I’m so sick of being led on and tossed aside for someone else. The past year has been the year of depression for me. Literally every time I find someone I vibe with, I’m replaced so easily by them. I don’t think I’ll ever find the person to start a family with and that sincerely upsets me because I just want to begin my love life beyond all the abuse and drama I’ve had over the last decade. [Edit: I’m meaning both irl and online, it’s the same outcome no matter the platform] (edited)

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Shannon

9mo

INTJ

Cancer

It's really difficult. I've been getting the same thing. Everyone just seems to want to keep their options open.

Marc

9mo

INTP

Virgo

Most people online are here for a quick hook up. They have no interest in anything beyond that. Most of the others are needy, clingy and damaged individuals who lack self worth and place all their self worth in you. It's not your fault, they know no better, and resort to damaging behaviour to reinforce what they believe about themselves.

Xander

9mo

ENFP

Virgo

Yeah I know what that feels like and you’re not alone Chloe 😊 If you ever want anyone to talk to, my doors always open for a chat 😊😊

Dasha 🌼🍊

9mo

INFP

Damn this year just started lol But same, nobody stays for long. I think about leaving this idea of relationships bc I see no hope for me lmao I think it's nice to live without needing relationships

Mariana

9mo

INFP

Gemini

Relatable. I feel like I’m always gonna be a fling and not a wife. Don’t give up though

Florian

9mo

INFP

Virgo

You might want to look into what makes you choose men that eventually toss you aside, especially if it has happened several times.

Michael

9mo

INTJ

Capricorn

I know how you feel. I'm at my wits end about it as well. But hey at least they will talk with you. Every single one of my messages just gets flat out ignored. And that's not an exaggeration.

Sam

9mo

INTP

Aries

I'm sure you'll find someone, I know how hard it can be at times

Xander

9mo

ENFP

Virgo

It’s like, if I may say so? I think you look lovely in your profile pictures, and I’m always open for a conversation if you wanted one 😊😊

Chris

9mo

ENTP

Well online people are often treated like npcs, but then also tend to be the more socially inept (There is always space for more OW players if that's a platform you are on). IRL my experience is that no-one wants to take the time to get to know someone. They very accurately point out that life is fleeting and that what they really want is a connection, deep, meaningful and with the right person, but if they don't "feel it" then it's not worth trying to find. However it's that act of trying to find it with someone that forges the connection that is desired, whilst a person might vibe quickly with someone else on some issues there may be large disconnects that are later found.

Eduard Ey

9mo

INFP

Virgo

You have done your best. Cheer up, here is a virtual hug from me.

Andreas Sauer

9mo

ISTJ

Sagittarius

Have faith boo - you'll find someone who doesn't want to push you aside, but feel like they've won at life for being with you

Oscar

9mo

INTP

Taurus

I think the issue is with today's culture, people don't know what loyalty looks like, they just want to have the next best thing, wearing their red flags like a mark of pride. And worst of all, they don't learn from their mistakes, they laugh about it and find the next poor git to traumatise.

Tudor

9mo

INTP

Capricorn

Well, at the end of the day, it's their loss, not yours. You have to embrace the fact that you're unique and not everyone can handle that. I used to be like you at some point in life and then I've realized that, you know what? It is what it is, so let's make the full of it. I've realized that, nowadays, no one wants a guy which comes at the end of the day tired, but genuinely willing to find out how was her day, if she's fine or not, maybe a "hey, let's watch/play something together" or even a kiss on the forehead as a "Hey, I've missed you today". So I'd say keep your chin up, you'll find your guy. It's just a matter of time.

Wayne

9mo

INFP

Libra

I've had the same thing happen to me constantly. Same as you I just want someone

Saif

9mo

INTP

Leo

Keep your options open as much as we are dying inside to find the one maybe the person we truly think "is the one isn't" At the end you learn from your mistakes and everything that happens. It's ok to be alone maybe theres something better around the corner good things take time for now work on yourself.. Look for someone drama free and genuine its hard to find but they are out there you just have to look in the right places.

Joseph

9mo

ENTP

Pisces

Usually make jokes but have a friend that keeps moving around because she keeps getting her heart broken. She just ran off to another rebound, I say the same thing I told her, probably get in just as much trouble but this is a from a place of love. If all they guys are the same check the source were your finding them. Maybe its a time to look outside what you think you want and in places and with people who you know have what you need but are beneath you are are not cool enough maybe they have a different opinion then you. If the water is poison find new water trying to drink from the same well will get you killed. Sorry if that was mean but I do wish you all the best.

