#relationship #conversation #dating #psychology #philosophy #friends #friendship When engaging with someone new on b00, immediately asking them what they are looking for on here can often feel invasive and off-putting. This direct approach, especially when focused on romantic intentions, can give the impression that you are eager to rush into romantic gestures before taking the time to understand the person on a deeper level. Such behavior tends to push people away, as it neglects the important initial phase of building rapport and establishing mutual comfort. Instead of diving straight into questions about romantic interests, it's more considerate and effective to start by getting to know the individual. Engage in light, friendly conversation to discover shared interests, values, and experiences. This approach not only eases any initial tension but also lays a foundation for genuine connection, whether it evolves into friendship or something more. By prioritizing a gradual and respectful exchange of information, you allow both parties to feel more at ease and open to the possibility of a meaningful relationship. The key to any strong relationship, romantic or platonic, is understanding and mutual respect, which can only be cultivated through patient and thoughtful interaction.

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3mo

ISFP

This or they don't bother to read other's bio, which sometimes is self explanatory 👍

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3mo

ISTJ

Sagittarius

True💯 It's a big turn off 😂✌️

Nat 🦊🦝😌

3mo

INFJ

Taurus

Yep 💯

Stella

3mo

INTP

Scorpio

It sounds sketchy indeed I wonder why they ask? Sometimes I feel is for bad intentions or is just my cynical nature thinking that way? Or perhaps its sounds kinda dehumanizing? Perhaps its just trying to rush it and then trying to get a quick cheat code to see if they can take advantage of you or not? Not sure maybe I'm overthinking or over reacting but I never asked such thing to someone, sometimes it also makes me think they didn't read my bio and completely ignored it so makes me think why is this person talking to me in the first place when this person doesn't have any interest either way?

Tracy

3mo

ISTP

Aries

Tony

3mo

INTJ

Capricorn

If someone likes and cares about you they will put forth the effort to get to know you. If they are using you or only interested in themselves they will push for their own gain quickly.

Kyanni

3mo

INFP

Sagittarius

I want to ensure that we have the same goals. Connecting with someone seeking something different doesn't make sense.

Steve

3mo

INTJ

Pisces

Exactly. Even on actual dating apps, like okcupid, there's actually a category on your main profile page, that asks that. So I hate when people ask me that in a conversation. To me, if I'm only a few messages into a conversation with someone, and they asked me something like that, then I'm already on edge and alarms are going off in my head. I'm likely already tense and nervous as it is, and now you got me thinking that you're looking to jump into a marriage or something. I feel like I'm being judged and critiqued, and we'll find a way to disengage from that topic, or even the entire conversation.

Zahra

3mo

INTJ

Scorpio

👏👏👏

Milja 🕊️

3mo

ISFP

Libra

True!

David

3mo

INTJ

Capricorn

It's in their profile but also we need to ask because people will still lie unfortunately

Alec

3mo

INFJ

Cancer

I agree very much here. I've always felt very weird when asked that early on or even in that wording....

John

3mo

INTJ

Aquarius

🤦

Gokul

3mo

INTJ

Gemini

Thanks for the reminder

Jenifer

3mo

INFP

Gemini

I ask if it's not in their bio. I'm not wasting my time or theirs if they're just wanting something casual or an encounter and not looking for anything long term.

John

3mo

INTJ

Aquarius

People really do this?

Janelle

3mo

INTJ

Virgo

I didn't ask before when I began dating and I do read bios so after many times of connecting with the wrong person, I started asking recently because: 1. I'm convinced reading bios is taboo to people. I read them and know what a person wants and move on if it's not the same. However, not a two way street for some people. 2. Some people can have a bio for a long time and not change it. So they may have wanted a relationship/friendship before but now they don't want that and they didn't update their bio. 3. Their bio could be a front to their actual intentions. Nobody wants to waste time with a poser. Otherwise, I understand that perspective. In a perfect world, where people read bios and aren't trying to play you, I wish no one would have to ask that question.

