Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

Weak?

Is a guy weak when he cries?

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Curtis

1mo

INFP
Taurus

8w7

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You know what, no. We've been conditioned all our lives to think that, but everyone needs an outlet. Be it crying, punching a punching bag, rage room, or whatever. What makes you weak is not asking for help. I've been stuck in a rut because of this...

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

A bunch of people rather have the guys hide their feelings

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Tom

1mo

INFP
Taurus

7w8

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No. Period. Anyone saying otherwise needs to realize they're using a social app that had to go out of their way to sign up for, even getting through a personality test, for.

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

They just hide their feelings

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Bex

1mo

INTP
Capricorn

9w1

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No. I'll give you an example... When I met my guy and saw his strength and charisma, I got intrigued. When he showed he cared, I began to like him. When he cried in my arms, he stirred my compassion... and that, was when I realized I loved him.

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

Awwwww I’m glad he met someone like you

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Aleya

1mo

ISTJ
Pisces

When a guy cry in front of me, he looks weak to me

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

Why does it seem like he is weak if he is showing true feelings

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Aleya

1mo

ISTJ
Pisces

@Dennis Everling @Dennis Everling is by showing your true feelings like crying in front of feminine woman like me, your problem can be solve?

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

@Aleya what if the guy cries in front of you and asks you for help? Would you decline?

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Aleya

1mo

ISTJ
Pisces

@Dennis Everling yes. I dont want to waste my brain cell on those people who can never understand how my way of thinking can actually solve their problem and end up me telling them ' i told u'

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

@Aleya would you want him to be there when you cry?

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

@Aleya I do understand your thinking also

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Aleya

1mo

ISTJ
Pisces

@Dennis Everling no thanks.i prefer to cry alone and think about how to solve my own prob

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Avelino

1mo

INTJ
Sagittarius

Depends. Did he wet the bed or lose his entire family to a team of black ops assassins because he leaked above top secret info to his former Delta officer who was interrogated and killed because he trusted the wrong insider that chain smoked cigarillos because he's dedicated to his upper echelon CIA desk job so much that he can't go home to his wife or else she nags and threatens to divorce his ass?

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Alex

1mo

INFJ
Sagittarius

6w5

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5

Not at all. It means that this guy is just a human being.

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

I agree everyone is human

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Erica Richardson

1mo

INFJ
Virgo

6w7

6

7

No crying is a normal human thing regardless . It's actually beneficial to cry

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

I know everyone needs to cry once In Awhile

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Wanderingsoul

1mo

INTJ
Aquarius

A man is debatably weak if he can't. Maybe not weak but certainly needs to work through some things...this is coming from someone who does have a hard time with this in fact.

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Dennis Everling

1mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

Would you ask for help if you could?

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Wanderingsoul

1mo

INTJ
Aquarius

@Dennis Everling I can and I have. I haven't gone to a therapist for it, but I recognize it as an issue and I do talk to people about it. It's one of many works in progress. Short answer yes. Help is always good if you can get it.

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Adelya

1mo

ENFJ
Gemini

6w5

6

5

It's ok for anyone to cry but if a guy gonna come to me and cry complaining about his life everyday i will think that he's weak

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Alexandra

1mo

INFP
Sagittarius

2w1

2

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No, never. Means no psycho xD One guy I knew didn’t cry at one of the most heartbreaking movie scene ever, I was like “what’s wrong with you 😅” . My boyfriend cried in front of me, we cried together, and it strengthened our bond. Tender heart is beautiful heart

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Felipe

1mo

ENFJ
Pisces

Nope, just choose the time and place. Is not that is weak as a human, just we have a primate way to con front things different from women. We use logic first then emotions. Understand whats going on and then find a healthy way to face those feels. Unless is something extreme obv.

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Prakhar

1mo

INFP
Libra

Weakness is hiding who you are and what you're feeling and from what I've seen ,crying ,specially for guys crying is rather a very strong virtue as it comes with a strong sense of self ,knowing what's correct and accepting what's happening in the moment.

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JD

1mo

INFP
Scorpio

2w1

2

1

Kind of a trick question.. I would say no and argue hes stronger... but honestly it would depend on what hes crying about.

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James josey

1mo

INTP
Sagittarius

5w4

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Why is he crying?

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Scott

1mo

ISTP
Gemini

1w9

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9

Not even a little.

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Jax

1mo

ISTP
Taurus

5w6

5

6

No. Emotions are just a part of being human. Express them how you wish

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Koketso Mantsane

1mo

INTJ
Taurus

5w4

5

4

No

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