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Posted Sunday, November 10, 2024
3d
INFJ
Gemini
Guys, which do you prefer MOST of the time: a girl asking you out OR asking out the girl? Why?
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Isaac
2d
ENTP
Scorpio
I can’t lie, when a girl asks me out, it just helps me not assume or be in my head. Like oh ok she’s not just being friendly, she actually is interested
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Joseph
3d
INFJ
Capricorn
I honestly prefer the girl asking me out. I find that initiative extremely attractive, mainly because I've always been bad at initiating those types of things. The two relationships Ive been in started that way, initiated by them and that simple initiation honestly stole my heart lol
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Kevin
3d
ENTP
Gemini
Initiative is attractive and I'm more submissive-minded. I like it when the girl asks me out, but that very, VERY rarely happens.
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𓄂𝕮𝖔𝖘𝖒𝖎𝖈𓆃
3d
INTJ
Pisces
Either or 🤗🫠😉
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Mishka
3d
ENTP
Gemini
Prefer a girl talking to me first. Girls are just background noise until they make themselves personally known. Distractions from life. But after we've spoken for some time and I see she's interested then I'll ask her out. Because then I see she could become something important in life
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Sebastian
2d
INTJ
Sagittarius
Being asked out is always flattering and appreciated
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Dylan
3d
INFJ
Taurus
I prefer the woman ask me out or in some clear way show that she is interested in me. I have asked very few women out and when I do, I get rejected. When I have been asked out AND single, I have said yes. If I was not single I said no. The exceptions were in high school when I was in love with someone who turned out to be not interested in me and another friend asked me out. I told her that I cared for her but I was already in love with this other person and that she didn't deserve me leading her on when I was interested in someone else. The other exception was at a bar when I was in a bad depression and with family. Older woman asked me if I was interested in her, I said not really. She went ballistic that I turned her down, which I later found out was because she made a bet with someone in her friend group that she could get any man in the bar that she wanted.
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Martin
2d
ENFJ
Leo
If girls asked me out that would br great but it happens so rarely I just make the first move. Preferably I think I'm willing to give people a chance when we meet and if I don't feel it's gonna work I will politely say with no ghosting and trying to avoid hurt feelings but if I gotta make the first move I do
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Andy
3d
INFP
Pisces
Only 2 girls have ever asked me out. 1 ghosted me but I fell deeply for 1. 99% of every girl I've ever asked out has rejected me and not even in a kind respectful way kve had so many make faces then make fun of me I can actually count the amount of Times I've been rejected respectfully. Now I don't even ask girls out geniunly anymore. I have no intention of showing up because I know for afact if they say yes it's still not going to happen lol.
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Johnathan Scherr
3d
INTJ
Cancer
I don't really have a preference, but never had the girl ask me out.
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Gary
2d
ISTP
Capricorn
Is 'refreshing' to have a girl ask you out IMHO.
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Stephen
2d
ENFJ
Aquarius
I've no preference. I've had girls ask me out and why should that throw me? Perhaps the lady in question sees something in me that I do not. In that case it's always good to find out! It seems we are discouraged when rejected, but being asked out puts the show on the other foot. All is fair in love and war
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Anthony
3d
INTP
Virgo
What do you think? 🤣
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Matt
2d
INFP
Libra
In today's world..I'd rather be approached. Women have to constantly put up unwelcome advances and unwanted attention, I don't want to add to that.
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Jeremy
2d
ISTJ
Scorpio
I don't care how it happens, as long as we go out and have a great conversation
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Jordan Wyatte
2d
ISFJ
Cancer
I prefer to be asked out, if I show interest in you then it's gonna be obvious. The women showing interest isn't always as obvious....to me anyways.
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Truecel
2d
INTJ
Cancer
Girls asking out because women are gatekeeprs of se/relationship. Men always want, its on girls if they will accept.
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Jacob
2d
ISFJ
Gemini
I prefer being asked, because then I know I'm not being presumptuous and actually have permission to "pursue".
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Winston
2d
INFP
Leo
I have asked girls and I have never been asked out by girls...for me the result for both is the same outcome...never been on a date and held a womans hand and I'm 25 years old 😆🤣 ✌️
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Mark
2d
ENFJ
Virgo
A girl asking me out
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Isaiah
2d
INTP
Aries
I'd be thrilled if a woman asked me out first. It's a very rare occurrence, unfortunately.
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⇝Sαn⇜
2d
ISFJ
Taurus
A girl connecting and me asking her out later. Why? It works well for me.
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UglykidJoey
2d
INTP
Aries
Honestly I'd prefer if the girl asked mostly cuz I lack the confidence to ask anyone out also I overthink it like I wouldn't want to make any women uncomfortable so when I see a girl I find attractive my initial thought is to ask her out or ask get her number but it is immediately followed with "wait what is she's been asked by a handful of other guys today if so then she probably would like to be left alone last thing she'd want is another loser thinking he has a chance to approach her" lol so if a girl asked me out i definitely wouldn't spiral and more importantly know that she is interested in me lol😅😅😅
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Les
2d
ESFP
Sagittarius
I am 6 ft 4 (191 cm) without my shoes, I am NOT a man who has a short fuse. Chemistry, communication, honesty & wit. Age doesn’t matter, for that perfect fit. I am real; can prove who & what I am, A Canadian who is funny, gentle & a kind man. I have no debt, don't smoke & I don’t lie, I am looking for an open minded women who is not too shy. WHY? I will answer when you reply. Yes, I wrote this poem, and created a viral song, I hope I don’t have to search for a women “Here” too long. I can always meet you over some time, Because I created an off grid motor home and trailer. Where I can come for a visit one day and stay for a while As I can run my business interests from my vehicle in Europe, eliminating the need to go back to an office, which wastes even more time.
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Matthew
2d
INTP
Pisces
I'm no supermodel, I know. I'm open to having a partner. But people are... eh. How to put this? Given the looks of disgust and other responses that are given Mean Girls style by many, I doubt I'll really talk to any women as more than simple small talk, so ladies... it's up to you to show any interest if it's there. Treating me like a person is the first step in attraction. The second step is getting to know me, so ask me out!
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