Angie

Posted Wednesday, August 31, 2022

1y

INFP

Aquarius

6

5

True colours

A week ago I started to chat with a guy on a dating app who lives about 40mins from me. He said he didn't mind driving so we arranged a day to meet up...I suggested a country pub 7miles from me. Before that he wanted a video call to see if my pictures are a true representation of myself which they are as they are current with no filters. Video call starts... Didn't crack a smile once, nor mention if I looked like my pictures. He only was focused on the day we had scheduled to meet. "I'll drive to yours, drop my car off and you drive to the pub". *I'm ever mindful of my safety, always meet at a place I know during daylight hours and no way do I let them know where I live until I am sure.* I said to him that I don't know him so for now I'd rather not tell him where I live as he is still a stranger. We said goodnight and ended the call. A few minutes later he messaged when I was on another call saying he'd rather come to mine "after all, I am coming ALL the way from....and it would be fair. We can do a couple of phone calls between now and then." I read his message and couldn't reply until a few mins later. When I did go to reply he had blocked me. If I'm honest I wasn't really bothered. My safety is paramount. If a guy can't accept that from the beginning then it's they who have a problem. Women have to be careful. A long winded story.... Thats just me.