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Charlene
Charlene

1y

INFP

Virgo

Confused

So basically been on and off with a guy for over 2 years. He says he loves me but he don't wanna be with me. Plus I want kids and he is certain he don't. I just don't know what to do anymore

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Tawny
Tawny

1y

ESFJ

Aries

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Leave. You know in your heart that he’s not the right person for you. You’ve wasted enough time with him, don’t waste any more of your precious time with a guy that doesn’t want to be with you.

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Ryan
Ryan

1y

INTJ

Sagittarius

You are so young that any decision you make will be a bad one. Most likely you'll choose to stay and try to find happiness, but it won't work. If there's an easy choice and a hard choice, the easy one will prolong your suffering, and the hard one will create a different kind of suffering. But the hard one leads to growth and renewal, while the easy one makes things stay the same. But it's your choice. Either way, maintain your dignity and self-respect and you'll find happiness in the little things, just like always.

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Samuel
Samuel

1y

INFJ

Aquarius

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Relationships do not merely depend on affection. It depends on whether you both are on the same page, that is to say whether your interests and morals are akin. If they're too different and don't match your needs and if they don't respect your boundaries, you're simply in an unhealthy relationship. A relationship is a serious commitment with another person. To sacrifice that which matters to you, say, your values and morals and the like, merely because you feel affection and love someone is no reason to put up with it. If you can't meet in the middle the relationship won't work and you'll waste time and effort. Time only moved forwards. It won't wait for you or return. Of course it's hard. I love my ex so much and I loved her character. However, she had high expectations of me and eventually lost interest. We were up and down, so it seemed like she wasn't sure. She knew I wasn't for her, but she loved me, and I love here. But we both knew we weren't working together. Its not a matter of whether you love each other or not, or whether you want them. This is not ebay relationships are about, its not that black and white. In sum, regardless of your natural feelings and desires, if your partner and yourself aren't working, you need to acknowledge that and leave if you can't work out. One might ask, then, how long shall I wait. Waiting for 1+ years is not wise as its a waste of precious time. You're better off being with someone who respects your needs and values and shares them rather than someone who's different regardless how much you love and want them, and they you. (edited)

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AJ
AJ

1y

INFP

Virgo

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Sounds like my ex fiance Matt.. as harsh as this might be and as much as you might not want to hear this your best bet is to move on, and that's something I didn't want to do myself. After I had gone pregnant with our daughter Adalynn, I made the biggest mistake and biggest sacrifice for my partner I had put my daughter up for adoption like he had wanted then got my tubes tied so I couldn't get pregnant again like he asked.. a month later he left me.

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