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Gulu la singleat30, kucheza, ndi zokambirana.
56 MIZIMU
ZONSE
singleat30
Kutana ndi Anthu Atsopano
MATSITSIDWE
Ndachita kuyesera kuchita chibwenzi ndi amuna achichepere, ine 36 iwo 28-33 zomwe ndizabwino pa chiyanjano cha zaka koma ndimakonda amuna akulu. Zinthu zikukula kwambiri ndi amuna opitilira 35 akuchoka mu ubale wautali komanso akukhala ndi banja lomwe silikuwoneka kuti akufuna ubale watsopano…werengani zambiri
Ndikupita ku osachepera zaka 10 zochepa. Ndikuyamba kukambirana ndi munthu wa zaka 29, zaka 6 zochepa. Sindingathe kufotokoza chifukwa chiyani koma zikuwoneka ngati amuna a zaka zanga alibe zofuna zofanana za ubale monga ine. Amuna achichepere opambana ndi mwayi wosangalatsa lol. Ndikugwira ntchito…werengani zambiri
Ndinaseka pamene mwamuna amene anandifunsa kuti ndikhale naye anasankha kusiya kupereka yankho asanapange tsiku kapena nthawi kwa maola 24 akuti "pepani ndinagona" Sindinapitirize kukumana naye ndipo sanabwerere ku nkhaniyi. Mwachitsanzo. Zikuwoneka zovuta koma siye. Ndikufuna mwamuna amene sakhala…werengani zambiri

Kukhalabe kovuta kupeza amene akukwanira pamene uli mu zaka za 30 ndi kupitilira.

Kodi palibe anthu abwino a Normal omwe ali mu zaka za 30 omwe akukhala m'dera langa kapena pafupi?
Chifukwa chiyani ndi chovuta kupeza munthu.... 😣

Kukhala pokha si kwabwino. Ndakhala sabata ina ndikupumula m'bedi pokha. Ndakonda anthu akuti palibe chomwe chiri chabwino kukhala pokha pamene anthu amenewa ali ndi mabanja, abwenzi, ana, kapena akazi. Kuphatikiza apo, kulemba zonse m'malo mwa kukambirana mwachindunji kumatenga nthawi.
M'magawo awiri kapena atatu, amuna amandifunsa chifukwa chiyani kapena kuti ndingabwerere ku ntchito ya tsiku chifukwa amakhala masiku. Ndikugwira ntchito usiku chifukwa cha thanzi langa. Kumuka pa 4-5am kunali kukhudza thanzi langa la maganizo, ndinavutika kulimbikitsa kuti ndimalize kugona…werengani zambiri
Ndinaganiza kuti kuyesa kuona komwe zinthu zidzapita ndi uyu mwamuna amene anafuna ubale wathunthu kuyambira tsiku loyamba m'malo mopita, chinali chinthu chosasiyana koma sichinachitike smh.

Ndimakukonda. Muli ndi chiyankhulo chabwino komanso mumalemba mawu olondola. Izi zimandiuza zonse zomwe ndimapanga kudziwa za inu.

Ndaonetsa mnzanga wa zaka 26 chithunzi cha zomwe ndimakonda ndipo anati ndi wopanda kukongola lol. Ndinamuwuza, usachite kukhala wosavala pambuyo pa nthawi chifukwa palibe wa ife akuwoneka bwino ndi zaka lol
Chifukwa chake uyu mwamuna akufuna kundifunsa 5x mu ola ngati ndikufuna kukumana mu moyo weniweni ndipo ndinamuwuza pambuyo pa nthawi yoyamba kuti ndisakumane mwachangu. Amaganiza kuti ndine wopusa lol. Anati "pepani, ndikuyesera kukhala wotetezeka, ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa zomwe mungafune kuchita…werengani zambiri
Ndikufuna mtundu wa mwamuna amene adzachite mndandanda wa nkhani za ife ndipo aliyense akhoza kuona ife tikukhala ndi chimwemwe pamodzi.
Chifukwa chake ndi chiyani chachilendo kuti munthu akhale wovuta kufikira koma akuti akufuna ine koma ndinangokhala ndi mawu awiri mu sabata chifukwa akugwira ntchito yotsatsa ndi kuwonjezera mitengo ya makampani angapo koma sindikudziwa ngati izi ndi zoona. Ndine wopenga chifukwa ndimagwiritsa…werengani zambiri
Aliyense kuti akambirane?
Kodi pali funso ndi yankho kuti tikhale ndi chiyembekezo choti mukhoza kukhala ndi munthu m'nthawi yotsatira pamene simunapezane mwachindunji? Ndi ofanana ndi kufunsa ngati munthu ameneyo akufuna ana? Kapena kundidziwitsa kuti akufuna ndikhale ndi mowa wotsuka pakuti ndi chiyembekezo cha ine…werengani zambiri
Pekope monga nthawi zonse smh. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndinali ndi nthawi yabwino ndi munthu koma mu nthawi yochepa kuposa maola 24, anafuna ubale wathunthu. Palibe amene amapita mu moyo wanga kwa nthawi yaitali kuposa mwezi 1 kupatula ngati mnzanga wabwino, wogawana nyumba, ndi mnzanga ku TN…werengani zambiri
Ndikukondwera ndi mwayi wopumula koma ndingakonde kukhala ndi ntchito kuposa kukhala pakhomo ndisanakhale ndi ndalama ndipo ndalone. Ngati ndinali ndi ndalama, ndingakhale ndalone pa mini con, nyumba ya boba tea, kapena kundipatsa mwayi ku Kuras. Ndikukhala wosangalala kwambiri.
Moni, choncho ichi ndi chinthu chovuta kuchita, Koma ndine mwamuna wa zaka 35 kuchokera ku South Africa ndikuyang'ana wina wabwino. Ndine munthu wochita masewera a metal, ndimagwiritsa ntchito masewera ndipo ndimagwira ntchito ngati Mphunzitsi wa Kukhala M'tsogolo koma musayembekezere thupi la six…werengani zambiri

