I'm so sick of doing the same thing over and over again. I fall for guys that let me be emotionally vulnerable and open with them. But then once I have feelings for that person, I feel like I can't express any feelings about what's bothering me or open up to them emotionally like I did in the beginning, for fear they'll leave. So I just bottle bottle bottle until a night like tonight and I'm just upset with nowhere for it all to go. (edited)

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Ups and downs are part of relationship. You are a human and it's pretty common. Try being open about it. First time yourself, talk to yourself. It'll allow you to communicative with yourself which will reflect in relationship and communication will improve too

Tara

8mo

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Libra

That's when you go to a beach or an open field when no one's around and let it out , just scream. You can also take a risk and share a little at a time with them, just make sure you say it's how you feel not that it's how they make you feel if you come off attacking sounding. you may get a negative response. I say tell them a little at a time and go with the flow if they are excepting and listing and try to give input make sure to be receptive back. It may not be what you want to hear, so take what you need leave the rest. If they give input look at, hey they are trying. Doesn't mean they have all the answers and or all the right ones. If they aren't receptive then you don't share more. Try Journaling, some people think it's dumb but it really works because you are still getting it out. You can write a letter to the universe and mail it. Make an actual letter seal it and put deliver to God or to the universe . Noone gets it but it's been said and now out in the world. You don't have to even put your name. I do meditation for me that works I don't know if it will work for you but you can try. Just try not to stay in your head or stay negative in your head. Try to communicate though a little at a time , you just maybe surprised .

Quent

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Took me half a life time to understand that I needed to listen to my lady get emotions out and she needed to do the same for me. That being said if it's one way thing , or a constant thing with no growth, it gets old fast.

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Dandy

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When i was young, i met this girl who went through a recent break up, and just as you described she was vulnerable and i was there for her, when she grew feelings for me i told her to wait, recover, and if she still feels the same for me, we will see. We did eventually get to date, and she was the longest girl i ever been together with, when i asked her why she loved me, she explained its because i cared for her, and didnt emotionally take advantage of her vulnerable state like most guys do. I dont mean to show off, i just hope guys will take note of that, nobody wants to take advantage of someone when their vulnerable.

Jason

8mo

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Libra

Ouphe. Hope all turns good for ya

Andrew

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Aquarius

I’m sorry you go through this so regularly :(

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