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Posted Sunday, September 15, 2024
1mo
INTP
Virgo
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Do men like caring and supportive women?
This is a genuine question. Are caring and supportive women a turn off? How much caring is too much?
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Melissa
1mo
INFJ
Capricorn
I'm curious to see the responses here. From my experience, men think they should want a caring and supportive person... but then they get quickly get bored of the calm and stability that usually accompanies such personalities.
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Jacob
1mo
ESFP
Scorpio
There is never to much caring as far as I am concerned 🫂
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Grant
1mo
ENTJ
Scorpio
A few years ago I met a woman who, while we didn’t work out in the end, showed me exactly what I want in a partner. She was nurturing, thoughtful of me, respectful of my feelings, and honest about her own feelings. She didn’t want anything from me, but rather wanted to simply BE with me. It was because of her that I stopped chasing and started being available, so to speak. Because after tasting what could’ve been I can never go back.
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Luke
1mo
ESTP
Men love a caring and supportive woman more now than ever, with how things are now both men and women are looking for all the wrong things when it comes to relashionships, things have become mainly focused on sex and looks, sex is only one ingrediant and not the main one either, and looks we need to start looking deeper than what we find on the outside we have forgotten what makes each indevidual special.
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𝕵𝖔𝖘𝖍𝖚𝖆
1mo
INFJ
Cancer
It's not a trun off. But to answer with what Milissa said in the comments, yes that is true aswell. Some men want someone who is caring and supporting but also fun and adventurous with an open mind. Never have I found a cold heart to be an attractive quality
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Kevin
1mo
INTP
Virgo
Yes, men typically do like caring and supportive women. Narcissists and psychopaths, for example, take advantage of such women and use them as pawns. Whereas empathetic and more honourable men genuinely do appreciate and reciprocate the support. Most men value and have emotions just as women do. Don't be fooled into thinking otherwise, and as our toxic culture of masculinity would have you believe. How much? That's a very relative and individual question: it will vary from individual to individual. However whether you are a man or a woman, autonomy is as important as it is healthy in any relationship. Yes, it's important to care for your partner but it's just as (if not more) important to know how to take care of yourself, and to allow your partner to exert the same degree of independence for themselves. So how much is too much? I'd probably say when autonomy begins to break down, as a general rule of thumb. Autonomy is key and smothering someone with compassion (or having a codependent relationship with them) won't achieve that. If anything, it will most likely and slowly fester and become toxic over time, fostering resentment. (edited)
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Aidan
1mo
ISTJ
Leo
There are caring and supportive women? Where are these women that you speak of? I would very much like to meet them
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Jeff
1mo
INFP
Aquarius
Caring and supportive are good qualities if you ask me. But mothering can feel too much. Not into cold and distant women. I think good communication and boundaries help a relationship find that balance. In short, don't change who you are as this will cause problems down the road.
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Fede
1mo
INFP
Taurus
I would say depends on each person but I in general no
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Probably Sleeping
1mo
INFP
Libra
Yes we do
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Domingo
1mo
INTJ
Scorpio
Yeah, absolutely. My first serious ex was extremely caring. At times she'd border on being overly clingy. But it felt good knowing if something breaks and I lose my cool, she'd be there to bring me back home. Of all my past relationships, she's the one that became a lasting and trustworthy friendship. But that's cause I could tell she didn't just care about me like that, it was kind of universal caring. She was and is just genuinely an amazing person.
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Kalen Rolfe
1mo
ESTP
Taurus
It depends on the man. For me, I love a caring and supportive woman, but only as long as it doesn't become controlling.
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Brett Casey
1mo
INFP
Taurus
Yes yes yes.
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Mike
1mo
INFJ
Sagittarius
Absolutely we do, but we don't always want you to help us like actually do a thing so much as really be like our samwise from lord of the rings, belive in us when we don't belive in ourselves, stand by us when things are hard, and atleast once a day walk up and hug us from behind so that we remember we are loved, it means more to us than you might think.
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Vakash
1mo
ISTP
Cancer
Yess
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Anni
1mo
ISFP
Taurus
The truly grateful, yes, I believe they like it. But at the same time, there are men *and women* who think neglect, gaslighting, and mistreatment *is* caring because they grew up with that conditioning. 🫤
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Shayne
1mo
ISTP
Virgo
Yes.
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David
1mo
INTP
Capricorn
Personally I'll love to meet one
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Shaun
1mo
INTP
Cancer
Like anything, some do, some don’t. What’s important is to find the one who’s preference that matches how you actually are - there is no point pretending to be caring or uncaring to attract a specific person if that means living a lie - that can only lead to heartbreak down the road. Find the one that likes you as you are, even if it means waiting.
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Soo
1mo
INTJ
Virgo
good question: Care and support are the elements of musciline energy, so if they are found in a woman, especially Virgo or Cancer girls or any girl with any personality or horoscope , for example, if we talk about the zodiac signs, she is a giver , as if she is amother, she cares about every detail, she supports the man , it makes him run away, or misunderstands this interest as a lack of confidence, or a need, or a reasonof Trauma from childhood, by the way, it is possible that if attention and care increase, it will be like this, so a balance in providing love, attention, and support is required, and the most important thing is that it be less than the man, meaning if he takes you do, if he cares, you will care, because if that happens, the man will ask himself , where is my energy and my place in the relationship, so be smart and awareness enough Even if this is one of your personality features , I am like this and I balance myself. This means that if this trait is masculine, accept it and allow him explain this side to you , in the end we all have to be healthy with each other.
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Nayan Rajput
1mo
INTJ
Capricorn
Yes! Men love that women who take care of his man also support him in all the situation no matter what situation is. Men are so simple if they get someone who can take care of them and support them then men can do anything for that one person
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Harshul Rawat
1mo
ENTJ
Virgo
I can only say if I get one like this :)
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Rik
1mo
ESFP
Capricorn
It depends on the person you talk to, but I never understood why you don't want a carrying and supporting woman? Do you want a woman that just let's you do whatever you want and not care about anything you do? How can that be a healthy relationship? Myself I love a carrying and supportive woman, I am like that myself and I need some reassurance once in a while. Like I said, I don't see how it is a bad thing to care
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