I was afraid of being alone, until I learned to love myself. I was afraid of failing, until I realized that I only fail if I don't try. I was afraid of what people would think of me, until I realized they would think of me anyway. I was afraid of rejection, until I understood that even when this happened my faith in myself would be greater. I was afraid of pain, until I learned that pain is relative and I decide if I want to feel it or get stronger. I was afraid of the truth, until I discovered that the truths are what make me understand many things I was afraid of death, until I learned it's not the end, but rather the beginning. I feared growing old until I realized I gained wisdom day by day. I was afraid of the past, until I realized that through the past I learned to get where I am. I was afraid of change, until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly needed a metamorphosis before flying. I was afraid no one would like me... until i learned to love myself and since then i understood.. how easy it is to be happy.

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