AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

Posted Thursday, May 23, 2024

26d

ENFP

Cancer

10 Tiny Acts that Attract the Best People to You

#dating #friendship #psychology #philosophy Throughout much of my life, I've often found myself feeling awkward and consumed by my thoughts. In my quest to make a good impression, I learned a great deal from my mistakes and continuously worked to improve my relationships. Here are some intriguing insights I've gathered along the way. Here are 10 subtle behaviors that draw people to you: 1) Exude a calming presence: It's common to become self-conscious in social settings, worrying about how you’re perceived. Instead, focus on enjoying the interaction and let your calm demeanor soothe those around you. 2) Eliminate habits that cause shame: Confidence is largely built in moments when we're not performing. Engaging in activities that make us feel ashamed damages our self-image, affecting all areas of our lives. Live with integrity and pride, and you'll naturally project an attractive energy. 3) Listen beyond the words: Many people aren't fully present in conversations, preoccupied with their next witty remark. By genuinely listening, you tap into the non-verbal cues of communication, surprising others with your perceptiveness. 4) Maintain some mystery: Constantly sharing every detail of your life removes any sense of mystery. For attraction to thrive, there needs to be an element of the unknown. Keep some things to yourself to foster intrigue. 5) Open up physically: Being nervous can cause you to close off both physically and psychologically. Relax your shoulders, occupy more space, and loosen up. This open posture not only signals warmth but also helps calm your mind. 6) Soften your facial expressions: Tension can make your expressions appear too intense. You don't need to smile excessively, but softening your expression with a gentle smile can make you appear more approachable and attractive. 7) Highlight the importance of others: Interestingly, those who seem important often make others feel important. Insecure individuals tend to point out others' flaws. Attractive leaders, on the other hand, focus on making others look and feel great. 8) Slow your movements: Nervousness can result in quick, jerky movements. Slowing down your speech and actions demonstrates emotional control and status, helping you remain calm and think more clearly. 9) Ask unique questions: Most conversations revolve around personal stories and problems. Showing genuine curiosity about others, especially in unique aspects of their lives, makes you stand out. 10) Avoid complaining, drama, and disrespect: Falling into negative speech habits like complaining and gossiping is common. Demonstrate your class by steering clear of such behaviors, and redirect conversations towards positivity and optimism. AJ Cheers!