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Posted Friday, November 8, 2024
20h
INFP
Gemini
Awkward
Why is it so difficult/ Awkward trying to put myself out there to date?
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Emily
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19h
INFP
Gemini
It's always been difficult for me to even make friends, I don't like having expectations in people so I don't get hurt . I have a wall up and I am aware of that .
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Cas
20h
ISTP
Virgo
Because you're scared of rejection? Or afraid of what people might think about you, after they get to know you. Scared of not being good enough for someone? So many possible reasons. But don't be. Every rejection is someone who's not worthy of you. Heck, I've been putting myself out there for 10 years without results 🤣
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Miguel
6h
INFJ
Sagittarius
Do you really want to know?
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Lucas
19h
INFJ
Cancer
For me, I've found it to be like a muscle. Exposure helps alleviate the discomfort over time. If ya don't do it very often or in a long time, it's bound to feel uncomfortable! Could just be me though! 🙏
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Brendan Verbrugge
20h
INTJ
Gemini
I can't really speak for others, but for me putting yourself out there makes you vulnerable in some sense, and opens you up to judgement from others. You have to be willing to accept this, but it can certainly still feel a bit awkward and uncomfortable at times. Dating in itself is also quite difficult as true honesty and openness is rare to find on the internet. People often have hidden aspects of themselves that do not become apparent until meeting them in person, which can be very upsetting and make you feel lied to.
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Jose
8h
INTJ
Capricorn
People aren’t taught how to date or be courteous to others. My father told me that before he met my mother he had three girlfriends. One in the morning, one for the afternoon, and one for night. My grandfather apparently had 6 before my grandmother… it was small island that they lived on.
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