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UKUKHUTSHELWA
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1nyanga
Umbuzo: uthini ngengqondo yokuthi "ulinde umntu"
ndicela undixelele ukuba uyafuna ukucaciselwa ngakumbi, ndiyavuyisana nje
7nyanga
NINI UBUZA UKUCACISWA KWEZINTO? (NGOKWENENE, "SINGOBANI?")
Oku kubonakala kukhuthaze impikiswano ethile kwi dms zam 😂. Ndiza kukuphosa. Nini niyabuza? Ukuba niyabuza nhlobo, oko...
9nyanga
Umdwebo
Ndenze nokuphosa umfanekiso ngediting kwi foni kunye nepeni ye color. Ukuze kucaciswe umfanekiso wesibini ngu peni ye color. Omabini la ndawana ndakha ndaguqula umfanekiso kwi foni yam njengovavanyo.( ilungisiwe)
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6nyanga
Enkosi ngencazelo 👏
3nyanga
🚫 Ubulungisa / Ukucwaswa / Ubulungisa beCaste
Kuyamangalisa kum ukuba abantu bangaba neentloni kangaka kumntu naliphi na ixesha apha. Ndiyavuma ukuba ndonwabile ngexperience endijolise kuyo kumfana ophuma eTurkey Ebuza kum malunga nabafazi abakhokhela umtshato kunye neefudu zaseIndiya Njengoko unokubona kwi profayili yam, ndibukeka…funda okungakumbi
5nyanga
Ubulumko bezemotion
Andikaze ndiyiqonde kakuhle le nto ibonakala iyinto. Ndinecebo elisekelwe kwindlela esetyenziswa ngayo ngokuxhaphakileyo kodwa andicingi ukuba le nto iyinyani kwaye ukuba iyinyani ngaba sikholelwa ukuba zininzi abafazi abanobulumko bezemotion 🤔? Nceda ucacise ❤️
5nyanga
Ubuqhetse?
Ngoku ndandikhe ndadlula kumntu owayengumhlobo wam, oko kwabangela umkhukula omkhulu wez emotional kunye neengcinga. Ndaphosa ukuba ndikhe ndahlulwa ngababini bahlobo bam bephila bonke ngaxeshanye...ndilahlekelwe ngabo bonke ngexesha elinye ngaphandle kokuba neengqiqo okanye isizathu esingaphaya…funda okungakumbi
10nyanga
Ndifuna ukucaciselwa
2nyanga
I-amp yegitare yokuqala endiyenzileyo!
Ngoko ndingu guy ongakholelwayo ophosa malunga neveki ephakathi kwikholwa. Kutheni? Kulungile kuba ndiyalungisa izinto ekholweni. Hayi nje ikholwa enye. Ngamanye amaxesha zonke iikholwa ezikufutshane neSt Louis! Kwaye abantu bahloniphekile. Nokuba ndiza kuya emlilweni, bahlala bejolise kum. LOL.…funda okungakumbi
1nyanga
Ubani uYesu Kristu kum?
Ndifuna kuqinisekisa okokuqala, ndiphile ubomi bam bonke njengoJuda kwaye ndihlala eIsrael apho inani elikhulu labantu linguJuda. Uqinisekiso: Molo mfumbe onwabileyo! Nokuba ungumfowethu/umfowethu kuKristu, mhlawumbi ungumfundi onomdla ofuna ukwazi ukuba njani na isimo apho uJuda uthetha noYesu…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
8nyanga
Umbuzo womhla
Ukuba ungumntu ophilayo, ungathanda ukuba ngubani? Ukuze ucacise: Awukwazi ukuphinda ubuyele, kuzomele ube nalo mzimkhulu. Ugcina imemori zakho kunye nobuntu bakho, cinga ngalo njengokutshintsha komzimba.
10nyanga
Yintoni iwindi lakho lokudakumba?
Yinxalenye yexesha ukusuka kwiintlanganiso zakho zokugqibela (incoko/ukuthinta/uthando) ukuya ekungabikho kwentlanganiso. Zingaphi iintsuku kuwe de kube umva umva? Kum, ziyi-4-5 iintsuku. Kuya kuba kuhluke kumntu nomntu. Ukuba ufuna ukucaciselwa ngakumbi, uzive ukhululekile ukubuza kwiimpendulo.
1nyanga
Ubani uYesu Kristu kum?
Ndifuna kuqinisekisa kuqala, ndiphile ubomi bam bonke njengoJuda kwaye ndihlala eIsrael apho inani elikhulu labantu linguJuda. Uqinisekiso: Molo mfumbe onwabileyo! Nokuba ungumfowethu/umfowethu kuKristu, mhlawumbi ungumfundi onomdla ocinga ukuba njani na isimo apho uJuda uthetha noYesu okanye…funda okungakumbi
5nyanga
Ukucaciswa...
Kwabo balimele kukuthetha kwam kwangaphambili malunga nokungakwazi ukusebenza, i-Autism kunye ne-Dissociation, khumbulani ndiphuma kwi-Autism kunye ne-Neurodivergent advocacy iminyaka engama-15-16. Andithethi ukuba i-Autism = i-Dissociation, andithethi ukuba abo babiza oku njengokungakwazi…funda okungakumbi
2nyanga
Umbuzo ongumbuzo andiqondi ukuba ndifuna ukufaka ntoni apha
Bendifuna ukucaciselwa ngento ethile, ukuba ndicofa kwi- blue heart kumntu, ngaba bayabona okanye bafumana isaziso sokuba ndifake lokho okanye ngaba bafumana isaziso kuphela ukuba ndibathumele i-pink heart?
