual connotation about them, but I can't call that here. I don't live where others do in the environment where they occupy, be it emotionally or physically. There really is a risk in giving and receiving compliments. It's important to read the room. I think in a weird way, I completely agree with you...just unnecessarily wordy. I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day and great weekend!☺️🧡Salut!

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Kristen

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@Ben if it was a friend giving the bare minimum, I'd ask if they were ok. If it's some rando, I'd delete and move on. I usually try three times to draw someone out, if they can't be bothered to make the same effort by then, what's the point? I'm bright, and quick, and I'm gonna need more than what they are showing me they can offer, even in friendship. Btw kudos to the people on this thread, some good convos here.

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Eric

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Is this true? I've been out of the dating scene for like 5 years and when I message women on here, I end up writing a damn book to them about why I messaged them, a brief intro, why I think we may have a good convo, and then an open invite to message me back if they want. Am I doing this all wrong?!

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Kristen

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@Eric sounds like you are doing it right. But yeah, for every one of you there are 9 of the other, easy.

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Bhanureddy

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I don't know what's going on with all you can tell them stop calling me beautiful what do you want call you tell that then they understand or leave because patience is not there to talk why they want to connect I think so maybe

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Kristen

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@Bhanureddy I frequently will say I'm not comfortable with compliments before someone knows me, but very rarely will the type of person who starts with that evolve into a decent conversationalist.

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Bhanureddy

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@Kristen yeah now a days very difficult to find who is who I don't know who will connect here with good conversation and openly talking will develop good relationship but I don't know I am also searching for that but no one will connected

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Rich

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Have you tried chatGPT? ♥️😉

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Kristen

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@Rich lol hellz no.

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Ashutosh Pandey

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😅😅

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Dave

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@Ben lol I usually tell them they are bad at conversation. Then leave it at that. If they respond with more effort it continues. If not, then I forget about it

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Chris

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Idk what to tell you but maybe they are scared lol

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Dave

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You are not swiping right on 90% of men to reasonably know this...

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Wulan

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I can feel u, stop talk with those guys maybe they just wanna killing time not for serious thing

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Paulo

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Well in men’s defense we don’t even get called beautiful

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Kristen

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@Dave and you know this, how?

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Emmanuel

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🤣😂🤣😂

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Kristen

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@Paulo I'm so sorry, would you like to be?

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Dave

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@Kristen well...are you swiping right on 90% of men?

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Kristen

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@Dave if a man whose profile gives me an indication that we would have something in common contacts me, I accept to talk. I rarely need to hit the matches myself. Of the people I accept the match with, most don't bother to contact at all and 90% of the remainder have nothing to say.

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Kristen

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@Wulan trust me, they have three attempts at an actual conversation and then I give up.

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Paulo

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@Kristen because I’m a man and I personally know other men? You know, the empirical way…

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Darren

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Needs to be a dating app with a heavy screening process. Must have conversation skills to open this ….

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Paulo

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@Kristen id love to!

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Kristen

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@Paulo hey, beautiful 😍

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Nate Scott

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@Kristen omg no wonder people feel socially distant 😭let’s all just break the ice 🧊

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Paulo

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@Kristen what do you usually do at the weekend?

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Kristen

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@Paulo work and sleep lol I'm an introvert in an extrovert job,, by the time the weekend comes around I head into VR or a book snd refuse to talk to anyone.

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Kristen

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@Nate Scott hasn't this post been a lovely way to do that? 🤣

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Justin

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That's funny... but you are right.... not me though

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Paulo

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@Kristen my advice is: make some male friends and get to know them on a personal level.

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Kristen

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@Paulo that's good advice...all my besties are dudes. ☺️

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Paulo

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@Kristen ask for their honest opinions and tell them to be blunt

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Paulo

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and men should do the same with their female friends

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Kristen

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@Paulo I know what my friends think of me lol but with the ones I'm just meeting, I'd have to get to a point where I believe they HAVE opinions. I actually wonder if some of them are AI...given that I have better conversations with Alexa.

