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Posted Saturday, October 1, 2022
2y
INTJ
Pisces
Picky dater. Good or bad?
How picky are you when choosing to get to know someone more or starting a relationship? Does being picky mean that you know what you want, or is it too judgemental? 🤔 In my case, I feel like it's important to have boundaries set up and to know what you want from a partner. I'd rather be playing the long game than to get in a relationship ignoring the red flags just because I feel lonely and need someone. I've done this mistake in the past but I'm not afraid of being alone anymore and I know what I want from someone. So if it takes me a longer time to find a partner, I'm ok knowing that when I eventually find someone it will be the real deal. 😇 Now let me hear your thoughts and how ya'll proceed in the comments! 💜
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Jacoby
2y
INFP
Aries
Being picky is necessary, otherwise you'd just accept anything and that rarely creates a healthy relationship. Everybody has boundaries but some people don't know how to reinforce or communicate them. That pretty much always leads to tension, arguments, and failure in my experience.
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FunBun
2y
INFJ
Capricorn
I am very similar to you, Capy. I prefer to allow things to unfold naturally, pay attention to how they treat me and others and reflect as well as communicate along the way. I'm very picky as well because I know what I have to offer, unconditional love and don't want to settle or be taken advantage of either. Boundaries are a must in a healthy relationship. Again I say..Good for you, Capy! 😘💯
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Arthur
2y
INTP
Capricorn
I think there's a difference between being picky (having a preference) and being uncompromising, childish or anal about opportunity for experience. Being picky can be good if it isn't to such an extreme it forces your behavior to be uncompromising. All things in moderation imo. However i think it's important NOT to compromise on personal values because that directly reflects on yourself.
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Dan
2y
ENTJ
Sagittarius
Tooooooo many people expect acceptance off the bat now. Nobody owes you a thing, it's up to each individual to put forth their best foot. Be picky. This is a person you're planning to spend time and energy on, not a fashion choice.
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Zach_doodle
2y
INTJ
Leo
That's an interesting question, because you don't want to seem airy. I've had to become picky, because too many just aren't interested in using my mind. Everyone interested in me, have only been interested in my body and it's left me in a dark place. So the only thing that perks my interest is a good intellectual back and forth. So the real question becomes, why is someone picky to begin with?
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