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Posted Thursday, June 1, 2023
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ESFP
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I have another pet peeve I want to vent about: the double standard that exists between men and women in relation to physical attraction. Men judge women on our looks, all day, every day, but become upset when women judge them on THEIR looks, and say women are shallow. Apparently, we aren't allowed..
...to have a preference in who we would like to date. The main reason a man usually pursues a woman romantically is because he finds her physically attractive, so why are women expected to accept ANY man that gives her ANY kind of attention, but a man can cherry pick who HE desires?? 🤨 News flash: MEN AND WOMEN ARE BOTH SHALLOW! Men will argue that women want a man that is good looking, makes higher than average amounts of money, is tall, has status, etc. while they are supposedly "simple" creatures that just want companionship. 🙄 LIES! Nobody is "simple," for one. Secondly, men are not pursuing any woman for just companionship. S*x is a man's primary motivation and has been since the beginning of time, and you see the exact same behavior in the animal kingdom with male animals. Men have a strong, primal drive for s*x. Okay, fine, but do not bash women for seeking our primal needs to find a man that is a good protector, provider, and a good spiritual leader. Both genders' primal drives are hardwired into us. Men seem to forget (or maybe many of them do not care) that women are the ones that get pregnant! 🤨 So, it makes sense that it's in a woman's DNA to look for a man that is financially stable. Men these days call it "gold digging." No, it's smart digging, because only a foolish woman would chase after a man that is broke, unambitious, in/out of jail or prison, unemployed and sits around in his parents' basement smoking weed and playing video games all day! 🤨 If women are "gold diggers" for seeking out their primal needs for protection and security, then men are sex diggers for seeking out their primal need for sex! 🤨 The day men chase after women they think are obese and unattractive will be the same day women chase after broke, unattractive men! 👍 (edited)
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