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Paulo

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@Kristen is it that bad?

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Kristen

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@Paulo oh God you have no idea. Actually confronted a guy about it, like, please actually tell me something about yourself, I give more of my attention to people I pass on the street every day. He was like, I'm single, how about you. Sigh......

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Tudor

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@Kristen Well, there are some which find in a woman calmness in a crazy world. Maybe I'm malfunctioning, who knows...

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Kristen

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@Tudor I am never gonna be the calm in a storm and a guy who can't offer one word of actual conversation in 3 days is never gonna be my rock. 🤣🤣🤣

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Guilherme

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Say no to dating apps Say yes to drugs

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Mitchell

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Rich

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The only fun guys are the fun guys. 🍄🍄🍄

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Ashutosh Pandey

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Noice🤣🤣

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Sandro

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Based 🤝🏽

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netta

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@Mitchell agreed

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Curtis

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My issues with dating apps is that everyone is too, too shallow or cannot hold up a conversation. There are too many options and unfortunately I will not be considered one cause I'm not physically attractive to most people. I don't normally get matches so I use dating apps to find friends instead now 😅

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Daniele

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I totally agree with you.

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Rich

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Yeah. Probably something to do with the other 100+ messages she has in her inbox.

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Dita

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Lower your expectations and detach, my dear. It takes a certain kind of mindset to deal with dating apps

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Seeta/Sita/Cyta✨️

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Exactly 💯

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Ethan

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Yep, and eventually it takes a toll on your mental health doing that so much and getting rejected. I took a break from them for a while and focused on myself, definitely the right way to go. Take care of yourself first and be the best person you can be, then the connections will come

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Tyler

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This is the best way to handle it for sure 💯

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David

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Of course, that's why it is best to get in person as quick as possible to start having shared experiences. This app has vanishingly few people in my area, so mainly enjoying this social aspect.

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Arianna

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If I ask to meet up then they say "yes" but then they disappear 🫠 even if inside you are scared they can be scamers

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David

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@Arianna flakes abound. It's good to get to rejection as quickly as possible with the ones that are wrong for you to reduce wasted time. I still have dreams about and Italian beef and peppers sandwich I had in Chicago years ago. Nothing like that here.

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Majd

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I rarely make connections on such apps, people using these apps are usually distracted by so much things, but if it clicks it clicks you know, you can feel it.

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Arianna

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I clicked. It was just me 😂 now again to try another click ahahah it's not easy

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Majd

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@Arianna it may be hard though, I totally understand that

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Runi

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Same it’s hard to have someone show interest

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Arron Jordan

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I feel yeah hard to really get to know someone when there only sending one two word replies

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Nai

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It’s dating in general for me, but im shy and awkward in public so this is the better option, I haven’t met anyone yet but again, better option.

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Arianna

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I don't think it's because you are shy or awkward. Some people are too judgemental

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Nai

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@Arianna you know what? I did start staying to myself after my high school experiences lol teens/kids can be mean especially in Los Angeles 😂 I think the solitude made me feel like that, and I often got judged because of my quirks or being quiet or things I had no control over so.. yes lol

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Arianna

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@Nai I was like you! I'm still shy, unfortunately something people say "you are too quiet" but I can't do anything about it. That's me and who wants to accept it is okay... The rest can go to hell!! Please don't turn yourself down because of other people. Probably you are quiet because you need your time and you need to feel comfortable with someone. We are like turtles

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Nai

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@Arianna I appreciate that a lot, I needed to hear that. And I wouldn’t be able to tell you’re shy, but like you said, it’s most likely other peoples reactions that make it that way. I’m gonna keep this in mind every time I interact. No need to dim our light for anyone ! Thank you Arianna 😇

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Arianna

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@Nai yes exactly!! Being shy is not a flaw and even something negative. People react in some situations in a different way and people are all different but all the same. And you're welcome 🫂

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David Rogers

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I guess you have to be in the right vibe or find a solid person? I'm here for friends and when it's a wikkid convo of shared interests its like getting a burst of energy to have some wild back and forth chats that end up way longer in terms of notifications then they should be lol. But with everything one day at a time and good and bad days so maybe today's not your day 🤷

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Dave

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What kind of guys are you matching with? The commonly held perception is that you women be swiping left on 95% of guys most of whom are alright and are quite willing and able to put in effort, and swipe right on 5% that get all attention from the other women and cannot mathematically give you much effort.

