Posted Wednesday, January 8, 2025
1yDelete the dating apps
This may just be me but I never liked the idea of dating apps. People don't know how to create genuine connections because they're too busy and overwhelmed with the amount of options. For women too it just seems like you're putting yourself on auction for people. And everything else abut them grosses me out too.
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1y
In fact, the purpose of these applications is to easily find someone for a relationship and to make dating easier. However, due to the developers' greed for money and some self-interested people's bad intentions towards the other party, these applications are moving in a very different direction than their original purpose. This is why the situations you mentioned occur. I think I am the only one who can solve this problem (as a developer).
1y
100% on this. It definitely is all the options preventing people from having genuine connections. That's why I think it's better used for small talk, but some people swear it's just a dating app
1y
I didn't know we sold ourselves
1y
I don't think the issue is the app itself. I think the issue is people aren't engaging with it the right way. I've been sending 💙 almost non-stop. Not even for dating. Internationally. People in Finland, Germany, France, Netherlands. I've literally gotten zero back. People aren't just on here for dating, they're apparently here to make friends too, and yet no-one seems to respond? The interests sections should utilized to their full extent, and people are less inclined to care about how you look or what your physical characteristics are if you have a lot in common with them. I think a great majority of people are going to consider that physical appearance isn't everything and nature, and genetics aren't exactly fair to everyone. But one thing we do have control over is what we like and what brings us together.
1y
So, what led you to try this?
1y
I try to create a connection but it seems impossible because I think everyone is afraid of their feelings
1y
Yup that's fair
1y
I feel like I’m more critical of other people (and their profiles) on dating apps, while at the same time not holding myself to that same expectation/critique.
1y
Its not "because they are too busy", it's because you never know who is behind the screen. They can tell you that they like you and that they want you. But do they really want thamt that? (edited)
1y
I can agree with that
1y
It does feel like that with apps, but if you’re introverted, it’s a compelling alternative to meeting people… hope you get lucky
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