Settle Community

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18d

ISFP

Cancer

45

Don't be used as the introverted friend for people to trauma dump on.

People who like to yap about themselves and their own problems. Don't settle for being the emotional weight blanket friend. If they're not asking questions about you then it's not a mutual connection. Unless you don't mind being a therapist.

Anna

14d

INFP

Kembar

67

Absolutely. Don't settle, don't change for someone. Grow, stay patient.

Chrissy

5d

INFJ

Wresaba

34

"WOW well done so what youre the most educated woman in your family 🙄 that doesnt get you a man. You'll be 32 with some stupid PhD wanting to settle down - competing with the fresh young pretty 18 year olds who are ready for REAL men and you'll have no one and be lonely."

This was said to me when I told a few guys at my mates birthday gathering that I have a bachelors, a masters and im doing an integrated degree while working full time in a laboratory to become a registered scientist. Had a great time informing them that I didnt do all this for a man - a man is...(besut) read more

Caterina

14d

INTJ

Kaprikorn

67

You deserve to be seen too

I’ve had a few people reach out about my last post, mentioning that I seem really ‘optimistic.’ To be clear, I’m not coming from a place of toxic positivity. I’m actually quite burnt out and exhausted myself. ​It’s just interesting to observe how many people believe they need to reach a ‘finished’... read more

Jiji

12d

INFJ

Libra

65

The Moon and Sixpence – Chasing the Soul or Living the Norm?

To me, William Somerset Maugham is like a surgeon with a scalpel, masterfully peeling back the layers of the human soul. I first fell in love with his storytelling in The Painted Veil, but after finishing The Moon and Sixpence, this book has officially claimed its spot on my "must-read-again"... read more

Miel

2d

ISTJ

Sagitarius

On Point.

Never settle.