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Rich

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You just described the App based dating Matrix and why it is a complete waste of time unless you are Brad Pitt of Fight Club era.

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Simon

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The way I look at it is like I’m an item in a shop. You know what it’s like when you go out shopping and you see something and you go “oh that’s nice” and you pick it up and then a few seconds later you put it back down for whatever reason and you do that for the next item and the one after that. Occasionally you might carry it around for a while and dump it somewhere in the shop. We’re all just items in a shop hoping whoever picks us up next actually takes us through to the checkout. And then doesn’t return us a couple days later for some minor reason. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk

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Arianna

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I agree but I imagine everything as a toy instead

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Simon

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@Arianna that sounds all kinds of grim being compared to a toy. ESPECIALLY on a dating app. The metaphors kinda write themselves. Toys are played with. Toys get broken. Toys get used. Toys get discarded and thrown away. Toys are considered cheap. You’re not a toy, no matter how many smiling faces you catch window shopping 🙃

that sounds all kinds of <a href="/u/grim" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">grim</a> being compared to a toy. ESPECIALLY on a dating app. The <a href="/u/metaphors" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">metaphors</a> kinda <a href="/u/write" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">write</a> themselves. <a href="/u/toys" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">Toys</a> are played with. Toys get <a href="/u/broken" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">broken</a>. Toys get used. Toys get discarded and <a href="/u/thrown" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">thrown</a> <a href="/u/away" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">away</a>. Toys are considered <a href="/database/profile/64173/cheap-personality-type" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">cheap</a>. 

You’re not a toy, no <a href="/u/matter" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">matter</a> how many <a href="/u/smiling" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">smiling</a> faces you catch window shopping 🙃

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Arianna

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@Simon I agree with you. We are not toys. But most people treat us as a toy

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Angela

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It's extremely exhausting and redundant with the "I don't want drama or this or that". Understandable to say what you like or dont like but seriously? Who the hell likes drama? Sick of guys thinking that just because I ask "what KIND of work do you do?" They think you're a gold digger. No, I'm looking to see if we are in similar lines of work to have something to talk about. I make my own money, have my own place, my own vehicle and don't NEED a man. Sorry for the rant but c'mon guys.

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Arianna

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I totally understand!! For me, men think I want to marry them for the green card LOL and they run away when I say I want a serious relationship. Come on, I'm not that kind of girl. People can do what they want but they can also read my profile before matching

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Angela

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@Arianna Exactly but all most of them say they're looking for a relationship but then really only want a hook up. Newsflash! Don't need to get online for that!

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Arianna

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@Angela yeah!! It's a new game they have started. They think I'm stupid AHAHA

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Angela

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@Arianna Same girl, same.

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Daniele

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Hey I totally understand you. I tried many apps and they are so cringe. Most of the time its about small talks. I hate them. Hi, where are you from? What do you do? What is your job? I feel like i talk with NPC. I see comformism. Tinder is horrible. A lot of women kissing dogs, with tanga or just party girls and its horrible. Bumble less cringe but still there. I lost hope, really. Its really hard to meet interesting people.

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Arianna

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Exactly! I can tell you my prospective... Some men I found on date apps are just into hookups and I'm not that kind of person. On bubble people magically disappear or they still think we can hookup. Or they talk to me in a way I don't accept a man talk to me soon. I don't even know them!!

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Daniele

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@Arianna I'm very sorry for this. I think you are a nice person. I dont understand why someone should act z or x like hookup etc. I just can tell you that I'm looking to meet a nice person to share some time with. What freaks me out is how people get into relationship so easily and I'm like wtf? So rare to meet ok person really.

