It doesn't work! Haven't you figured that out yet!? When you tell a stranger they look good, the only thing that communicates is you haven't ever dated a pretty woman. Do they like being told that? Yes, but it will not get you anywhere _unless_ you're in a relationship with them. Believe it or not, women are people too. How much do you value things you haven't earned? Women need to feel like they have earned a relationship with you, so that they can get special benefits of being in a relationship. For example, compliments on appearance. Compliments on appearance are reserved for relationships or if you just want to be nice. But please understand if you do want to be nice with a compliment on her looks, you're going to also simultaneously reduce/eliminate your chances with her. If you give a woman the benefits of being in a relationship, without her having to earn the relationship, she will not respect you because you don't respect yourself. You're not valuing what you're offering. Men and women both have to earn relationships though a cycle of reciprocation. Also it will make her think that you give out special privileges to strange women. Who wants to be in a relationship with a guy that is giving out the privileges she had to earn, to strangers for free??? Get it together guys! I cringed too many times reading yalls comments 😆. P.S., liking her photos that are clearly attention seeking have the same effect. Stop it!!! (edited)

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Meh. I think a compliment is fine. But I'd rather be told they like a specific part than just "you're pretty". I LOVE when they say something about the photo. Like, "I love your shirt!" And then we can talk about it. I think the problem is we get told we're pretty all the time. So different compliments will make for better conversation. It's not that our ego is inflated, but there's only so much you can do with, "You're pretty" 😅 Also intention is super important. Don't be creepy about it.

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I would also question where the compliments are coming from - whether or not they are genuine or attention seeking. Me as a woman like complimenting others irl cause I feel the positive energy from people I love letting them know - especially girls who don't know how pretty they are! It's also nice when the receivers are glad to hear the compliments too 💜 the world deserves more appreciation 🙏

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