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Universes
Posted Tuesday, September 17, 2024
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A bunch of my recent Boo comments stitched together
The value of a good natured heart: A good natured heart is something someone can be said to have and tends to stay true to its direction. Looks and skills catch eyes and impress, they grow and fade with time but do not indicate a good hearted person. In terms of whats most valuable in searching for a long term partner, it's that which is reliably lasting and consistant, skills can be learned, wealth aquired, or lost, looks fade but a good heart doesnt, neither is it likely that someone who doesnt have a good heart will aquire one. So to search for someone with a good heart means to search for someone with a good foundation to build something sturdy on and without it we try to build with someone on sandy shifting soil The long Journey of Virtue: Fairytail endings don't happen at the beginning or in the middle like the movies, they happen at the end, and before the end is the journey to test our metal and make sure we arnt doing it for superficial or instant reward based reasons Recognizing Superficiality: Some people live on the surface and just don't seem to be aware that there are things more fundamental to every single humans quality of life than the surface level things they focus on. But don't let it put u off, shallow people will often reveal themselves pretty early on, if we are prepared to look for signs Another way to find genuine love: a real genuine love can develop from platonicism, no preconceived end goal or ulterior motive, just talking, getting to know eachother, and the time spent will reveal the truth of if there is a connection there. love is when the affection eclipses the pain of life, now youre smiling, a smile so sweet, but not because someone is charismatic, beautiful, makes you laugh, but maybe because of who they are, they are, and you love that they are. Discernment over blind trust: I neither trust nor distrust, I discern, as to trust is a premature conviction that you can believe and rely on somone before youve gathered the data first, like with any equiry one never needs belief when one has evidence in which case there is no need for trust, discernment is showing they're reliable and that takes time. No prejudging people based on a glimpse, we need to see them under many different circumstances and situations to see all sides of them and their resolve despite the intensity of any of them. Some of the qualities 'a' good relationship: Regular communication, checking in even when busy (making time). Following through with plans and promises, big or small. Steadiness in mood and affection, in responses to stress or conflict (in a safe way that respects a person's primary needs before the circumstances). Steady encouragement, motivation and support in personal growth and goals. Maintaining rituals or traditions together (if applicable) Uniformity in parenting styles (if applicable/possible). Regular self-reflection, improvement of self applied for relationship growth Dependability in crisis or need. Continuity in love and the magic of romantic thoughtfulness over time. Consistency in sharing workload and willingness to compromise. Unchanging in core moral and ethical values. These are just but a few of the things that could make for an optimal relationship. We can put a label on ourselves and our partner but a "relationship" isn't a passive but rather an activity, and how do things go when people are apathetic about what they do? The Importance of Positive Stimulus: Positive stimulus, we need it at times. We know neglect is aweful but what is neglect but the absence of positive stimulus. On that note isn't it weird that its not everywhere when its so foundational to health of humans, its one of those few things everyone could contribute to and benefit from, life could be such a good tangable dream Love vs Temptation: if a man loves a woman he won't look at other woman to satiate an appatite. He will look at other woman if he loves looks, or temptation, more than has respect for the person he loves else he would look to her for that. Same goes for woman. This is an example of one of many things we settle for and excuse or justify in people but being willing to settle for less than we deserve is not evidence that what we settle for is acceptable or 'natural'. Men who want to excuse and justify their toying with temptations sure would like woman to think that and vice versa. they say "look all of the people that do it too" but a lack of morality in a society does not make vice a virtue. No one wins against temptation because it is immortal, but they play with it knowing eventually they will lose to it, it's a recipe for disaster. Don't excuse them, leave them or inform them of how it effects you otherwise we just teach them and our children that the behaviour is without consequence. Well there is a consequence, on the people they hurt, lie to and decieve and its damage, and we shouldn't sweep the damage under a rug like it's nothing. We should reward going above material pleasures and shallowness so that society must move that way to receive the attention it craves. When we don't have parents or teachers to lean on, we take on that responsibility for ourselves, we improve ourselves and by extention it ripples to society exampling what is okay and what is not, not just by what we do but by what we accept. What people deserve: Regardless of whether I deserve the best or not, someone will give me the best. not because of I am the best but because they are, but I will make sure I am someone who it is not wasted on and I will give them the best right back. Deserve is not even a question, if we all give the best to eachother then we all get the best (edited)
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