3nyanga
Umqondo Ohotywayo: Akukho nto ibizwa ngokuba yi-introverted extrovert / extroverted introvert.
Kubizwa ngokuba yi-Ambivert. Okanye, i-Omnivert. Kodwa oko kungenzeka kuthetha ukuba ungumBipolar (uhlelwe ukuze kucaciswe)( ilungisiwe)
10nyanga
Ewe, enkosi
Ndiyazi indawo yam, kodwa enkosi ngencazelo. Ukuba ndingakwenza, ndingakwenza. Kodwa akusiyo kum. Ekupheleni ndicinga ukuba konke endinokukwenza kukuhlukanisa, ukuze ndincede kwaye ndilalele. Kuba kukho ithuba elincinci kakhulu lokuba nantoni na ikhule kuloo mhlaba. Kodwa andinakukwazi ukuzisola,…funda okungakumbi
11nyanga
Ukucaciselwa
11nyanga
Iingcinga zibhubhisa unxibelelwano
Ndiyabandakanyeka ebomini ukuba ndinika ixesha kuwe, thatha ukuba uyandithanda. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyathanda ukucinga ngempembelelo yam. Ngamanye amaxesha ndihamba kwaye ndincoma ukuba ndiza kuphendula kamva. Iingcinga zibhubhisa unxibelelwano. Ikakhulu xa zingabelwanga nomntu owenza iingcinga…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
2y
ukhetho, ukhetho
*kunye/nokuba intombazana ethile kwi-apartment yakho -ukucacisa nje ukuba le yikhumbuzo elilingana 😂🤣( ilungisiwe)
4y
Ukufuna vs Ukufuneka
Ngokuba abaninzi benu babonakala bejolise kwiimeko ezimbini kwaye badinga ukucaciswa ngeeposi ezininzi ezibuza umbuzo ofanayo, ndiza kukunceda. Kulungile ngokupheleleyo *ukufuna* umlingane. Okungakulunganga kukucinga ukuba *ufuneka* umlingane. Ukuba awujolise kakuhle njengomntu omnye, awuyi kuba…funda okungakumbi
2y
Abantu abashiyeneyo abanye abantu, abakhangeleka njengabantu abafanelekileyo kumtshato. Nangona kungakhathaliseki ukuba kutheni, nangona besa kuthi bayakuthanda... abantu abashiyeneyo abo babenobudlelwane nabo, abakhangeleka beqotho. Abantu abanjalo, awufuni ukuba babe ngababantu obanika indawo empilweni yakho. -Matthew Hussey #phola
Uphosa ixabiso lakho ngexesha lonke xa ubuza "kungani", isizathu asibalulekanga. Ngaba uyafuna ngempela abantu abanjalo abaphuma kwiingxaki ngenxa yokuba kubenza bangakhululeki?( ilungisiwe)
3y
ubaba wam undinike i zongzi (i dumplings zecwecwe) izolo kwaye zikhumbuza kakhulu 🥹
Ndakhulela ndizidla rhoqo kuba uTata wam wayezikha, kodwa andizidli kangako ukusukela kokuba uphumelele. Ukuze kucaciswe, zihlala zifana neetamalas zaseTshayina lol
2y
Enkosi ngencazelo
2y
Umsitho wemovie
Bendinokuhlela nomphakathi ophuma emsebenzini ukuba siye kubukela uDeadpool noWolverine. Sibe nezi zicwangciso ngaphezu kwesixhenxe. Ndabuza namhlanje ekuseni ukuba sisenza njalo kwaye ndathi ukuba ukuba usafuna ukuya, ndiyavuma. Ndandihamba ukuze ndiqinisekise ngentsasa kwaye ndiyaziqinisekisa…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
1y
🖤 Ukucaciswa Post (kulabo baphazamisekile)
Kuyamangalisa indlela abanye benu bacinga ngayo ukuba le nto ibalulekile ngemali. Lokho kuthetha ngakumbi ngawe kunam. Ndifuna uthando. Uthando oluthule… …olunamava… …olubhalwe kwi-will. Akukho nto ibalulekile kuphela. Abanye bethu balwela ubulumko, iimpilo ezindala, kunye nokuthula…funda okungakumbi
2y
Uchwepheshe
Ndifumana iimeko ezininzi zokuthetha kwaye kuyandixhalabisa. Andinakukwazi ukuphendula imiyalezo, uxolo, bafowethu. Kodwa ndiyathanda ukuposa apha kunye nokuthetha kwiimmenti ngoko ke uzive ukhululekile ukundithumela phantsi kweeposi zam♡ Ngaba kulungile ukuba ndifumana inani elikhulu leemvoti xa…funda okungakumbi
3y
"Ethical" non-monogamy, ingxaki?
Ukuba sithi "ethical monogamy", kubukeka njani kumazwi akho? Kubonakala ngathi kuthetha ukuba isimo esiqhelekileyo se-monogamy asilunganga kwaye kudingeka ukucaciswa. Kunjalo nangokungabi ne-monogamy. Iimeko zoxolo azikho ngokwendlela zihlala zilungile okanye zingalunganga. Izenzo ezikwiimeko…funda okungakumbi
4y
Ukucaciswa
Kuba bonke abaphendulayo kwi posi yam malunga nokufumana inja kuba ndidiniwe. Ndiyathembisa ukuba bekuyintoni nje umphosa kwaye ndiyavuma ukuba ndiyifundile iinjana iminyaka emininzi kwaye ndiyangena esikolweni ukuze ndibe ngugqirha wezilwanyana. Ndinga kuthi andizukuthenga isilwanyana ngaphandle…funda okungakumbi