Codependent Community

Just got out of a long-term relationship and realized it's actually cripplingly lonely!

How do people actually make friends in the real world? I was so codependent for such a long time. If anyone would love to talk about literally anything, my dms are open!

Softness

Being soft is something I've struggled with, my whole life. Trauma young and seeing my older sister be hit or bullied for her softness, and for being different, taught me that to be soft was to be weak. Id built a cold wall around myself before i even started school. With this wall around me, ... read more

Even in death may we never part

People ask me about how I deal with bpd alot and honestly most of it is fighting for control over my brain. I think about this drawing alot in regards to the way it shows how codependent I get on my partners. My last drawing was idolization, this one is codependence, I never want them to leave, I... read more

Rewriting The Script

Now I remember... we weren't supposed to let the tragedy continue. We weren't supposed to play in a tragedy that someone casted us in, it was never our role to play, never ours to bear. The tired narratives. It's been a long journey personally. A part of the lesson was generational. An unclean... read more

How to stop being codependent?

Nice to meet you

Looking to just make some friends. I'm not good at peopling and I ramble, but I'm honest, weird, kinda crazy, and love animals. And books. So let's just start a conversation: if you could be any animal (extinct or not/fictional or real), what would it be and why? I would be a cat of any kind.... read more