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Universes
Posted Thursday, October 26, 2023
1y
ESTJ
Sagittarius
How do you cope?
When someone you talk to suddenly stops communicating? Online and offline in the capacities listed, Friendship, potential dating, work, and a gaming capacity, how do you handle it? Edit: Multi tiered question (4 different questions, or just say for all in how you cope) (edited)
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Martin
1y
ENTJ
Gemini
Yep.. The first go to once i come to my senses is definitely distraction. Cuz im not gonna lie, when it first happens my mind starts racing.. Wondering "was it something I said?" "what did I do?" "was it real.. Was I just a joke?" and spiraling.. Not knowing why is worse than any truth. So after losing my mind and I calm down.. I run to whatever great distraction I can find.
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Sarah
1y
ISTJ
Gemini
Out of sight, out of mind. Overall. Breakdown: In a friendship: when they tell me they're leaving, then I cry and try to bargain - mostly bc they don't sound like they want to leave, but do feel it is best for them. Once that conversation is done I respect their choice and don't contact them again - out of sight, out of mind. Although it will usually actually take a few months to move on. Bonus; trying to be friends (like matching with someone here on Boo, and just getting to know each other): No skin off my back. They stop responding, then they stop responding and I delete the match 💅 Potential dating: bye Felicia! It didn't work 🤷🏼♀️, but there are plenty of fish in the sea 🎣😁 Work: Talk to my manager, bc communication is as necessary in the workplace as it is in an intimate relationship 😂 But, they just no longer want to be work friends? I avoid them as much as possible and do my work 🤷🏼♀️ Gaming? Seriously NBD and if they didn't remove me as a friend, then after a few months of no contact, then I'll remove them from mine. (edited)
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Brooke
1y
ISTP
Taurus
It depends on how close we are/were Acquaintances, don’t need to cope. There’s not much of a connection to mourn for Friends, they’ll come and go as I evolve through life stages. I can make new ones along the way and they will too. I can’t recall needing to cope the loss of a friendship, but I guess I’d just seek new connections if I was starved for friendship. Potential dating, if it was a potential I had actual hopes/investment in? Oof 😮💨I just step back from the scene and refocus my energy on myself, after crying it out for like an hour or so. I then bask in the freedom of doing what I like and treating myself to a new toy. (Like a videogame, not the other kind of toy) Work, I think it’s common and socially acceptable for work relationships to die once you move on to a new job so I don’t really lose sleep over these lol if I have a coworker I get along well with, I typically have their contact info at some point so it doesn’t feel like a completely lost connection even if we never text each other lol Gaming, haven’t needed to cope with the loss of this type of relationship yet so I guess I’d treat it similarly to friends scenario
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Ian
1y
ENFP
Aquarius
Some other people have already said it but yeah distractions help. Finding new things to do or doing things I already love, maybe find new people after some time has passed. That covers pretty much all of those. I write and play music so I can vent through that. And play games to get some enjoyment elsewhere.
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