Ndikukhumudwa kuti sindikukambirana ndi munthu aliyense amene amanditengera chisangalalo chotsatira. Ndingakhale ndi tsogolo lomwe mnzanga wabwino akukamba za lomwe limatanthauza kukhala wosavala kwa nthawi yotsatira ya moyo wanga kapena kumaliza ndi iye m'malo mwa mwamuna amene sangakhale wopusa…werengani zambiri
Omg! Ndapeza mwamuna wokonzeka kutenga ndi mtundu wanga wa chinsinsi! Chifukwa chake, tsopano nthawi yake yopita ku tulo idzandisiya ndiponso pambuyo pa ntchito, monga momwe ndinachitira asanandipeze smfh. Pamenepo ndapeza kuti ndidzakumana naye, ndikhope kuti ndidzakondwera ndi zinthu mpaka…werengani zambiri
Chifukwa chake uyu mwamuna ndakhala ndikukambirana naye kwa sabata imodzi ndipo ndakhala ndikupita kumalo ake nthawi zingapo, anati anganditumizire uthenga pambuyo pa 5pm yesani pamene ndinachoka kumalo ake. Ndinatumiza "kulala pafupi nanu ndi bwino kwambiri kuposa kukhala ndi ine nokha lol.…werengani zambiri
Sindikudziwa chifukwa chake ndi kovuta kwambiri kupeza munthu woti akumvetse ndi kuti mukugwira ntchito ... mwachangu kuti mupeze ana anu ndi moyo womwe mukufuna muk growing up .... Ndikuganiza kuti si chinthu chomwe anthu akufuna masiku ano .....
Chifukwa chiyani kukumana pa intaneti kwakhala kovuta masiku ano?

Ndinakuwonetsani mnzanga wogwira ntchito mtundu wa amuna omwe ndimakonda. Ine: "Ali ndi zaka 26" Mnzanga: "amawoneka bwino" 😆😂 Ine: Ayenera kukhala wabwino, ali ndi zaka zochepa kuposa ine Koma chabwino kwambiri ndi chakuti ndinaganiza kuti ali ndi zaka 8 zochepa kuposa ine 😆 Ali kuti…werengani zambiri
Ndimakonda kwambiri kulira ndi kumva kuti moyo wanga wakhala wopanda mphamvu mpaka poyamba sindingakonde kutenga imfa yanga mawa. Sindingachite chinthu chovulaza kwa ine kapena ena kuti ndione kuti zimachitika koma malinga ndi zomwe ndinachita m'nkhani ya imfa yachibale yomwe ndinapeza pa manja a…werengani zambiri
Ndinapeza kuti ndi chisoni kuti ndinaganiza kuti "sichinthu ngati ndimalola kulala pa sofa" zimandikumbutsa za "ndidzadyera chilichonse chomwe ndikufuna pa chakudya chamadzulo ndiponso ndidzakhala mpaka nthawi yaitali momwe ndikufuna" ngati kuti, gawo liti la kukhala wakuchedwa silili ndi mbali…werengani zambiri
Choncho akupita kupeza nyumba m'dziko lina koma kenako akupereka chinthu m'dziko ndi malo omwe ndimakhala. Chinthu ndi chakuti, anati ndi cholakwika kugwiritsa ntchito maola akukumbukira kuti anali mu chikondi ndi ine ndipo akufuna kukhala amene adzakhazikitse zonse zomwe ndakumana nazo pa date.…werengani zambiri

Ndi nthawi yokha yomwe ingatsimikizire ngati mwamuna uyu adzafunika kuchoka chifukwa timagwira ntchito pa nthawi zosiyanasiyana (iye ali 7am-5pm ndipo ine ndine 2pm-10:30pm) Ndimakhala ndi mtima wanga mpaka 2-6am ndipo ndiyamba tsiku langa 7-10am. Iye anachita usiku awiri osaleka ndipo chonde…werengani zambiri
Ndinaganiza kuti ndiyesetse, mwina ndidzakumana ndi munthu, ndine wochokera ku Durban, South Africa
