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Posted Friday, November 8, 2024
1mo
INFP
Gemini
Awkward
Why is it so difficult/ Awkward trying to put myself out there to date?
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Emily
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1mo
INFP
Gemini
It's always been difficult for me to even make friends, I don't like having expectations in people so I don't get hurt . I have a wall up and I am aware of that .
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Cas
1mo
ISTP
Virgo
Because you're scared of rejection? Or afraid of what people might think about you, after they get to know you. Scared of not being good enough for someone? So many possible reasons. But don't be. Every rejection is someone who's not worthy of you. Heck, I've been putting myself out there for 10 years without results ๐คฃ
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Miguel
1mo
INFJ
Sagittarius
Do you really want to know?
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Lucas
1mo
INFJ
Cancer
For me, I've found it to be like a muscle. Exposure helps alleviate the discomfort over time. If ya don't do it very often or in a long time, it's bound to feel uncomfortable! Could just be me though! ๐
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Brendan Verbrugge
1mo
INTJ
Gemini
I can't really speak for others, but for me putting yourself out there makes you vulnerable in some sense, and opens you up to judgement from others. You have to be willing to accept this, but it can certainly still feel a bit awkward and uncomfortable at times. Dating in itself is also quite difficult as true honesty and openness is rare to find on the internet. People often have hidden aspects of themselves that do not become apparent until meeting them in person, which can be very upsetting and make you feel lied to.
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Duane
1mo
INFJ
I have a bad habit of assuming most women will see my picture and decide I'm not good looking enough, and the rest will read my bio and assume I'm boring (yes my bio reads boring). I come up with more reasons not to talk to people than makes sense, and I end up not pulling the trigger with anyone. None of this makes any sense - you only live once so you should shoot your shot and chance happiness rather than sit assuming the worst. You miss all of the shots you don't take and all that...I really should take my own advice.
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Jose
1mo
INTJ
Capricorn
People arenโt taught how to date or be courteous to others. My father told me that before he met my mother he had three girlfriends. One in the morning, one for the afternoon, and one for night. My grandfather apparently had 6 before my grandmotherโฆ it was small island that they lived on.
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