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Posted Friday, April 26, 2024
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I’ve noticed that one of the reasons I don’t end up going out on dates is because meeting someone for the first time is so nerve racking, and driving across town just to meet up for coffee or in a bar (when most rarely have anything I’d want to drink) and is so atypical of my normal behavior anyway, that I just don’t end up responding positively when someone wants that sort of meetup. When I wouldn’t normally meet a friend at a bar or coffee shop, why would doing so to meet a stranger be any type of realistic measure of our compatibility as friends or anything else? I know meetups should be in public places for safety, but why do people seem stuck on wanting to go to “cheap” places, rather than going out to do something with someone that they’d actually want to do, normally? From some of the feedback I’ve gotten from guys, it seems some are burnt out and feeling like girls are taking advantage of them to pay for expensive meals that don’t go anywhere. I’d rather go Dutch with an expectation that we are just hanging out as friends unless something more happens to develop, but do something I’ll actually enjoy. That way, I know I’ll have a good time and doing something I actually like with the person should also hopefully help us gauge if we enjoy each others company more realistically. Now, I am a foodie who enjoys nice restaurants. So not ruling out food, and some people like hanging out in bars. For example, I love music and dancing. I’m thinking about suggesting that if a person isn’t interested in meeting up to do something I enjoy like going line dancing, or a dance lesson, or on a food adventure, or to check out an relatively inexpensive show, we may just not have a foundation for much of a friendship to begin with and I should let them go thier own way. Thoughts? What do you think?
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