Context: I took the time to look at all the daily questions, from the very first to the most recent. To my surprise, they were so repetitive, saying the same ones over and over. Allowing some leeway on the questions asked by real people, as not many people see each other's questions, the app itself... read more

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Is it okay to have secrets in a relationship?

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Is it necessary to control falling in love?

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Hi

So I'm socially awkward at times and blend into the background due to wavering confidence whats the best way I can stand out?

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Do you believe that opposites attract?

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Do you think it's okay to start a conversation with a 'Hi, How are you?' or the like?

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I wish you should start with "Hello there" and hope the other person gets the reference and replies with "General Kenobi"

I feel like "Hi, how are you" is a great starter. Its better than the dry "Hi" or "Hey" or 1 word texts. The "how are you" makes someone want to indulge more into talking with them

Of course it is! To me, it's a classic conversation starter. If you have any creative ones, feel free to share them with me down below lol.

Just tell me what you want so I can say no / roast you / unmatch.

It's ok, but some people find it generic and don't answer

If someone can't put an effort to reply to Hi..I can't put an effort to go extra mile just to impress right at the start by throwing some pick up lines etc etc. Hi is boring to some people, I just avoid such people lol

People find it boring if all their first messages are that. I don't mind and just answer it. 🤷‍♂️

Its the only way i know to start a conversation jdjdbdjdb

yes very much better than ' whats your job' in the very first chat lol

Yes, starting a conversation with "Hi, how are you?" is generally considered polite and acceptable but you can add a little compliment by seeing his or her display picture like you got pretty earings, nose pin suits you or you got a pretty smile. Keep it simple and consice ✨

Read their profile and comment on something they have written for eg if they have done rock climbing you could write like " rock climbing is cool" I would like to do that one day. Mention something to get conversation started plus they will be impressed that you have at least read the profile.

Depends on the situation. Realistically they are talking to you and are concerned with how you are doing. What else do you want? The line is open. Talk about whatever you want afterwards.

My introverted self is here to take some notes.

I don't like such type of opening because most of people write like this. Personally I prefer more creative conversations so I could remember that person

I mean, I never answer messages that don’t have anything else to say. A random person on the street can say that to me. With what is on my profile here, if you can’t find something more interesting to open with, I’m not bothering 😂

No I absolutely hate when people do that and always ignore those messages

Not bad. But some wants it to be something much more unique.

If it was from someone I knew then fine I guess. But if it was from stranger, no. I don't like people I barely know asked me that question. Cause the conversation either still went along or stopped right with "i'm fine, hbu?" answer.

I found that girls on dating apps hate when you ask that, I guess it's not unique enough lol 😆

Conversation without greetings is a conversation. Greetings like Hi, how are you is a polite and a formal expression of goodwill.

In real life, yes. To a woman online? No

Online you should probably start with something else based on the other person's profile. If you have common interests etc

I think it's okay as long as you can keep the conversation going

To be honest, I prefer more of the psychotic darker version. For example: Him: Hey, I feel like dying today. It's so damn suicidal. Me: Let's go die together!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 I would marry this sick guy I tell you. 😁 (edited)

I like more when the dialogue begins not standard "hi! How are you" but otherwise when they ask something about my bio or what interests in me

I always start by asking how much polar bears weigh, it's sometimes enough to break the ice

This would be my first pick

It *should* be OK. So many people have standards that are completely ridiculous for what an icebreaker should be. Personally, our experience has been that anyone who messages us with "Hi!" Or "Hey!" Or whatever will not respond if you respond in kind. Like, conversation aborted, game over.

What else should i use then

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