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Posted Saturday, September 17, 2022
1y
ESFJ
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Effects of loosing your v card
I got ghosted after loosing mine recently, how do you deal with the emotional aftermath alone? It wasn't a good experience and Idk I went through all the stages of grief I guess. I've come to accept it but now I'm on a whole new low of depression. Edit: To be clear Yes my Virginity and it was just supposed to be a date and he got impatient I geuss idk how it happened but it did. I thought since he rushed it like that that we'd still talk about it but he dropped me off on the side of the road where I had to spend the night and I never heard from him again. 😕 I'm looking for someone to date and get to know but I ended up with a mistake. (edited)
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Sorry to hear that happened to you. Do your best to not handle it alone. Try taking to someone. It might be embarrassing at first, but should help you feel better faster.
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I second everyone's recommendation that you find a trusted someone to talk to about this. A therapist would be ideal (since they are almost guaranteed to be non-judgmental) but not everyone has access to that sort of support. Sex can be complicated and messy, especially your first time, but consent should never be. Like a few others have said, as you process, if you feel it would be appropriate, go for a police report. All this could be a lot more manageable if you're in college, see a counselor there, and they'll be way more helpful than internet strangers. Sorry you were treated this way, hang in there, you're stronger than you know
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