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indlela esheshayo yokulahlekelwa ngumuzwa okanye uxhumano ngokuqinisekileyo ✨ukuziva ungathandi✨

Ubulungisa bokwenyani

Kwi-psychology yobudlelwane, kukho inyaniso eyisiseko: Indoda enokhuseleko lweengqondo kunye nokuphumelela ngokomoya ayizukuziva iphazamisekile kukhuseleko lwezezimali, umsebenzi onzima, okanye impumelelo yomntu wesifazane. Xa indoda inobungakanani obuphezulu bokuziveza kunye nesitayile…funda okungakumbi

Isikhumbuzo Esincinci Esivela kwiDovey Enemikhono: Awusoze Ube Nedwa 🕊️🌿

Namhlanje, ndandihleli engadini, ndicinga ngendlela endikwiSpain ngoku kunye nendlela, ngandlela thile, ubomi luqhubeka lungithumela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye ndandikho, ndiziva ndithintele kwi-labyrinth yeengcinga, ndibanjwe kumqondo wokuba kufuneka ndihambe kwakhona. Nangexesha ndifumanisa…funda okungakumbi

Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyaziva ngathi.. Ukunxibelelana kwabantu kuyingozi empilweni..

Uhlobo Lokunxibelelana Olukhuselekileyo

Kwipsychology yobudlelwane, ukuba ne "Uhlobo Lokunxibelelana Olukhuselekileyo" akutsho ukuba ubomi bakho bangaphambili babuphelele. Kum, kuthetha ukuba ixabiso lam eliyintloko alinakuthintelwa. 🛡️✨ Ndijongene neenkohliso ezinzima ebomini bam, ngaphezu kokuba ndingathanda ukuvuma, ndafumanisa…funda okungakumbi

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Ucinga ukuba umntu angathanda omnye umntu kwiiveki ezisixhenxe? 🤔 okanye ngaba kukukhathalela kuphela okukhuluma

Lalleshwari - Lal Ded

Hukus Bukus Teli Wan Cze Kus - Ungubani, kwaye ndinguubani? Ke ngoko sithumele, ungubani uYena [uMphangi]? Moh Batuk Logum Deg -Usuku ngalunye ndidla umzimba wam ngothando lwezinto zomhlaba (Moh) Shwas Khichh Khichh Wang-mayam -Njengoko umoya endiwuthathayo ufika ekuphiliseni…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Bonke abantu bendawo bayayigxeka okanye bayoyika, ndingenza ntoni?

Umfazi omnye nomnye bendawo endimfumana kwi-apps zokuthandana uhlala engumgibeli ogxekiweyo okanye umgibeli ongahlelekiyo ongakwazi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zam. Le yimeko yam apha kwaye andinakukwazi ukufumana nabani na onobudlelwane obuqinileyo okanye obukhathazekileyo ofuna mna kwaye…funda okungakumbi

OMG

Ukuvula intliziyo yam kuthando kunye nokunxibelelana kuyinto ed frightening kakhulu kum ngoku.

Imicabango?

Ukususela kumava, ndicinga ukuba isitshixo sokuphola kukungena ngamagqabantshintshi aphantsi kwaye ufumane umvuzo omhle ukuba umntu udlula la magqabantshintshi, ukususwa kokuxhomekeka kumphumo, kunye nokumema ubukho obuninzi kunye noxhumano olwenene xa kwenzeka 🙏

Ibali lam "Isahluko esitsha sokuphila" Masiqale isahluko esitsha sokuphila namhlanje, kwaye igama layo ngu NGOKU KUSENDA KUM.... Akukho nxibelelwano nomntu, akukho kulindela kumntu, akukho zixolelo zokulungile okanye zokungalungile, akukho budlelwane nabantu abazithandayo, akukho zikhumbuzo, akukho ukuzikhumbuza, akukho kuthembela kumntu! Ngoku kufuneka ndiphile o

Ukutshintsha kweMoya

Ndiyindoda engathembi, engazi nto eyam, ethanda iBuddhism kunye neMoya. Xa izinto ezilungileyo zenzeka njengoko ndise ndlela yokuphilisa, ndiba nolwazi ngakumbi, kwi hambo lokwenza umsebenzi wokuzithanda, ndikhula, ndifunda, ke ndiyamoya. Xa izinto ezimbi okanye imicimbi embi zenzeka ndibuya kwi…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Omunye wandibuza ukuba ndichaza njani ubuhlobo, kuba ndathi andikaze ndibe nalo ngempela...