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When one of your favourite B0os comes online for a day.. Put them on blast. I mished ya 🥰😇 @Tracy

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asha

INTJ

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INFJ

The comment below me proved exactly what I said 😂🤣🤣

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Derek lee (ceo)

You stopped the facts again tonight.. But watch how I roll The review I give you, will be nothing in comparison to the action I take✌️😂

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Andreas Sauer

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Sagittarius

American and European fanta color difference

Wild to me

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Mario

ISFJ

Life lessons

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Tyler

3mo

INTP

Libra

How do you?

When I'm reading comments it will scroll back up to a comment highlighted in blue. I think it's when someone likes that comment. But damn is it annoying to keep getting pulled away from where I'm at in the comments. Can I turn that off?

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Blue

15h

ISTJ

Aries

TGIF

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Aileen

3mo

INFJ

Aquarius

Happy Wednesday Boo 😚

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Toni

ISTJ

Cancer

Y'all really be asking people for their honest opinion

Then getting mad at them and all hurt because they gave it 🙃🙄

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Arj♠️🐺🧭

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ENFJ

1 Award

May be time to delete.

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Mario

18h

ISFJ

What the hell are they 👀

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Mario

ISFJ

😑

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Mario

ISFJ

😎

#funny

Moon 🌓 & Rain 🌧️

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ISFJ

Leo

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Cancer

Good morning Boo!

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ISFJ

Definitely me

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INFJ

Scorpio

2024 😒☕

To a better 2025. #coffee #sarcasm #scorpio #dark #universe #boo

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Libra

Empty roads are where we find our true inner self

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Is it just me or is the The Wicked merch and marketing becoming a little much??😭😭 I’m a Wicked fan btw

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ISFJ

Leo

😍✅✨💜

#thoughts #relationship #boo

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ISFJ

Leo

And how long does it take the food to reach his stomach when eating?? 🤔😁😂

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Libra

To know the sweetness of victory we have to taste the bitterness of defeat

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ISFJ

🤔

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ENTJ

Fwd

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Leo

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Leo

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ESTJ

Sagittarius

Christmas

Heres what happened yesterday

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Forever Miss 💖

INFP

Capricorn

Always Forever 🤭😂

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Ren

INFP

Libra

MAGIC KEY? 👉🏻👈🏻🥺

Any DL pass holders wanna be friends?

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ENFP

Leo

Yeah 🙌😉

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AmirMahdi

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ISTJ

Scorpio

First post

I just want to see what is this feature,im new to this app🤓

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Moon 🌓 & Rain 🌧️

20h

ISFJ

Leo

Sadly truth ✅😐😔

#life #humanity #boo

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ISTP

Capricorn

Justice

National Geographic Channel showed an experiment conducted on two monkeys in two adjacent cages. The guard gave each monkey a small pebble, then asked them to return it to him. Then he gave each monkey a reward. The first monkey returned the pebble to the guard, who gave him a slice of cucumber.... read more

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Leo

What I mean is the cactus 😂😆🤣

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Jake

ESTJ

Cancer

Whassup

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Dan

14h

ENFP

Leo

Daily limit...

Reached my daily limit without saying yes to one woman! Am I being too picky? 🤔

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11h

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Taurus

My god I just had another freaking thing happen tonight!!! I have so many stories yall😭

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14h

INTP

Capricorn

introverted and anxious, doesn't mean i'm incapable of communication.

sometimes I get shy and nervous in conversations, but I really like talking to others effectively. the more we click, the more i talk. there are people on here who are opposite of this but don't know how to communicate.

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Mario

ISFJ

Me every time I have to go into work

#travel

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Sometimes roads steals the joy of destination

#boo #dating #philosophy

One of the worst things to immediately ask someone on here...

Boo Community

This or they don't bother to read other's bio, which sometimes is self explanatory 👍

True💯 It's a big turn off 😂✌️

Yep 💯

If someone likes and cares about you they will put forth the effort to get to know you. If they are using you or only interested in themselves they will push for their own gain quickly.

I want to ensure that we have the same goals. Connecting with someone seeking something different doesn't make sense.

👏👏👏

True!

It's in their profile but also we need to ask because people will still lie unfortunately

I agree very much here. I've always felt very weird when asked that early on or even in that wording....

🤦

Thanks for the reminder

I ask if it's not in their bio. I'm not wasting my time or theirs if they're just wanting something casual or an encounter and not looking for anything long term.

People really do this?

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