Guys out there

Question

Is there any guy out there that can be a consistent texter instead of starting a conversation for a good day or two and then not responding back to the woman and in a way ghosting them but not like checking in or anything on them because that seems rude and if the person says that they are a consistent texter and they are trying to match somebody with a consistent texter, then lets just own up to it

Dimi · Accepted Answer

Same applies to girls, most of the time we have a good convo rolling first day and then next few days are just "Yep", "ok", "haha"
Sorry if you are busy, say you are busy, if you lost interest, say so and we unmatch. But why drag it out and make you guess.

Kai · Answer

I think a lot of people miss the point that we're supposed to move away from this platform. That's why convos die out. We aren't supposed to socialize in this format forever. Unfortunately, everybody is afraid of a phone call (I'm not).

Sean · Answer

Sometimes people aren't what we imagined to be initially, we get bored and move onto someone else.

Sometimes we don't give people enough of a chance or effort and ending walking away from gold.

It's exhausting when you don't have a guarantee. Some people are more patient than others.

Nothing to do about it but continue searching for someone as consistent as you.

Austin · Answer

What if guys just run out of npc dialogue? *Shrug*

Nicole · Answer

Omg I wish they had a setting level for how often you want to text.

For me almost none unless we are arranging a meeting or discussing an interesting topic.

Rob · Answer

Yeah of course, the issue for me is matching with someone who doesnt ghost instantly or is inconsistent themselves 🤷‍♂️

Darius · Answer

Wait that disease of ghosting is affecting both genders?

DomSM · Answer

Try me..😈

Vince · Answer

If I feel like the person is actually interested I talk like I have ADHD. But before then I’m like rocky boxing to see if it’s worth it throwing out nonsense.

Anish 👑 · Answer

Have you tried following up with them?

They might be busy, overwhelmed in their personal life right now, feeling pressure or anxiety, can't think of or articulate a response to the last message you sent, mentally exhausted, not in the right frame of mind to reply, read your message and forgot to reply, offended or upset by something you did or said, or even something they learnt about you which put them off.

It's best not to jump to conclusions and blame the other person prematurely. Ask yourself have you really taken the time and effort to understand their reasons or what is going on with them. Also only robots can message at regular intervals consistently, people are more complicated.

Joshua · Answer

It takes me approximately 37 seconds to respond, rounded up. I also work from home though so it does make it easier.

Michael Wolford · Answer

Nope. Because it comes off as desperate like we need your attention and that's no good. Guys have lives outside of talking to women and if you expect us to answer every text and pick up every phone call how are we supposed to get any work done?

Alieu · Answer

I want to text with you constantly. I want to get to know you more.

Kal · Answer

So women suffer too. This is rough

Vall · Answer

Inconsistencies can be caused by many reasons. The best thing to do is to ask and wait for the response. And, you can also ask for the way to connect through other communication tool that they use frequently.

Ahmed · Answer

It's the dilemma of the dating apps
Many candidates  and not much honor or respect to follow up with someone one or  two cut her  lose

Jgfdrhbb · Answer

Women who text and not video chat are dead weight

W · Answer

I definitely feel that for sure it's definitely hard to find people who want to text consistently and actually have good conversations that last it's very sad

P.I.P.Gnosis · Answer

👀 I am certainly able to carry the conversation. The problem is that I'm not sure peeps are aware that my time is divided. Though my inbox is open 24/7, and I'm certainly happy to receive messages; my obligations are numerous. That being said; if I do not respond, I would hope that the recipient of my messages would have considered the aforementioned and be a little understanding. I put more effort into personal messages than I do in random comments. And that takes time.

Ry · Answer

I'm trying to get people to talk consistently at all

Ryley · Answer

Most people are just to lazy to consistently check if they have text. It's about caring more than just yourself

Joe · Answer

When I match with people in my area that I’m interested in I am not trying to drag things out nor am I your texting Buddy… if I like you I will ask you to meet in real life almost immediately or at least set something up I am not going to waste my time talking to you if you are not ready to actually go on a date… no offence intended but I dont like talking to a woman I’m interested in over a phone call or a text

Ryu · Answer

Im a good texter, I also get ghosted mid conversation quite often. I just think half our species has main character syndrome.

William · Answer

If they don’t respond, just move on instead of doubting.

Jesus · Answer

Hey I work 12 hr shifts and barely get 6-7 hrs of sleep, during those days I can’t reply as much and I let them know. Though on my days off I will them know that we can talk. Now if she is not that interested and I notice it, I just ask them and after 2 days if they don’t respond I ghost/unmatch with them. Sometimes I have matched with women that send me a like and don’t even talk to me, so I ghost them.

Chad · Answer

I see your losing interest I'll just stop, considering it's easy for a woman to have multiple dudes after them at one time I would figure you already moved to the next thing

Jaco · Answer

Yes, i am indeed looking for a constant converser. Any specific topics, themes?

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Same applies to girls, most of the time we have a good convo rolling first day and then next few days are just "Yep", "ok", "haha" Sorry if you are busy, say you are busy, if you lost interest, say so and we unmatch. But why drag it out and make you guess.

I think a lot of people miss the point that we're supposed to move away from this platform. That's why convos die out. We aren't supposed to socialize in this format forever. Unfortunately, everybody is afraid of a phone call (I'm not).

What if guys just run out of npc dialogue? Shrug

Omg I wish they had a setting level for how often you want to text. For me almost none unless we are arranging a meeting or discussing an interesting topic.

Yeah of course, the issue for me is matching with someone who doesnt ghost instantly or is inconsistent themselves 🤷‍♂️

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