What would you if the person who liked you first replys with dry text when you chat them first?

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6mo

INFJ

Scorpio

If it’s up to me to save this conversation then it’s already lost.

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INFP

Leo

Do not put much effort if the other person is not that into you

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INFJ

Aquarius

If you like them too give them time and chance maybe they are just having a rough day and need to process whatever they are having, it's not always about you. But don't give too many chances that you'll end up being the one chasing them. 🙃

6mo

INFJ

Scorpio

If it stays that way…

6mo

INTJ

Capricorn

Offer milk or butter to make it less dry

6mo

INTJ

Cancer

Even worse, what would I do if I receive a grammatically incorrect response partially missing words?

6mo

ESFJ

Sagittarius

👀🤪😳👻🤷🤷‍♀️✌️ Cheers! 😆🌻🌈💕✨️

6mo

ENFJ

Libra

😂😂😂

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

I'm assuming this means when someone sends you a like and you match them, then send a message, only to be met with dry conversation. Simple, I won't be as dry. "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind", and all that, (shout out to M.M.Gandhi 😇)..Instead, I'll just evaporate and fly away 👀🤭 (because heat causes drought.. hence talking of evaporation... for those who never understand my sarcasm/jokes). Thankfully, I'm not here for that so don't have to deal with those. 🤭🫣

6mo

INFP

Capricorn

I'd abandon ship pretty quickly.

6mo

ISFP

Sagittarius

The more I read through these replies, the more they frustrate me. “Dry” doesn’t mean not replying or that the person doesn’t care or isn’t interested — it just means they’re not good at writing or don’t realise their messages come across as dry. If they didn’t care, they wouldn’t message at all. It’s so easy for women — they do nothing and just filter through messages and photo combos that stand out. But for guys, we generally have to work at it. It’s like a full-time job just to find a girl and get things going. That’s fine if your brain is good at it and you have the time, but even then, it’s mentally draining. Even when I have a good month and really focus on it, I start getting replies — only for them to go dry again, ghost me, or completely misunderstand me. The other day I got blocked before I even had a chance to explain myself, all because they misunderstood what I meant. Girls want us to understand them, but they don’t always care to understand us. I’m just about done with the idea of dating. Six years single, and you know what? I’m happy with my life. I miss the love and companionship, sure — but it’s their loss. They don’t know what a good, honest, one-of-a-kind guy they’re missing out on.

6mo

INFJ

Libra

Swiftly

6mo

INTJ

Leo

No reply is a reply. Dry texter is uninterested. Jump to another one who gives the same effort as you do.. but at the same time be respectful of each other's private time.. we all have days that we just have to rest to re-energize.

6mo

ENFP

Pisces

This is to be expected in today's dating world. I would overlook it a few times, maybe even give some space. I keep the door open, wish them a happy holiday every now and than. They'll come back around later, but if someone else comes in more enthused or if they are too blatantly rude it's obvious they wouldn't care that my time goes elsewhere anyway so I just move on. Doesn't mean I need to talk to a bunch of people. I don't try to talk to too many people at a time now even when someone disappoints me. It's just too tiring. I really do like when someone has a well written profile and doesn't make basic information an interrogation or loss of the great big "mystery". (edited)

6mo

INFP

Pisces

I would like to save the conversation and see where it goes

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INTP

Scorpio

I'm talking to you because I'm interested, not because I want to give a conversation CPR.

6mo

INTJ

Capricorn

Hmm.. that depends actually.. try a little and if it’s doesn’t change, i just ignored it.. *fun fact: A good conversationalist is rare, so if you find one.. you’re lucky!

6mo

INFP

Libra

I’d try to start a conversation maybe there not good at small talk!!

6mo

INFP

Time is far too precious and finite. Rather use it wisely by being a goof or doing something chaotically cosmic. 🤘😝 I'd do one of these and move on with my day.

6mo

INFP

i would've unmatched with him atp

6mo

INTJ

Capricorn

I usually give a few chances then move on

6mo

INFJ

Capricorn

Looks like we’re back to square one again

6mo

ENFP

Aquarius

…assumed that the person lost interest

6mo

INFP

Aries

Can i just cry? (Depending on how close i actually am with them tho)

6mo

INFP

Gemini

I'm out immediately🤷🏽‍♀️

6mo

INFP

Cancer

I would ask is everything alright?

6mo

ENFJ

That’s ok. We are not friends)

6mo

INFP

Scorpio

Yaa id probably just stop responding to that person ngl

6mo

ESTJ

Capricorn

Ghost them

6mo

INTP

Aquarius

On to the next one

6mo

ENFJ

Leo

I would just stop speaking to them. 😅 They're not interested

6mo

INTJ

Gemini

Match their energy

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INFJ

Libra

Ask them in a voice note what they like about my profile to give them a chance to open up and engage, maybe they are just shy or awkward.

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ISTP

Gemini

The grammar in this question is crazy

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What would you if the person who liked you first replys with dry text when you chat them first?

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If it’s up to me to save this conversation then it’s already lost.

Do not put much effort if the other person is not that into you

If you like them too give them time and chance maybe they are just having a rough day and need to process whatever they are having, it's not always about you. But don't give too many chances that you'll end up being the one chasing them. 🙃

If it stays that way…

Offer milk or butter to make it less dry

Even worse, what would I do if I receive a grammatically incorrect response partially missing words?

👀🤪😳👻🤷🤷‍♀️✌️ Cheers! 😆🌻🌈💕✨️

😂😂😂

I'd abandon ship pretty quickly.

Swiftly

No reply is a reply. Dry texter is uninterested. Jump to another one who gives the same effort as you do.. but at the same time be respectful of each other's private time.. we all have days that we just have to rest to re-energize.

I would like to save the conversation and see where it goes

I'm talking to you because I'm interested, not because I want to give a conversation CPR.

Get over it 💅

Hmm.. that depends actually.. try a little and if it’s doesn’t change, i just ignored it.. *fun fact: A good conversationalist is rare, so if you find one.. you’re lucky!

I’d try to start a conversation maybe there not good at small talk!!

Time is far too precious and finite. Rather use it wisely by being a goof or doing something chaotically cosmic. 🤘😝 I'd do one of these and move on with my day.

Block..

i would've unmatched with him atp

okay, next. lol

I usually give a few chances then move on

Looks like we’re back to square one again

…assumed that the person lost interest

Can i just cry? (Depending on how close i actually am with them tho)

I'm out immediately🤷🏽‍♀️

I would ask is everything alright?

That’s ok. We are not friends)

Yaa id probably just stop responding to that person ngl

Ghost them

On to the next one

I would just stop speaking to them. 😅 They're not interested

Leave end of discussion

Match their energy

Ask them in a voice note what they like about my profile to give them a chance to open up and engage, maybe they are just shy or awkward.

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The grammar in this question is crazy

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