Kutheni ubuhlobo bungekho bukhulu njengobudlelwane bobudlelwane, okanye ngaphezulu, xa beyi abantu ababini bekhetha omnye nomnye yonke imihla ngaphandle kokubopha kokufisa, umthwalo, okanye ukungapheli, kungabanjwanga ngamaqondo, izivumelwano, imali, abantwana, okanye impahla eqhutywayo, kodwa…funda okungakumbi

Kunzima ukusola ukuba le yintoni uthando, okanye ukuxhumana okanye mhlawumbi ukungonwabi.

Eweee ndilahlekile kuloo nto

Umbono wosuku 🤔

Ipsychology ithi abantu bahlala emtshatweni hhayi ngoba bejabulile, kodwa ngoba bahlobene ngokomoya okanye besaba ukuqala phantsi. Ngamanye amaxesha uthando luyavela… kodwa lungaba yinto yokwenziwa, induduzo, okanye ukusaba ubuhlwempu. 💬 Umbuzo othembekileyo: Uziqonda njani umahluko phakathi…funda okungakumbi

Bahlobo abajolise kum,

Yintoni eyimfuneko kumthandi wakho ukuze uzive uphephile ngokwaneleyo ukuze unciphise umgibeli wakho kwaye ukwenze ufune ukuzibophezela? Yeyiphi indlela yokunxibelelana oyithanda kwaye kutheni?

Iimovie

Ndijolise le movie kutshanje Ndiyintshukumo ye-horror enzima Mmmm bekulungile? Uhlobo lwe 🤔 Ihlekisa ngakumbi kunokuba ibangele ukoyika Imvakalelo yokunxibelelana engakhululekanga 😂 Ibhubesi ibingaphazamisi

Ubulili

Ndicinga ukuba umbuzo wexesha langoku ubalulekile, ngoko ndacinga ukuba ndiza kuqwalasela ukuba kuthetha ntoni kum. Iinyanga eziyi-2 zonyango emva kokuhlukana kwam zindifundisile izinto ezininzi. Ndandibandezeleka kakhulu kwiinyanga eziyi-10 zempilo yam ndizama ukwenza ubudlelwane buphumelele…funda okungakumbi

Ungaze uhlele izinga lakho nje ngoba uhleli wedwa 🫵

Ungaphosisi ukunakwa njengothando. Ungalibali iimbewu njengokutya okukhulu nje ngoba uhleli ulambile uthando. Ndandikho apho. Ndahlisa izinga lam, ndagqiba emigqeni yam, kwaye ndandijolise kumntu ongandihlangabezani naye ngokomoya—nje ngoba ndandicinga ukuba ungumntu ofanelekileyo. Ndandimthanda…funda okungakumbi

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Manga ndiyazi. Uthumele umyalezo kuwe yonke imihla. Wakubiza ngexesha elinzima. Wakwenza uzive ungumntu obalulekileyo. Wakuphatha njengesithandwa… de kube lixesha lokuba ube yinto enjalo. Emva koko, ngokukhawuleza waba “ungakulungelanga.” “Uphazamisekile.” “Ufun' ixesha.” Kwaye ngoku uhleli…funda okungakumbi

Uhlanga phakathi kwe-Anxious kunye ne-Avoidant

Ngezinye izikhathi ndibona umthunzi uphosa kubantu abanemikhwa yokugwema, ngokwesiqhelo ngabantu abanemikhwa yokuxhomekeka. Ngoko ke, ndicela ndibeke amagama koku ngenjongo yokuphucula ukuqonda ngakumbi. Uxhomekeko lokugwema alutsho ukuba umntu ubhujiswa kwiingxaki zothando okanye akafuni zona,…funda okungakumbi

Ngaba kutheni UTHANDO okanye nje UKUXHUMANA?

Limerence

Ukufunda ukuba umva endacinga ukuba uthando ayisiyo, kuyinto ethile ethakazelisayo ukuba ndingathetha... Ukufunda ngakumbi ukuba ingabandakanywa njani kumntwana wethu ongaphakathi kunye neendlela zethu zokunamathela ezifundiweyo kuyathakazelisa kakhulu!!( ilungisiwe)

Uthando lwam My Boo

Ngoko ke andikabi nactive njengoko ndandikade ndinako ngaphambi kokuphuma konyaka ophelileyo ngenxa yomsebenzi, umntwana wam, umhlobo wam, nezinye izinto ebomini. Kodwa namhlanje ndiyabhalela kuba ndihamba nomhlobo wam iminyaka eminye (ondihlangabeze kwi-app yeBoo), kwaye ndiyabulela ukuba le app…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Bobbisox!