🇵🇱Christopher 🇵🇱

9mo

INFP

Aquarius

I'm sorry, that's why I'm not looking for someone by force, the one I'm meant to find will be different, it won't be what God wanted

Anna

9mo

INFJ

Cancer

It's hard to find someone to be with for a longer time. But if you will keep looking while being honest with yourself, you will soon find the person whom you are looking for. I hope you will find soon the right person for you. 😊

James

9mo

INTP

Capricorn

@Chloe That makes two of us. My personal pet peve is seemingly having to keep the conversation going every single time in most cases.

Bacon

9mo

INFP

Cancer

I know the feeling. Chin up and game on :)

Hexadecimal

9mo

INTJ

Taurus

20 years ahead of you, and still relatable. Best of luck 💔

Rajat

9mo

ISFP

Libra

Well the sooner u accept it the better. You are gonna die alone 🫠 I have accepted that since the beginning of my "love life"

Richie

9mo

ISTJ

Taurus

It's not just you, it's how things seem to be now.

Ariel

9mo

ISFJ

Cancer

You're still young, I believe in you 💪

Paul

9mo

INFJ

Aquarius

These people are obviously not worth your time! If they don’t accept you for being you, then that is their problem. Bide your time babba, someone will find you one day, you’re still young ❤️

Gareth

9mo

INFJ

Scorpio

You seem pretty awesome, so you will definitely find what you're looking for! Hopefully sooner, rather than later; but unfortunately these things can't be rushed 😔

Bali

9mo

ENFP

Cancer

So sad to hear others feeling down like that. Its not okay to toy with others and just toss them aside after. I'm sorry to hear that it happened but just focus on yourself and get to know it more and love it like thats the most important thing there is, cuz it is. The universe will know it and it'll happen like a lightning out of the clear blue sky✨⚡️ Focus on your hobbies and stay focused on walking the road which you paved for yourself and dont look for other seemingly better paths because its gonna be a hard walk back. ✨ I hope you'll find it with a nice shovel a smile on your face :)

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Dating Community

It's really difficult. I've been getting the same thing. Everyone just seems to want to keep their options open.

Yeah I know what that feels like and you’re not alone Chloe 😊 If you ever want anyone to talk to, my doors always open for a chat 😊😊

Damn this year just started lol But same, nobody stays for long. I think about leaving this idea of relationships bc I see no hope for me lmao I think it's nice to live without needing relationships

Relatable. I feel like I’m always gonna be a fling and not a wife. Don’t give up though

You might want to look into what makes you choose men that eventually toss you aside, especially if it has happened several times.

I know how you feel. I'm at my wits end about it as well. But hey at least they will talk with you. Every single one of my messages just gets flat out ignored. And that's not an exaggeration.

I'm sure you'll find someone, I know how hard it can be at times

It’s like, if I may say so? I think you look lovely in your profile pictures, and I’m always open for a conversation if you wanted one 😊😊

You have done your best. Cheer up, here is a virtual hug from me.

Have faith boo - you'll find someone who doesn't want to push you aside, but feel like they've won at life for being with you

I think the issue is with today's culture, people don't know what loyalty looks like, they just want to have the next best thing, wearing their red flags like a mark of pride. And worst of all, they don't learn from their mistakes, they laugh about it and find the next poor git to traumatise.

I've had the same thing happen to me constantly. Same as you I just want someone

I'm sorry, that's why I'm not looking for someone by force, the one I'm meant to find will be different, it won't be what God wanted

It's hard to find someone to be with for a longer time. But if you will keep looking while being honest with yourself, you will soon find the person whom you are looking for. I hope you will find soon the right person for you. 😊

@Chloe That makes two of us. My personal pet peve is seemingly having to keep the conversation going every single time in most cases.

I know the feeling. Chin up and game on :)

20 years ahead of you, and still relatable. Best of luck 💔

Well the sooner u accept it the better. You are gonna die alone 🫠 I have accepted that since the beginning of my "love life"

It's not just you, it's how things seem to be now.

You're still young, I believe in you 💪

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