A few of my friends have pointed out that I may have Autism. I’ve always thought it was me being an anxious introvert. There are some things I do that I noticed until they were pointed out to me. I did some researching and found out it’s hard to tell when women have autism since we tend to mask our symptoms. I’m also an INFJ if you’re into MBTI. They mention quite a few of us are autistic. I took online tests, and they all point out I have very high autistic traits. To those who were diagnosed as adults, how was the assessment process? Was it expensive? How did it made you feel when you received your official diagnosis? Some people say I’ve lived this far without knowing about it or needing confirmation, but I want that reassurance so I know I’m just not making things up. How do you feel about yourself now?

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Aquarius

In my experience, getting a diagnosis (it was free btw) is the tip of the iceberg. It's still you. Accepting yourself and loving yourself for how you are is the most important thing imo.

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ESTP

Taurus

Since it’s been popularised people tend to band around observations that could apply to non autistic people too, claiming it’s “a sure sign of autism” 🤨🙄 In reality it’s all a load of nonsense, we’re all somewhere on the same spectrum, just at different points and who gives a damn what point one is at?! Rarely does adult diagnoses help in any tangible way for the person, so I fail to see the point in all that time and money for a label that a team of different psychologists in the future may place you elsewhere on the spectrum. It’s just absolute nonsense. Also seek better friends. I feel it’s a bit rubbish friends that try to belittle you or make you feel different on a low key way spectrum wise. Last of all, the mtbi system has be resoundingly renounced as utter nonsense in the psychology field (I know, I understand the irony of being here saying that), but take no stock in that at all, as star signs have even more validity than the mtbi system. (edited)

1mo

ENFP

Leo

I wouldn’t pay too much mind on those personally tests. They kind of push people to think they’re more on the spectrum than they actually are. I think you actually gotta get the diagnosis to know for certain. Also people who aren’t on the spectrum typically don’t have to ask themselves this question so that’s one indicator in my opinion.

1mo

INTJ

Capricorn

Went to Denver to see a specialist... I could probably tell you the details of the test... but I think it would defeat the purpose... learning I was autistic post college was somewhat validating in my struggles through school, a lack of any relationships, and life in general... it's also helped me realize I need to seek help from a therapist/psychologist who specializes in autism as opposed to one who doesn't... Will it change your life a ton? Probably not... but it is nice to know and understand how to work on issues.

1mo

INFP

Libra

I decided not to go for official diagnosis in the UK the wait is 3-4 years and I don't think it would change what I think about myself. I think it's a very personal thing and if you feel that the diagnosis will give you a light bulb moment then go for it but if you feel good in yourself then a bit of paper isn't going to change that

1mo

INFP

Taurus

At this point I think everyone has a little of the tism just on different scales

1mo

INTP

Aries

You can certainly not know this late in life. I've encountered people diagnosed in their 50s, even later. Especially women. Insurance usually covers testing, but if it will not the raw cost is around $3000 for ASD testing alone. Are the people suggesting you may have it autistic themselves? Because that tends to be a significant sign that it's worth looking into, especially if multiple people will ASD have suggested it. It took many hints from other autistics to find out at 43 that an autistim diagnosis was in fact lurking behind my ADHD.

1mo

ENTP

Cancer

It gives clarity but I wouldnt attach too strongly to the diagnosis. Its helpful to explain your brain to others but otherwise seems to put you in a box. Was diagnosed after consistent visits with psychiatrist, utilized dsm 5. She said it was clear outside of testing but I suppose it is nice to know for sure. Something concrete that explains why everyone seems so alien. I wasn't charged anything extra outside of my usual fee for my visits.

1mo

INTJ

Gemini

Had a similar discussion with friends the other night, but I've never done any test. But if I learned I was somewhere on the spectrum, I can't imagine it affecting my life in any significant way. I'd think, "oh, that's good to know I guess." But someone mentioned maybe seeing a therapist. I second that. I think everyone should see a therapist at least once a year. Especially for guys. There are a lot of guys, myself included who won't even tell their best friends certain things. Sometimes, things happen in their lives and we feel it's best to take it to our graves instead of ever sharing it

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INFJ

Taurus

Welcome to the "A" club, I was in same situation, someone told me same, but somehow I don't give too much importance to it, and live goes on. I wouldn't dare to go and do a proper investigation because it costs and after they will flag it in my health file and thanks but no need it.

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INFP

Capricorn

You know I have a buddy who calls.me autistic, after a while that became the only way to describe my antics and how my head works. Trust me my head works in weird ways. I cant give you an example... 🤔wait.. maybe... no.. but. Hmm. Well. Hmm. Its difficult? Like pretty much im just uh, hmm... well damn i had something there but I guess I lost it..

1mo

INTP

Cancer

Diagnosed 7 years ago. For me, it answered a lot of questions and gave me an indication of things I need to work on in order to sort out my life. I'd first ask yourself if a diagnosis would be a net positive to your life? If so go for it. If not, then it doesn't matter. Most people don't know what they're looking at when it comes to autism. My assessment was pretty straightforward. Just be honest with yourself and it makes answer questions much easier.

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In my experience, getting a diagnosis (it was free btw) is the tip of the iceberg. It's still you. Accepting yourself and loving yourself for how you are is the most important thing imo.

At this point I think everyone has a little of the tism just on different scales

Welcome to the "A" club, I was in same situation, someone told me same, but somehow I don't give too much importance to it, and live goes on. I wouldn't dare to go and do a proper investigation because it costs and after they will flag it in my health file and thanks but no need it.

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