UBobbisox wenza ukuphuculwa komntu ngoku. Yintoni isitayela sokunamathela sakho?

Ndandizama ukufumana umbono ojulileyo...

Ngokuthetha: "indawo oziva ungakhululekanga kuyo yindawo ukukhula kuqala." Kuba ukuphuma kwiindawo zakho zokhuseleko kubalulekile xa kufikwa kuloo nto. Kwaye endiyifumene kukuba: hayi yonke imvakalelo engakhululekanga ikhulisa. Ezinye iimvakalelo ezingakhululekanga ziveliswa kukungalingani,…funda okungakumbi

Uxinzelelo olukhathazayo

Ndihlala ndijongene nemiba yokuxinzelela ukuxhoma ubomi bam bonke. Eyona nto ibi kukuba ndizamile ukuba nomtsalane, ngokuqhubekayo ndinciphisa iimfuno zam kwaye ndizamile ukubeka omnye umntu phezulu ngenxa yokoyika ukuba baya kuhamba. Ukucela ukuqinisekiswa kunye nokuhlola kubonakala ngathi…funda okungakumbi

Uhlanga luyingcali engathandekiyo yeentlungu zethu ezininzi. Xa sithanda abantu, izinto, okanye iziphumo, sinika amandla okubaphula xa bejolise okanye bephuma.

Endaweni yokuba abafazi baphumelele, amadoda kufuneka

Ndiyakholelwa ukuba amadoda kufuneka afumane ithuba lokukhulelwa kuphela kwaye aphelelwe yindlela yokuphuma emva kokukhulelwa iminyaka emithathu. Ndiyacinga, ukuba amadoda anokubopha okungakumbi kwehormone, njengoko oomama benokubopha kwiingane zabo, bekungekho buhlungu obuninzi kulo mhlaba.

Ngaba kukho ophikayo okanye ophikayo?

Ndiyifundile ngakumbi malunga neendlela zokunamathela kwaye ngokwenene, oku akundixhalabisi nawaphi na umphandle ukuba ndiyifumene into eyintloko. Masithethe ngakho.

Iindlela Zokunxibelelana

Ndiyaphanda iindlela zokunxibelelana. Ndicinga ukuba yinto entle kumntu onomdla kubudlelwane obulungileyo ukwazi umgangatho wabo. Ndiyacinga ukuba kulungile ukuba sijolise kuloo nto…. Ndiyavuma ukuba ndinombono wokuthetha ngalo! NdiyiFearful Avoidant. Le ndlela ikhethekileyo ibonakala ngathi…funda okungakumbi

Uqhagamshelwano, ukuxhumana, okulindelweyo kuhlupha.

Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka wazi indawo yakho ebomini bomntu kuba ungaphosa umphosa ukuba ulindele kakhulu..

Uhlanga okanye Uthando. Uthanda ntoni

Ndihlala ndiziva ukuba abantu abaninzi abaqondi ngokupheleleyo ukuba ubomi kunye nobudlelwane bunokungaqinisekiswa kangakanani.

Akukhona nje ukuba abantu bayatshintsha ngexesha, kukwakho nokuba abanye abantu bangase bejolise ngokuthula ekushiyeni ubomi bethu, belindele ixesha elifanelekileyo, ngelixa thina singaboni okanye sikhethe ukignore iimpawu zokuxwayisa. Abantu abakufuphi nawe namhlanje abaqinisekanga ukuba baza…funda okungakumbi

Mhlawumbi umbono opholileyo, kodwa

Abantu abaninzi abanemikhwa yokugwema ubudlelwane bayisebenzisa njengexabiso lokungabikho kwemvakalelo endaweni yokuyilapha.

Uhlanga

Ngaba uyayithathela ingqalelo indlela yokunamathela komntu xa ulinganisa njengomlingane onokubakho kwiingxoxo ezizayo? Njengoko iimpawu ze zodiac okanye iintlobo ze MBTI—ezithathwa ngabanye abantu njengezibalulekileyo—ndiyavuma ukuba ndiyathanda ukwazi ukuba indlela yokunamathela nayo iyathathelwa…funda okungakumbi

UYAYAZI? ❤️🧠

Ukuthandana akwenziwa kuphela enhliziyweni yakho. Kwenza izinguquko ezilinganisekayo emkemisweni yakho yobuchopho. Ukudonswa kokuthandana kuhlanganisa izinhlelo zokreward ezihlobene ne-dopamine, kanti ukuhlanganiswa nokubopha kuhlanganisa amakhemikhali afana ne-oxytocin ne-vasopressin. Kodwa…funda okungakumbi