How many red flags do you need to spot before you call it off?

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INFJ

Scorpio

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The number is climbing

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Libra

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INFJ

Scorpio

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I don’t really keep count, not all red flags are the same hue.

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

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I don't look for flags...so I'm going to sit this one out, over here. πŸ™πŸ½ Let's see what people have to say. Skipping the popcorn, feel like fries, today 🍟

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INFJ

Cancer

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Me: definitely 1!!!!! Also Me: When you're in love, those red flag🚩seem to be waving hello instead of warning you of trouble ahead!πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸš©

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INTJ

Virgo

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I love most of the answers given they might as well read depends are they rich and attractive or not lol. My opinion red flags are created by perception therefore there are no red flags! (edited)

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INFJ

Aries

When you're in love....it's very difficult to spot red flags... Especially if you don't have much experience, or know what to look for... But after a relationship ends...and time elapses, it becomes much more clear to see what those red flags were.. In the end though... You become wiser and more willing to see those red flags the next time around.. if you've learned anything that is...but sometimes love just blinds you, and you make excuses for the person...or just see what you want to see... Speaking from experience, but still learning πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ

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ENTP

Leo

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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A no no to people who doesn't have any dignity and integrity... What more to people who are very negative and toxic... To be a human we have to have moral and values... And to be peaceful and happy we have to set boundaries and limits for our own good... Remember our mental health and peace of mind matters most... Protect yourself from monsters... πŸ€ͺ✌️ Cheers! (edited)

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INTP

Cancer

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Enough to host a parade 😐

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ENFP

Aquarius

Red flags are often disguised as beige flags, you have to see and understand the intention of their soul firsthand to know

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INFP

Gemini

Relationships are work.. it means seeing each other for all their flaws and red flags and still choosing each other still loving each other and building on something that can last a life time most relationships don't last that long today is because a few red flags and they are gone instead of staying and talking working through it together. So I don't give up until I'm absolutely broken more than broken I stay to long that might be a problem but it also might be a blessing. To many people give up to easily and it's so sad. (edited)

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ESTJ

Libra

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I am colorblind

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INFP

Aries

Most likely 1. I consider red flags bad, not just mistakes. Mistakes will happen and that is okay.

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ENFP

Taurus

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Red flag means stop no? One red flag is the only correct answer.

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INFJ

Aries

3 tops

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INTP

Aries

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As many until it turns to a red carpet that I will use to walk out of. πŸ˜…

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INFP

Pisces

Decreasing my threshold

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ENFP

Leo

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Depends how funny they are..

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INFJ

Gemini

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One

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INFP

Pisces

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Idk..πŸ˜†

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INFP

Libra

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Max 3

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INFJ

Aquarius

Until it destroyed ur mental health

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INFP

Leo

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depends how bad the the red flags are but probably 3-7

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ISFP

Capricorn

Love is blind 😊

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INTJ

Taurus

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That's a hard question to answer. It really depends on the person & what kind of red flags. In general lying (even about little things) is a massive turn off for me & a 🚩for me.

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INFP

Scorpio

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I usually need to be smacked in the face by red flag before calling it quits lol

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ISTJ

Capricorn

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I accept a person as he is even he is a demon but just one betrayal it will be off.. (edited)

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ISFJ

Libra

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ISTJ

Aquarius

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ENFJ

Pisces

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ENFP

Libra

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This is sooo me.

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ENTP

Aries

i dont see them, or i pretend not to see them XD

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INFJ

Scorpio

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It's supposed to be from the first one, right?

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ESFJ

Virgo

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Depends on that shade of red. If it's light I can maybe potentially deal with it, but if it's hellish dark well no number would matter tbh it be over faster then it started.

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