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Posted Thursday, January 5, 2023
2y
ENFJ
Gemini
Standards
Have people developed standards that are just a little too high for their potential person?
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Tony
2y
INFJ
Virgo
Unfortunately it's true. People have become a lot more shallow, couple that with the ghosting culture and you have our mess of a dating world. More people seem to be looking sugar-partners than they are lifelong companions. Mind you, I'm speaking in generalities and not about any one person or group. There are plenty of people who are thriving in this dating world. However, they tend to be the more physically attractive ones. Their dilemma is sifting through all their options and avoiding the bad ones.
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Abram
2y
ISTP
Pisces
People on both sides have unrealistic standards.
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Madness
2y
INFJ
Aries
Absolutely, both men and women. Men think they are better than they actually are and women think they are princess that need only breath to deserve royalty treatment. In a way both men and women now a days are too spoil by their parents and that lead to this big time. People used to know that everyone was flawed and were willing to put effort into making a happy life as to now people expect the other person to do all the work and as a soon as they have to put effort into the relationship they want to quit. I'm 99.99% sure no one will ever find someone who is 100% your match in every aspect. 14 years in a great relationship that never gave up regardless of the challenges and both of us growing out of ideas and other bs that our families had planted on our heads about how relationships should be. A happy life is better than a high standard not deserved life
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Greg
2y
ENFJ
Scorpio
Yes, standards are alittle to high I feel.. and to start off.. there is nothing wrong with having standards by any means.. but having overly high standards is a very big issue. Now I'm just saying I just want everyone to just settle for anything that comes.. but understand that people are flawed they change, for better or worst. I always felt that anybody can fall under anyone sets of standards but it's if they willing to do so this is the course excluding skin colors and other things you physically cannot help.
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Eric
2y
ISTJ
Cancer
Idk about men, but people point this out with women all the time. Women are more materialistic and want a comfortable environment. They look for men making money, but the margin of men making over 100 grand is much smaller than you think. That on top of your other desires usually mean their ideal is in the top 5% of guys or less
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Joshua
2y
ISFP
Yeah
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Joel
2y
ISTJ
Pisces
I think everyone's standards have gotten out of control. Especially in the dating scene. Stuff I used to put up with when I was younger I no longer put up with now. If I detect games in any way or I am the only one asking questions and even keeping the conversation going, you get ghosted. I want to be proved to that you're truly interested in me. If I give you time, that's all you nedd to know you have my attention.
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