Question about first dates!

Now I do not have anything coming even on the back burner but I had something come up in conversation with a friend. Now I am on this strict meal plan right now to cut weight and I am down 45 lbs in 47 days. Here is the question: would you be bothered or upset if you went on first date and the other person ate super light like a salad or, stir fry ? My friends wife said she would have expected anyone she dated to break the diet for the first date so she would not feel self conscious. That completely blew my mind 😂 but, I wanted to see what a wider population would say about this topic 🤣🤣 Some side notes: I am 127lbs from my goal weight at which point I plan on being more flexible with my meal plan. Since I plan on getting back surgery and then heading to gym 😂. Also, I kind of want to be with in striking distance for my trip to Disney this October lol so any hiccups early on could be detrimental. I really want to be able to ride all the rides and fit comfortably in the air plane 😂 Ask or discuss below