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Keven

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I try to learn about who I'm talking to and have a good back n forth conversation and I rarely ghost or stop talking to someone unless we don't have any chemistry or they act bored or uninterested in chating.

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Rena

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Just be yourself and people who are you looking for, will find you for sure ☺ stay positive 😉

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Nino

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Prior to my usage of Boo, it certainly has been a near constant feeling for me as I grew more disillusioned with the kind of conversations I would have with matches that I actually do get to match with. Sure, they may be attractive physically speaking, but the lack of actual engagement and effort from their end conversational wise is simply like watering a desert - you're wasting a valuable resource in something that is meaningless. In this case, time and energy to someone with the same charisma as drying paint haha. It's when you do meet someone who shares similar interests and values is where things start turning around! It begins to feel more natural and exciting to converse with that person, leading to an innate desire to learn more about them! Mutual effort in this was is wonderful and possible! Sending positive energy to you on that front!

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Arianna

3mo

INFJ
Leo

2w1

2

1

I totally agree

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Ryan

3mo

INTP
Aquarius

4w5

4

5

I’ve tried almost every dating app. They all eventually get deleted due to not getting responses from women. In January, this one will be deleted as well.

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Si

3mo

INFJ
Cancer

9w1

9

1

Have you tried getting feedback on your profile? Like anything the amount of work you put in will reflect the results. No shame in being lazy either. I’ve yet to do the same.

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Sam

3mo

INTJ
Aries

2w1

2

1

I don't know about exhausted but definitely has built up a thick skin for being rejected. I mean that's not really the right word as people don't have to match, just be nice for some feedback first. Yet I still use them because I have no idea where to begin in the real world anymore 😅

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Marius

3mo

INTP
Virgo

5w4

5

4

Conversations on those apps can be a drag. They often feel forced, and it's like pulling teeth to keep them going. It's alright to feel fed up; take a breather and try other ways of meeting people. Dating apps ain't the only game in town.

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Simon

3mo

ENTP
Gemini

9w1

9

1

Hell. To the yes. This is the third one I've installed at the moment but it reminds me of before-times twit so it at least is interesting.

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Arianna

3mo

INFJ
Leo

2w1

2

1

Yeah I agree for the post section

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xyyyy

3mo

INTP
Pisces

some wins, some looses! 😅

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Christopher

3mo

ENTP
Sagittarius

Dude i feel you. Havent had any luck

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Moin Pathan

3mo

INTP
Libra

8w7

8

7

Exactly, everytime it’s happening with me 😂😂 could anyone suggest some solutions???

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Arianna

3mo

INFJ
Leo

2w1

2

1

I wish I could give you one but I don't know ahah

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Paweł

3mo

ESTJ
Aquarius

8w7

8

7

They are literally for collecting matches like pokemons to pokedex

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1

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Arianna

3mo

INFJ
Leo

2w1

2

1

Oh my god I LOVE IT AHAHAH

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Seeta/Sita/Cyta✨️

3mo

INFP
Libra

6w5

6

5

ALl THE TIME😆

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Gabriel

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

I usually have no interest in dating apps, simply put because 2/4 of my messages go unanswered. 1/4 are messages where I can't lead the conversation anywhere like - "yes, no, sure, ok," and the girl puts 0 effort of her part to actually have a conversation and the other 1/4, things go well, but my main problem with dating apps is: It makes you pay to actually get seen, and to actually match with people. It sounds very predatory to me to have my interactions with other people limited behind a paywall.

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Marta

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

I feel you girl

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Brandon

3mo

ISTP
Capricorn

9w1

9

1

Yes, it takes a toll. Hard for me since I'm quiet around new people and I guess not aggressive enough. Seems to turn off most potentials immediately. Even if I have things in common with the person, I don't seem to be able to properly communicate with someone until I've met them and then only if the vibe is right. Not an attractive quality for a man, but I am who I am. Faking it works, but then I'm trapped masking so it doesn't work out. I refuse to do that anymore.

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Dave

3mo

INFP
Pisces

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